Swallowing...

DayDreamerZN

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Many men would love to ejaculate in women’s mouths and have their lovers swallow the semen. But many women object to a mouthful of ejaculate and can’t imagine swallowing.

Most men that I have been with have gone insanely crazy at the prospect that I would be willing to do this. It kind of leads me into asking why more woman don't enjoy it? I merely started doing it because I wanted to pleadure my partner.

Obviously No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find disagreeable.


But I know plenty of women are madly in love with their men, and they still don’t want a mouthful of semen.

Lovers should always respect each other’s erotic boundaries, and if for any reason, women draw a boundary, they have every right to feel that way. Men shouldn’t give them a hard time about it.

Curious what others feelings are about this?
 
Many men would love to ejaculate in women’s mouths and have their lovers swallow the semen. But many women object to a mouthful of ejaculate and can’t imagine swallowing.

Most men that I have been with have gone insanely crazy at the prospect that I would be willing to do this. It kind of leads me into asking why more woman don't enjoy it? I merely started doing it because I wanted to pleadure my partner.

Obviously No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find disagreeable.


But I know plenty of women are madly in love with their men, and they still don’t want a mouthful of semen.

Lovers should always respect each other’s erotic boundaries, and if for any reason, women draw a boundary, they have every right to feel that way. Men shouldn’t give them a hard time about it.

Curious what others feelings are about this?

I have have been married over 40 years and contrary to my handle, the volume of my ejaculation has diminished over time to a paultry trickle. She still won’t finish me off orally.
 
Many men would love to ejaculate in women’s mouths and have their lovers swallow the semen. But many women object to a mouthful of ejaculate and can’t imagine swallowing.

Most men that I have been with have gone insanely crazy at the prospect that I would be willing to do this. It kind of leads me into asking why more woman don't enjoy it? I merely started doing it because I wanted to pleadure my partner.

Obviously No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find disagreeable.


But I know plenty of women are madly in love with their men, and they still don’t want a mouthful of semen.

Lovers should always respect each other’s erotic boundaries, and if for any reason, women draw a boundary, they have every right to feel that way. Men shouldn’t give them a hard time about it.

Curious what others feelings are about this?


My wife has never had a problem taking semen in her mouth and swallowing. She was taught to give a man oral sex this way early in her life and that's how she likes to do ti
 
My wife loves to get a mouthful...she is very oral and pleasures me regularly by sucking my cock at almost every whim. She prefers me to cum in her mouth...BUT she does not swallow. She spits it out after I have completed, she will get every drop...but not to eat.
I wish she would swallow...though I should not complain.
 
It is just social conditioning

It is just social conditioning that makes some women hesitant to enjoy a mouthful of sperm. Not many years ago most women viewed sucking cock as taboo and now I am pretty sure most women do it. My wife (Shelly) loves to suck and swallow because she views sex as a normal and natural function and not as something dirty or nasty. She sucked me off on our first date and I was pleasantly surprised at how effortless it was for her to let me finish in her mouth. Since then she has always let me finish in her mouth and once I started sharing her with other guys she lets them do the same unless they are turned on by giving her a facial.
 
I've never insisted that a woman swallow my cum but I like it when they do; there is something good about knowing that afterwoods she has my cum in her belly as she goes about her day, that there is a little bit of me with her.
 
<<<My wife has never had a problem taking semen in her mouth and swallowing. She was taught to give a man oral sex this way early in her life and that's how she likes to do ti >>>

If you ever get to meet the man who taught her to do it, thank him profusely.
 
<<<My wife loves to get a mouthful...she is very oral and pleasures me regularly by sucking my cock at almost every whim. She prefers me to cum in her mouth...BUT she does not swallow. She spits it out after I have completed, she will get every drop...but not to eat.
I wish she would swallow...though I should not complain. >>>

No, you shouldn't complain or you might be spending a lot of time working your own into a tissue. Although, as a man who adores eating pussy and swallowing a lady's nectar and as a person who could not really stay in a long term relationship with a woman that didn't swallow, I have also known spitters who could be quite erotic about it. If she just runs off to the bathroom, spits into the toilet and reaches for he mouthwash, that's a deal breaker. On the other hand, if she lets it out of her mouth, down her chin to drip on her tits and then smears it all over her face, then that's damned near as good, and in some ways hotter, than swallowing. The absolute hottest women I've known are those would hold it in their mouth, let me kiss them to share, and then swallow. They win the trophy.
 
Most of the few women who have agreed to suck my disappointingly small cock have preferred not to swallow my semen but spit it out into a tissue. I, on the other hand, actually look forward to and enjoy swallowing semen whenever I give other men blowjobs and eagerly eat my own semen whenever I jerk off. It ultimately comes down to the question of how one feels about bodily secretions, your own or someone else's. I have liked both the taste and texture of semen ever since I fist became a cocksucker as a young teen, giving daily blowjobs to my best friend Larry. I served as his willing personal cocksucker all through high school sucking his cock whenever and wherever he wanted me to. I have remained an enthusiastic although closeted cocksucker as an adult through two marriages during which neither of my wives were aware of my oral obsession.
 
It’s all about taste. If he has a poor diet, smokes, isn’t hydrated, has had too much alcohol, etc. it impacts how he tastes. If he tastes awful, I’d rather spit than throw up. If he tastes good, then I’ll swallow. Seriously, fellas, eat that pineapple and drink pineapple juice it really does work.
 
Many men would love to ejaculate in women’s mouths and have their lovers swallow the semen. But many women object to a mouthful of ejaculate and can’t imagine swallowing.

Most men that I have been with have gone insanely crazy at the prospect that I would be willing to do this. It kind of leads me into asking why more woman don't enjoy it? I merely started doing it because I wanted to pleadure my partner.

Obviously No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find disagreeable.


But I know plenty of women are madly in love with their men, and they still don’t want a mouthful of semen.

Lovers should always respect each other’s erotic boundaries, and if for any reason, women draw a boundary, they have every right to feel that way. Men shouldn’t give them a hard time about it.

Curious what others feelings are about this?
Everything depends on the couple, especially the woman in this case. I believe that almost every female sub would be grateful to a man who gave her his semen to lick, suck, and swallow, and she would be pleased, happy and satisfied to do this. Other types of women, possible not.
 
My wife doesn't swallow. She has no issue with me cumming her mouth and she never gets in a hurry to spit it out. She will gently push it out and let it run down her chin or wherever it goes. Sometimes she will kiss me and I taste myself. I have no complaints at all.
 
My wife doesn't swallow. She has no issue with me cumming her mouth and she never gets in a hurry to spit it out. She will gently push it out and let it run down her chin or wherever it goes. Sometimes she will kiss me and I taste myself. I have no complaints at all.

So sexy! Would love if my wife did this! She does swallow, rarely does she share it with me
 
I know for a fact that my wife swallowed every time. She just loves the act and to her that's part of it.
 
Obviously No one should ever feel pressured or coerced into being sexual in ways they find disagreeable.

Lovers should always respect each other’s erotic boundaries, and if for any reason, women draw a boundary, they have every right to feel that way. Men shouldn’t give them a hard time about it.

Curious what others feelings are about this?

I couldn't agree more no one should feel obligated or coerced to do anything they do not like.

However, for me, swallowing and any cum play activity is a big part of my enjoyment with my partners. I have been very fortunate in that is has been two decades since I have had a lover that did not like cum. The last lover I had that did not like cum (again, over 20 years ago) was ok in bed but her revulsion of my cum was, I am afraid, a real turn off. Certainly she did not swallow (yet she liked to suck my cock) and she also couldn't wait to run to the bathroom after sex to wipe / clean up etc. If I think careful about it all she was probably the only one who really hated it some were ambivalent and others liked it. My current lover (and the last two in fact) is only describable as a complete cum-lover (or the less polite but aptly described during hot talk "cum slut"). She is incredible that way with no boundaries (swallows, feeds herself with her fingers from her vagina post-sex, sucks my cock post-coitus for any remaining drops, we deliberately go out after sex with her pussy leaking cum, etc.) and it really makes a huge positive difference in my sex life. It seems to be a primal urge with her and it is intoxicating for me. I deeply appreciate her (and previous cum-lover lovers) efforts and these have been fantastic times for sure.

To be honest, I don't like the taste of my cum. I have tried it in numerous normal fashions (giving oral to my lovers after cumming inside them, kissing after blowjobs etc.). So, knowing it is not a great tasting fluid (unlike the natural female secretions from vaginas - which is like honey to me) I appreciate my cum-loving lovers even more that they put aside any possible dislike to please me. Yes I have asked about that and my cum-lover lovers all say the same thing "don't mind it" "it is fine" which is interesting to me. They haven't said "I hate it but just want to please you so it doesn't matter" or something like that. One lover said she "loves the taste" but she may have thought that was what I wanted to hear, I don't know.
 
Out of all the women I have been with, only 2 that I can think of didn't swallow. The rest of them did without hesitation. I'm not hung up on the swallowing thing. If they don't want to swallow that is ok. But I do love when they finish me in their mouth. The orgasm is bigger, if they are sucking when I cum. And a turn on.

My current is the only one that won't let me cum in her mouth. A little disappointing.

I had one act like she did, and just let my cum slide out of her mouth down my shaft. She gave a hell of a bj. Probably in my top 2 or 3 of all time.
 
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My wife has never had a problem taking semen in her mouth and swallowing. She was taught to give a man oral sex this way early in her life and that's how she likes to do ti

My wife also learned early in life to swallow while giving oral sex. She also learned to give awesome roadhead. Alas, she doesn’t do oral my more... :(
 
I just don’t like the taste!

However I like having his cum on me. So I’m Fine with him cumming on my face or my tits or my tummy. Just not in my mouth.

(Even my hair is ok. It’s just makes a mess ...)
 
I just don’t like the taste!

However I like having his cum on me. So I’m Fine with him cumming on my face or my tits or my tummy. Just not in my mouth.

(Even my hair is ok. It’s just makes a mess ...)

It’s an acquired taste! Not for everyone, and I’d not be too upset if a lover didn’t swallow.

Fortunately, for me, it is a taste I’ve acquired...lol.
 
It’s an acquired taste! Not for everyone, and I’d not be too upset if a lover didn’t swallow.

Fortunately, for me, it is a taste I’ve acquired...lol.
I won’t spit it out if he happens to cum in my mouth—that feels rude. But I try to make sure he’s aimed somewhere else when I finish him off ...
 
When I was younger and prior to giving my first bj, I was intrigued but scared by the thought that I would have to swallow this “liquid” that would shoot out of my boyfriend. Once I did it, the act wasn’t as bad as I built it up in my head. Though, I understand why other women would not like having cum in their mouth or swallowing. I have been asked by friends for tips on the act. I recommended taking a little into your mouth to swallow first. Like dabbing your finger in it if he cums on your boobs or licking the head once he is completely done cumming. Guys love this. If you are hesitant, you should just lick to taste it, because there is still a good amount of cum that can be sucked out once he is done.
 
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