For the ultimate-try The Fucking Machine You girls won't find anything better( except the warmth of a loving partner)-You can look it up on Google or watch Real Sex or Nerve-They can be customized to fit various "needs". You have to have a lot of$$$ ($1,500 I think). Very futuristic and as a guy I don't care much for them but hey, "different strokes for different folks" as they say.
The correct spelling is sybian - you can find it at sybian.com. This is the greatest thing ever invented for a woman - I have had mine for about 1 1/2 years and would never let it go. A great machine for couples or single women. A little expensive, but they are built well and should last forever. I think you can return it within 45 days and get most of your money back if you do not like. Just like everything else everyone will not like it, but I think the vast majority do. I just can not say enough good things about mine - orgasams llike nothing else, and they last as long as you can stay on, they are so good they about take all your energy away. However, do not be afraid couples say there sex life has never been better once they start playing with it. Give it a try you got nothing to lose.