Swallow??

[aerialm2002]

ok, i need to ask, both sexes here,

guys, what is so hot about a woman who swallows?

women, why do u do that??

i, personally feel, that is rather unnecessary, and matter of fact, gross.

i need to understand this.
comments anyone?

 

[AppleBiter]

I'm a female and I swallow because I don't have a problem with the idea of it, I don't have a problem with the texture, I don't have a problem with the taste, and I don't have a problem with the smell. He loves that I swallow and I love to swallow his cum.

I guess it all comes down to how you view it and what your personal preferences are. I like the look, taste, feel, and smell of his cum. Swallowing just comes naturally to me. It's part of him.

As far as what's so cool about it for guys, I couldn't say with any authority. But, my SO has said that when a girl swallows, she's accepting you while when she spits, it's like she's expressing that you're gross or nasty or something. Those were his personal feelings on the topic, anyway.

 

[bisexplicit]

Personally, the taste varies from tolerable to enjoyable for me depending upon the day.
But, I like to do it because I enjoy how pleasurable it is for my partner.

 

[His_pita]

I second everything AppleBiter said.

 

[Seduce]

I second everything AppleBiter said.

Me too. Literally.
She put it so perfectly and just the way I feel too that I simply dont have to add anything at all.

 

[h60pilot]

From a man's perspective, swallowing is a) a form of commitment; and b) nasty, and therefore sexy.

Speaking only as one guy, cum is a way of marking our territory, hence the our enthusiasm for facials (for instance).....having a woman swallow is another way for us to "mark" her....i know that sounds callous, but I am speaking in very generalized terms.....

 

[AppleBiter]

Me too. Literally.
She put it so perfectly and just the way I feel too that I simply dont have to add anything at all.

Well, thanks y'all.

 

[SweetErika]

My husband doesn't care either way...he doesn't see how swallowing his semen would be appealing, so he doesn't expect me to do it. I do about half the time, but it can give me a scratchy throat, so sometimes I opt for spitting discreetly into a tissue or something. If it was a turn on or important to my partner, I'd do it more for their enjoyment.

 

[Eilan]

I've heard men say that the orgasm's "better" if the woman swallows, or at least lets him cum in her mouth. Not being male, obviously, I don't know if this is the case or not.

For my husband and me, it seems like oral is something that we do as part of foreplay to prime the pumps, so to speak. However, if I'm going to give him a blow job, I'm generally going to swallow. Unless, of course, he has other ideas.

I don't mind the texture/taste of cum, but, as I've said in many other threads, if a man wants his woman to swallow, then HE should be concerned about how he tastes. And that might mean a doing a little taste test on occasion.

FWIW, the first time I gave my hubby a blow job (back when we were dating), he was a little surprised that I swallowed, because it was the first time a woman had ever swallowed for him. He was 44 at the time.

 

[Râleclins]

From a man's perspective, seeing a girl swallow also shows that she loves what she's doing. Other than that, I agree totally with h60pilot.

And pulling off at the last time to end up with a handjob breaks the mood a little bit.

 

[MR.GGG]

Both !!!

From another man's perspective there is the commitment part. Knowing she is accepting part of you - part of your sexuality like that is very erotic and very sensual. I think oral sex is an intensely personal act. To me it is much more intimate than any kind of "normal" sex. Both giving and receiving signifies an enormous investment in what you feel about your partner how much you want to please them and of course vice versa.

Probably the biggest physical part for me is that the sensation builds during the orgasm. She can intensify it if she keeps sucking and moving until it is almost too intense. It feels a little different during sex if you cum really deeep then the sensation can go on for a little longer and I feel very satisfied with that but when masturbating you NEVER stop as soon as you start cuming. Same as going down on a woman. If we stop what we're doing as soon as she starts to orgasm then the orgasms STOPS for her. Instead of a 10 or 20 second orgasm (or longer) it stops after a second and she ends up pissed and feeling like the fuse was lit but the dynamite was wet. Fzzzzz.

So emotionally it is a huge turn on to know she wants to take you like that and physically there is several added seconds (a BIG deal for guys) of orgasmic bliss if she continues her sucking and movements.