Swinging

[BiBunny]

You just call 'em as you see 'em, don't you?

And damn the consequences, apparently.

 

[HottieMama]

For better or worse, Bunny speaks the truth. It is one of the things that made me not like her at first, and it is one of the things that endears her to me now.

It's like that old tagline from The Real World... "This is what happens when people stop being nice, and start being REAL."

 

[FurryFury]

I have nothing against Bunny, or anyone, really. I don't like it when people get mean about things though.

I know you can be nice and real at the same time. It surprises me how many people think being real or honest is the same as being unpleasant.

I grew up with someone like that, always hurting me in order to be honest. What I found out is that their version of honesty wasn't truth at all from my POV and my brand of pain wasn't valid from theirs. That's pretty crappy. It's why I can't be close to my mom now, no matter how much I'd like to be. It's just too damn painful to withstand her twisted brand of honesty.

 

[FurryFury]

Jeez, folks. Thanks for reminding me why I STOPPED going to message boards in the first place. And I thought a BDSM board would be a nice place.

It often is. It just isn't always. This too shall pass!

 

[FurryFury]

I honestly wish I was ignorant of it all too. After I got dragged in I found out alot of the backstory and so I have to admit my views on this whole saga are colored by what I was told.


Very valid point.

I think this may be an ignorance is bliss area.

*nods*

 

[FurryFury]

I don't have to PM my friends, Fury. They were there and saw it with their own eyes.

The only dog I have in this fight is that I pointed out how the OP was offensive, and then Gigi went off the deep end. And somehow, my relationships then got called into question, which, incidentally, has nothing to do with the price of tea in China. If I wanted to "attack" someone because I felt "resentment," I would. I think we all know that if I feel some way about something, I say it, unlike many others here.

I'm just going off what I've seen and read myself, and that has nothing to do with anyone else here. *Shrug* Frankly, I don't give a red rat's ass if Carlos the Latin Wonder is real or not. I just wouldn't blindly accept what someone tells me, given what I know about previous behavior.

I wasn't calling you out about this.

I was just trying to say that it's clear to me now, that there are two groups of people here battling each other, as well as a larger group of people here that are not part of either of those groups and just would like everyone act like responsible adults and get along.

As for the whole Bi perspective thing I totally understood that and agreed. I think you know that.

 

[Homburg]

What business is it of yours? Who are you anyway that you seem to think you know so much about the people here and in ATL but I've rarely if ever seen you post before these attacks?

The poster formerly known as Chris_X. Or so I'm told.

 

[Breaker_Morant]

The poster formerly known as Chris_X. Or so I'm told.

Really? I wasn't keeping it a secret. The only person I lied to was Gigi just for giggles..

 

[Homburg]

Really? I wasn't keeping it a secret.

This is why I did not mind saying anything about it.

 

[Breaker_Morant]

This is why I did not mind saying anything about it.

*shrugs* Sorry for the sarcasm there H.. I just am in a weird mood at present.

 

[Primalex]

I'm glad that nobody likes me. This way I don't need to pick sides, I'm my own side and I can live here drama free. Life is great.

You are all bitches! Muahahahahaahha!

 

[Breaker_Morant]

I'm glad that nobody likes me. This way I don't need to pick sides, I'm my own side and I can live here drama free. Life is great.

You are all bitches! Muahahahahaahha!

You and the horse you rode into town on buddy!

 

[Breaker_Morant]

And damn the consequences, apparently.

Was that ever a concern? It is what makes you, you.