Taboo Topics You'd Never Touch

twysted73

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~ Time to start touching. :devil: ~

As I continue to frequent this forum...I see a pattern. Certain topics are talked about. Certain ones are essentially black balled and stamped out like elements of a potential brush fire.
Understanding, too, that there are rules of topic restriction even here in a discussion board touted as a place welcoming freedom of speach and expression of thought. (not criticism mind you. Simply observation only)

I entitled this thread "Taboo Topics" for three reasons. First, to generate interest here. Second to perhaps draw the most affluent and passionately expressive memebers of the two prevelent groups I see here in Lit. That would be the Old Timer's Camp where quite a few of you know one another almost like neighbors. Then there's the Young Buck Camp of people who know very few regulars if anyone at all and may feel slightly intimidated by the click blocks floating around. And, thirdly, I wanted to create a thread that might be used as a reference/discussion thread in the future for any "newbs" that wander in and attempt to broach topics not accepted here. Maybe...we might even get lucky, push a "lit boundry" or two and make even one topic that was previously unacceptable, acceptable.

So....I pose the question to Y/you A/all. What are your most "Hardest Limits"? What makes them so horrible to you that you'd never try them?

I will start by covering a limit I feel, if you wish to be considered part of the human race at all, should be universal. The innocent. Those of decreased mental/emotional capacity who are unable to decide for themselves what activities they want to engage in.
A more attainable Limit....Breath Play. I am intreagued by the testimonys of those who've tried it and enjoyed it. But what has me keeping it in the Hard Limit box is the reason behind the lack of input from those who've failed at it. Reason being, they're mostly dead.
 
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I'm feeling left out...I am still wondering for the thousandth time who these 'click/clique' group people are that get referred to so often. Maybe I am missing something. :confused:

As to the question of participation of decreased mental/emotional capacity people, I would need more explanation on what that covers before I could comment. Will be interesting to see if you get any new taboos mentioned here as I am fresh out of ideas of what has not been touched on at some point here but always willing to find out what I might have been missing out on. :cathappy:

Catalina :catroar:
 
catalina_francisco said:
I'm feeling left out...I am still wondering for the thousandth time who these 'click/clique' group people are that get referred to so often. Maybe I am missing something. :confused:

As to the question of participation of decreased mental/emotional capacity people, I would need more explanation on what that covers before I could comment. Will be interesting to see if you get any new taboos mentioned here as I am fresh out of ideas of what has not been touched on at some point here but always willing to find out what I might have been missing out on. :cathappy:

Catalina :catroar:

Children, down syndrome/autism/retardation. (to name a few mental/emotional defficiencies)
 
New taboos?

*thinks hard, can't think of any*

Clicks

*thinks hard, can't think of any here at Lit*

People who can't think for themselves? Icky!

*shakes head*

That's a taboo for me! Hey! New taboo. Well, not really new, but, perhaps not talked of as a specific taboo here before?

*chuckles*

Diminished capacity for me doesn't equal innocent at all. It does equal do not touch and frankly why would you want to? No legal consent can be made. I think only someone with self esteem problems would hit on that.
 
twysted73 said:
Children, down syndrome/autism/retardation. (to name a few mental/emotional defficiencies)


Hmmm, see i don't necessarily see them as mental/emotional deficiencies, especially autism, but then perhaps that is more personal then clinical.....and they are all widely different from each other in terms of how those conditions manifest in a person and their life.

Catalina :catroar:
 
FurryFury said:
New taboos?

*thinks hard, can't think of any*

Clicks

*thinks hard, can't think of any here at Lit*

People who can't think for themselves? Icky!

*shakes head*

That's a taboo for me! Hey! New taboo. Well, not really new, but, perhaps not talked of as a specific taboo here before?

*chuckles*

Diminished capacity for me doesn't equal innocent at all. It does equal do not touch and frankly why would you want to? No legal consent can be made. I think only someone with self esteem problems would hit on that.


Ok not really a taboo, but how about as a learning curve, an enforced role reversal between partnered D/S couples where in order to be classed as complete the safeword limit has to be reached.
If that was done i wonder how many dynamics would be changed?

chew the cud people :)
 
catalina_francisco said:
I'm feeling left out...I am still wondering for the thousandth time who these 'click/clique' group people are that get referred to so often. Maybe I am missing something. :confused:

As to the question of participation of decreased mental/emotional capacity people, I would need more explanation on what that covers before I could comment. Will be interesting to see if you get any new taboos mentioned here as I am fresh out of ideas of what has not been touched on at some point here but always willing to find out what I might have been missing out on. :cathappy:

Catalina :catroar:
Me too..
I am left out so I will sit with you in your 'left out section' Catalina.
Errr... if you'll have me that is. You may not want me there as i have already, by what the first post suggests[OP]... been labeled as taboo. I like breath play..... ;)

Geez.. and I haven't even listed a single thing that I enjoy which is taboo....
I was taboo before I even got started on this one. :D

I must be either very good or very bad. LOL

Only thing I will say on the subject and keep a serious face and tone toward:
One person's idea of boring is another's hard core.
Same goes with taboos. ;)
 
mickyp123 said:
Ok not really a taboo, but how about as a learning curve, an enforced role reversal between partnered D/S couples where in order to be classed as complete the safeword limit has to be reached.
If that was done i wonder how many dynamics would be changed?

chew the cud people :)

That could be very interesting. It wouldn't be taboo for me though.
 
sinn0cent1 said:
Me too..
I am left out so I will sit with you in your 'left out section' Catalina.
Errr... if you'll have me that is. You may not want me there as i have already, by what the first post suggests[OP]... been labeled as taboo. I like breath play..... ;)

Geez.. and I haven't even listed a single thing that I enjoy which is taboo....
I was taboo before I even got started on this one. :D

I must be either very good or very bad. LOL

Only thing I will say on the subject and keep a serious face and tone toward:
One person's idea of boring is another's hard core.
Same goes with taboos. ;)


LOL, you're welcome to sit awhile with me anytime. :cathappy: And yes, what you say about the interpretations of taboo are true for the most part.....and most of the things on my list of things I have done and which often are considered taboo by more rather than less were all things I had tried before ever getting into D/s, except for breath play, and I do love it also. It is fascinating watching the scale of taboo slide on most people's radars over time though...it happens to the best and worst of us. :D


As an afternote, children have been discussed here often in many contexts, but I don't think you would find many who see it as OK to pursue as a reality....and for the curious among those who don't know me well (before I get inundated with accusations like once before), it is not one of the things I have done or ever had any desire to do. :rose:

Catalina :catroar:
 
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mickyp123 said:
Ok not really a taboo, but how about as a learning curve, an enforced role reversal between partnered D/S couples where in order to be classed as complete the safeword limit has to be reached.
If that was done i wonder how many dynamics would be changed?

chew the cud people :)
So I was wrong. I WILL say more on this subject .

I don't see it being changed so much as I see it being more fitting if tossed in the chategory of 'not likely to happen' in most relationships which hold to predefined PYL/pyl dynamics........... except in the possible case of Switch/switch . *shrugs*

If I ask my Master to do this, He's likely to ask me what drugs I have been injesting or drinking. I know better though. Wouldn't ask. Wouldn't WANT to anyway. Thought of swapping roles with Him bores me on one level.. makes me feel ill on another.

Not really a taboo for us... It just doesn't make sense in our relationship.
It's not an' icky nasty' nor a 'might end us up rotting in hell for eternity thing' to either of us.....
It's just not anything that interests us. It doesn't 'do it' for us.
 
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catalina_francisco said:
LOL, you're welcome to sit awhile with me anytime. :cathappy: And yes, what you say about the interpretations of taboo are true for the most part.....and most of the things on my list of things I have done and which often are considered taboo by more rather than less were all things I had tried before ever getting into D/s, except for breath play, and I do love it also. It is fascinating watching the scale of taboo slide on most people's radars over time though...it happens to the best and worst of us. :D


As an afternote, children have been discussed here often in many contexts, but I don't think you would find many who see it as OK to pursue as a reality....and for the curious among those who don't know me well (before I get inundated with accusations like once before), it is not one of the things I have done or ever had any desire to do. :rose:

Catalina :catroar:
INSIDEYOURMIND and I will sit in that same boat with you and Francisco on the subject of children as it pertains to this topic, Catalina.

It's, easily one of the only very few, huge taboo we have left.....
Besides that..... I know it's the one taboo that we will never allow to slide off our radar.

Said it time and time again over the years Cat': Our relationships are not 100% exact.....and they are very similar in many ways. :rose:
 
To make our idea of morality center on forbidden acts is to defile the imagination and to introduce into our judgments of our fellow-men a secret element of gusto.
Robert Louis Stevenson

Taboos are personal limits, my little girl speaks well, to each his own. I don't withhold breath from her because it is wrong to do, or taboo, I do it so she understands who gives her the breath she takes.

My little girl has no limits, and believe me, we have tested that claim many times, and in many ways. She also has the faith and trust in me that I would never do something that is just morally wrong.

Children, those of less than full capacity, and persons not able to give full, and educated consent, those aren't truly taboos, those are your morals speaking, and speaking well I might add!

In regards to exchanging roles in our relationship, it wouldn't happen, this is our dynamic, I couldn't do what my little girl does, I am a Dominant, it is in my blood, it was how I was brought up. It is as my father before me.

This idea tends to show me the people that "play" this lifestyle, and I do not judge you for it, if it wipes your ass, go for it.
 
there isnt anything too taboo for everyone.

if you can think of it, someone wants to do it and someone wants to watch it.
 
INSIDEYOURMIND said:
Taboos are personal limits, my little girl speaks well, to each his own. I don't withhold breath from her because it is wrong to do, or taboo, I do it so she understands who gives her the breath she takes.

My little girl has no limits, and believe me, we have tested that claim many times, and in many ways. She also has the faith and trust in me that I would never do something that is just morally wrong.

Children, those of less than full capacity, and persons not able to give full, and educated consent, those aren't truly taboos, those are your morals speaking, and speaking well I might add!

In regards to exchanging roles in our relationship, it wouldn't happen, this is our dynamic, I couldn't do what my little girl does, I am a Dominant, it is in my blood, it was how I was brought up. It is as my father before me.

This idea tends to show me the people that "play" this lifestyle, and I do not judge you for it, if it wipes your ass, go for it.





This idea tends to show me the people that "play" this lifestyle, and I do not judge you for it, if it wipes your ass, go for it.

Quite correct, i don't live the lifestyle, my point was that you can take people that are say leaders in one role and put them in another and their dynamic changes, a desert island situation for example.

Some people may start off in a role and that is them till the end, others may develop and change, as for the forced change well that was just for a bit of fun.

I suppose the idea was similar to that prison experiment, but just a tad shorter lol
 
FurryFury said:
I hope this is a very bad joke.

Talk about taboo.

*starts with the stomping*

I was trying to think of something incredibly taboo. I thought that was pretty up there.
And the 'probably', yes, was a joke.


Btw, alot of autistic people lead very normal lives and there's no reason at all why they couldnt have a regular sex life. The same with many other 'mental illnesses'.
Down syndromes a different kettle of fish though. I'm not sure anything could ever work out there without there being some serious issues.
 
fiery__jack said:
I was trying to think of something incredibly taboo. I thought that was pretty up there.
And the 'probably', yes, was a joke.


Btw, alot of autistic people lead very normal lives and there's no reason at all why they couldnt have a regular sex life. The same with many other 'mental illnesses'.
Down syndromes a different kettle of fish though. I'm not sure anything could ever work out there without there being some serious issues.


Someone i know worked near a day centre for people with downs syndrome, a helper told her that generally their sex drive was high and if left to their own devices they would start "playing" with each other, so supervision had to be close when they were there
 
mickyp123 said:
Someone i know worked near a day centre for people with downs syndrome, a helper told her that generally their sex drive was high and if left to their own devices they would start "playing" with each other, so supervision had to be close when they were there

Yeah I've heard this too. Actually, my girlfriends mum works with them sometimes, and apparently a few weeks ago she walked into a kitchen and two of them were having sex on the floor, or trying too. One was a teenager and one was like, 40.
They obviously do have a sex drive, it's just I don't think an unaffected person could actually engage in sexual practice with someone with the syndrome without taking advantage or victimising.
 
fiery__jack said:
Yeah I've heard this too. Actually, my girlfriends mum works with them sometimes, and apparently a few weeks ago she walked into a kitchen and two of them were having sex on the floor, or trying too. One was a teenager and one was like, 40.
They obviously do have a sex drive, it's just I don't think an unaffected person could actually engage in sexual practice with someone with the syndrome without taking advantage or victimising.

They are certainly less inhibited, we could learn from it, nothing wrong with a fuck in Tesco's / Walmart lol
 
Grabs the wheel....

How we ended up over there in the downs parking lott I have no idea. Let's keep it on the road.

Basically....I want to know what each of you personally sees as your own personal taboo. Whether it be something you, yourself will not do. Or something you are aware of, have looked into but haven't brought yourself to "wrap your mind" around.
Then, after listing said beastie, please do me a favor and tell me WHY it's something you just can't get into. I want to look into the minds of those around me here in lit. That' all. Not looking for educational references necessarily. Just....your own opinions.
There MUSt be ONE person out there who's tried something and then placed it in their "never to do again" file.

*grins from the back seat and hopes for a good trip*.
 
twysted73 said:
How we ended up over there in the downs parking lott I have no idea. Let's keep it on the road.

:confused: Didn't you first mention people with Down's Syndrome?

Catalina :catroar:
 
twysted73 said:
How we ended up over there in the downs parking lott I have no idea. Let's keep it on the road.

Basically....I want to know what each of you personally sees as your own personal taboo. Whether it be something you, yourself will not do. Or something you are aware of, have looked into but haven't brought yourself to "wrap your mind" around.
Then, after listing said beastie, please do me a favor and tell me WHY it's something you just can't get into. I want to look into the minds of those around me here in lit. That' all. Not looking for educational references necessarily. Just....your own opinions.
There MUSt be ONE person out there who's tried something and then placed it in their "never to do again" file.

*grins from the back seat and hopes for a good trip*.

em....talk to you perhaps :D
 
catalina_francisco said:
:confused: Didn't you first mention people with Down's Syndrome?

Catalina :catroar:

As an example to cover the topic starter and so to avoid discussion of children. (which I consider an obvious "no contest" and it just creeps me out)
 
mickyp123 said:
em....talk to you perhaps :D

Well alright. Just tried to get involved. Maybe it's something both mickp and I should avoid doing in the future.
 
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