Surprise!

[romantic_always]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 2 years now, and it's still amazing, but somewhat predictable. I still get off at least once (usually twice) during sex, but I'd love to mix it up for us and give him a bit of a surprise when I see him again.
We're willing to do any sexual positions vaginally and any kind of oral sex tricks are fun! The no's are facials and anal. Other than that, roleplay, BDSM, it's all good!
Does anyone have any tried and true tricks they use on their lovers that just sends them through the roof?

 

[infinity706]

I have plenty of tricks, but it would end up a wall of text. So, any idea what kind of specific types of things you're looking for?

 

[romantic_always]

I'd love to do something that would just surprise the hell out of him-perhaps something where I'm in control, light BDSM type stuff?

 

[SweetErika]

You'd know what would surprise him much better than we would.

Have you already mined the Blank Manual and BDSM Library stickies for ideas?

Since you're interested in light BDSM, have you gone through a comprehensive BDSM checklist (google it) to see what you might be interested in and can adapt for your tastes? BDSM sites' glossaries might be helpful in this area, too.

 

[infinity706]

I'd love to do something that would just surprise the hell out of him-perhaps something where I'm in control, light BDSM type stuff?

Well, if you really want to surprise him, tie him up and rub Icy Hot on his asshole. It won't do any harm, but it hurts about as much as playing with fire. That's honestly one of my best moves for introducing S&M amateurs since it gives them something of an intensity framework without even leaving a mark on them and it only lasts for maybe 3 minutes at most.

 

[sarod]

Facials and anals are probably the only thing that would really surprise him, unless you want to surprise him by bringing home a girlfriend and work eachother over while he watches and then let him join in!

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 2 years now, and it's still amazing, but somewhat predictable. I still get off at least once (usually twice) during sex, but I'd love to mix it up for us and give him a bit of a surprise when I see him again.
We're willing to do any sexual positions vaginally and any kind of oral sex tricks are fun! The no's are facials and anal. Other than that, roleplay, BDSM, it's all good!
Does anyone have any tried and true tricks they use on their lovers that just sends them through the roof?

 

[mentionME]

Facials and anals are probably the only thing that would really surprise him, unless you want to surprise him by bringing home a girlfriend and work eachother over while he watches and then let him join in!

He's Right...if yall are sexually open and up for anything except for x and y, than all the surprise and interest go to x and y...pandora's box

although i find that i would love to do a facial but not 2 my own girl. i just dont want to see her in that light. (not that i have a problem with any lady that does them, just i know my girl's personality and it doesnt mesh)

 

[sexysharonmilf]

My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 2 years now, and it's still amazing, but somewhat predictable. I still get off at least once (usually twice) during sex, but I'd love to mix it up for us and give him a bit of a surprise when I see him again.
We're willing to do any sexual positions vaginally and any kind of oral sex tricks are fun! The no's are facials and anal. Other than that, roleplay, BDSM, it's all good!
Does anyone have any tried and true tricks they use on their lovers that just sends them through the roof?

Oral sex is great. Love to swallow. Not into BDSM. Dressed up as a nurse in latex for my ex, my naughty schoolgirl outfit, and cheerleader.

One position I tried and love was my leg between his, his cock in me, and my other leg on top of his. I controlled the fucking. On top is my fav. If on bottom, I love a pillow under my ass for deep penetration. Doggie if I have a arched pillow to lay on since that gives great penetration around my G-spot. I like positions where deep penetration is possible. I also like my hair pulled lightly.

Try candle wax on you boobs, his dick (not too hot), etc.

My ex used to let me pee in his mouth. Health freaks so no problem. Watersports is fun. Just don't swallow unless you want to.

With my ex, we tried "rape" but I got into it and an intense orgasm. That and he couldn't wrestle me well.