Sweet Things & Deviant Thoughts

I was chatting with a Listerite today, talking about sexual fantasies and boundaries. In the last few years I’ve had the opportunity to live out dozens of what I used to believe would never happen in real life, but then - out of the blue - my wife asks me if we could start Swinging. I’m still thinking that there is a good possibility I was in a serious accident and actually this is all some coma-dream, but it doesn’t matter, I have been asking myself “what makes something a fantasy, and what determines why you would keep it a fantasy and why/how/when, given the opportunity, would you choose to make it come true?” In my conversation with the Listerite (😘 you know who you are 😛) I said I have a mantra ”I’ll try anything twice”, because you never know what will be stimulating until you are actually doing it. But what are your thoughts, if you fantasize about “Sweet things”, would you always go for it if you have the opportunity? What about deviant things? Are those only for fantasy and you would NEVER actually act on them in real life, even if you could.
 
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