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[AliceBarker]

It is true, that we women, every day more more selective and demanding before men much more independent of men

The affirmation, by men and young people that with the passage of time, women are more attractive, independent and have no interest in men as before, for having a stable partner.

They (we) I am also a woman. girls of 20, 30 and 40 years old, they are only interested, in having young friends, but not to live as a couple.

In any case, just have a night or weekend of sex with him, but without continuity, nor committing to a relationship medium or long term.

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That is the impression that I feel as a woman.

Here in the West at least the most common is to see groups just girls, having fun partying, all very pretty and sexy, but for young boys are very difficult to board.

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I see on the weekends, that the boys they go in a group and have fun in another way.

The young girls and not so young, they also form their social groups to go where they like, go out, have fun, enjoy life, without the need for between them, have boys mixed in groups.

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Some boys told me that now girls of all ages are difficult to approach, very demanding with them, and they live their total freedom, economically and socially, without need to have a partner.

The type of relationship between both sexes, has undergone a profound change

Really, most girls don't need a boy or a man as before, nor do they want to be tied to a single person of the different sex, because they don't need it.

I think that the main reason is not to lose freedom they have, without being in a relationship. They do and go where they feel like it, they no longer get pregnant, if they don't want to and their beauty, makes them desirable, but difficult to conquer sentimentally.

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Maybe in small towns or rural towns this is not so frequent, but in cities and where the cultural level is more advanced, it is palpable.

This consultation is aimed at everyone, men and women. What is your opinion on this question.

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I think it can be a trend change debate, very interesting.

We debate it? Best regards. Alice barker

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[FGB]

Nothing new about that.

Works Short and Medium term.

Long term...not so much.

 

[bellisarius]

While much of what you say is true, there are downsides as well.

Women who delay marriage until the biological clock starts running down find themselves short of eligible partner choices. Mature, intelligent, and successful men will already have paired up and those that remain will invariably seek younger women.

There are those that will have purposefully removed themselves from the gene pool and that too is problematic. Their intelligence, and to a lesser extent, is needed for the perpetuation and advancement of the species. Artificial insemination is an option but study after study show that the best environment for a child is two parent (male and female) family. (Yes, some studies show that a same sex couple can successfully raise a child but those studies are of small sample sizes and contradictory.)

Later life pregnancies have a higher risk of bad outcomes. Further, those women that opt. for late life pregnancies tend to restrict themselves to one child thus not replacing the pair at a minimum. This is arguably a good thing (albeit a disaster for the Chinese) but the problem is that the lower IQ, lower education crowd tend to breed indiscriminately and prolifically. Some scientists are becoming alarmed about the general drop in mean IQ world wide.

The choices that women make also has an effect on the choices men make, women don't live in a vacuum. The primary effect is that young men are becoming more self centered (read that as selfish) and no longer look for a long term relationship, meaning they don't grow up. This in turn makes them less eligible as a long term partner.

I do not foresee this behavior on the part of either gender leading to positive outcomes in the long run.

 

[nowisthetime]

English isn't your first language, is it?

GTFOH with those 2006 Drop It Like It's Hot coed pics.

College girls having fun and partying isn't a representation of all women. That's what college kids do, get plastered.

 

[dolf]

And you're a woman, huh...

 

[Saint_Ann]

This thread is like a very slowly moving picture.

 

[HisArpy]

Saying that a group of people, who quite often can't even go to the bathroom by themselves as adults, are "independent" seems kind of counter intuitive.

 

[juttjaw]

Saying that a group of people, who quite often can't even go to the bathroom by themselves as adults, are "independent" seems kind of counter intuitive.

You been hanging around the nursing home again?

FYI, STDs are rampant in those places. Wrap it up!

 

[naughtymind]

Yeah, no question that gender roles have been undergoing major shifts for the last several decades, and societal views on women’s sexuality have been changing too. Beyond that, anytime I see someone saying “women need ———“ or “men want ———“ I pretty much consider their input to be of limited value. Neither men, nor women are homogeneous in their wants, needs, or opinions; all attempts to narrowly define us into two simple categories are misguided. If you’ve found what works for you, that’s great. No need for further validation from others.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

We debate it? Best regards. Alice barker

Doesn't look like you're sticking around for a "debate" on this topic, Alice!

 

[FL30]

What a bunch of jibberish.

Just some observations, but not at all truths. It seems as though you just observed groups that were out partying, so it's NOT all of the people in those age groups that are doing what you say they're doing.

It could be said the same of men - groups of men going out and enjoying the weekends without any women involved.

It all depends on what you observe when "out"

I still see LOTS of couples - not groups of single genders.

Also, your writing is horrible. It's like tying to read Yoda and Jarjar Binks all rolled into one.

 

[LLCox]

I was born too soon...

 

[renard_ruse]

To summarize "women" today are no longer human beings with the normal human desire to share their life with another person they love but selfish narcissistic monsters who should be treated that way by men.

Two can play your game, honey. Sure men's sex drive is 4 to 10 times stronger but men also have a higher IQ on average. They will come up with new ways to manipulate you and render your attempts at "independence" irrelevant. This will play out over time. You're writing men off way too soon babe.

 

[Saint Peter]

To summarize "women" today are no longer human beings with the normal human desire to share their life with another person they love but selfish narcissistic monsters who should be treated that way by men.

Two can play your game, honey. Sure men's sex drive is 4 to 10 times stronger but men also have a higher IQ on average. They will come up with new ways to manipulate you and render your attempts at "independence" irrelevant. This will play out over time. You're writing men off way too soon babe.

Your sauce is weak, babe.

 

[NickBarn89]

Saying that a group of people, who quite often can't even go to the bathroom by themselves as adults, are "independent" seems kind of counter intuitive.

Okay, that's funny. lol