I'm curious about real-life experiences that surfed the line between non-consent and ultimate pleasure.
When did you go from "Oh god, please don't do X to me!" to "It's challenging but X really turns me on", maybe even to "Please, give me more, I need X so badly!"?
Any journey where you went from genuinely scared/repulsed to being super turned on by a specific practice/experience. Subs only!
I'll give you my experience (feel free to ignore and share yours directly):
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I had a girlfriend who I couldn't have regular sex with due to medical reasons. Basically, she was bleeding most of the time and therefore always wore panties with a pad.
I was already into facesitting and being dominated that time. So, she would often ride my face (with her panties on obviously) and actually managed to come like this, while giving me a BJ.
I did like to have her covered pussy/ass in my face, but it also was a little kinky and challenging when I felt her pad pressed against my face. I always stayed away from bleeding pussies, and I haven't even seen one until this day. Certainly, I didn't want one in my mouth!
Of course, that pad protected me from being directly exposed to her. At the same time, it was a constant reminder of her state down there. Moreover, having your face forcefully pushed towards that area kind of countered the pad's protective function.
I couldn't help but wondering about questions like: How well do these pads actually work? How often do they need to be changed and how careful is she about that? How does it actually look down there? Could I smell something unusual?
In short, I was kind of scared of her pussy. However, that also added some spice to the domination game. She would often tie me up and torture me a bit. My fear of her pussy added to that and her dominance became more meaningful when she sat on my face.
One day, we were about to have our form of sex, when she told me excitedly that she thinks she is ok down there today. She went to the bathroom to check it and returned happily: all good!
Suddenly a new—and for us ground-breaking—option was on the table. For the first time in our relationship, she finally pulled down her panties in front of me.
The room was dark, so I couldn't see any details. From earlier discoveries (sometimes she would pull down her panties down a bit and let me lick her venus mound—danger close!), I knew that she shaved her upper part. But I could tell her actual pussy was rather bushy.
She slowly lowered herself down on my face. This time, without any domination. Instead, she was considerate and asked me if this was ok.
I wasn't sure actually. On the one hand, being finally exposed to this long-hidden part of hers made me super excited. On the other hand, my brain still had it categorized as forbidden territory. The fact that she had to first check herself didn't make me more confident. What exactly did she have to check? Ok, she probably wasn't actively bleeding but how clean or dirty was she down there? Was she concerned the bleeding could suddenly return? It scared me.
Torn between these conflicting emotions, I hesitantly gave my consent. However, I wasn't quite sure if I actually wanted this. I didn't really know what I was getting into. I guess what would have made sense was to let me carefully explore this new territory. But that wasn't what was on the table in that moment.
So, she lowered herself on my face, pussy pressed against my mouth. Still torn, I welcomed it, but also kept my mouth firmly close. She did her thing regardless, rubbing herself on my face until she came.
I avoided her juice inside of me, but her warm hairy wet pussy still wrapped around my mouth.
This became not only a ground-breaking moment for our mutual sex life, it was also our last. It has haunted and inspired me ever since. Almost 20 years later, meeting her again, so that she can get me to finally use my tongue on he, is one of my prime and most frequent fantasies.
I'm curious: Did anyone else have such memorable experiences that shaped your sex life?
When did you go from "Oh god, please don't do X to me!" to "It's challenging but X really turns me on", maybe even to "Please, give me more, I need X so badly!"?
Any journey where you went from genuinely scared/repulsed to being super turned on by a specific practice/experience. Subs only!
I'll give you my experience (feel free to ignore and share yours directly):
---
I had a girlfriend who I couldn't have regular sex with due to medical reasons. Basically, she was bleeding most of the time and therefore always wore panties with a pad.
I was already into facesitting and being dominated that time. So, she would often ride my face (with her panties on obviously) and actually managed to come like this, while giving me a BJ.
I did like to have her covered pussy/ass in my face, but it also was a little kinky and challenging when I felt her pad pressed against my face. I always stayed away from bleeding pussies, and I haven't even seen one until this day. Certainly, I didn't want one in my mouth!
Of course, that pad protected me from being directly exposed to her. At the same time, it was a constant reminder of her state down there. Moreover, having your face forcefully pushed towards that area kind of countered the pad's protective function.
I couldn't help but wondering about questions like: How well do these pads actually work? How often do they need to be changed and how careful is she about that? How does it actually look down there? Could I smell something unusual?
In short, I was kind of scared of her pussy. However, that also added some spice to the domination game. She would often tie me up and torture me a bit. My fear of her pussy added to that and her dominance became more meaningful when she sat on my face.
One day, we were about to have our form of sex, when she told me excitedly that she thinks she is ok down there today. She went to the bathroom to check it and returned happily: all good!
Suddenly a new—and for us ground-breaking—option was on the table. For the first time in our relationship, she finally pulled down her panties in front of me.
The room was dark, so I couldn't see any details. From earlier discoveries (sometimes she would pull down her panties down a bit and let me lick her venus mound—danger close!), I knew that she shaved her upper part. But I could tell her actual pussy was rather bushy.
She slowly lowered herself down on my face. This time, without any domination. Instead, she was considerate and asked me if this was ok.
I wasn't sure actually. On the one hand, being finally exposed to this long-hidden part of hers made me super excited. On the other hand, my brain still had it categorized as forbidden territory. The fact that she had to first check herself didn't make me more confident. What exactly did she have to check? Ok, she probably wasn't actively bleeding but how clean or dirty was she down there? Was she concerned the bleeding could suddenly return? It scared me.
Torn between these conflicting emotions, I hesitantly gave my consent. However, I wasn't quite sure if I actually wanted this. I didn't really know what I was getting into. I guess what would have made sense was to let me carefully explore this new territory. But that wasn't what was on the table in that moment.
So, she lowered herself on my face, pussy pressed against my mouth. Still torn, I welcomed it, but also kept my mouth firmly close. She did her thing regardless, rubbing herself on my face until she came.
I avoided her juice inside of me, but her warm hairy wet pussy still wrapped around my mouth.
This became not only a ground-breaking moment for our mutual sex life, it was also our last. It has haunted and inspired me ever since. Almost 20 years later, meeting her again, so that she can get me to finally use my tongue on he, is one of my prime and most frequent fantasies.
I'm curious: Did anyone else have such memorable experiences that shaped your sex life?
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