Subs, what do you think about devotion?

[Teen_switch]

When I use the word devotion, I mean that. I am the type of person who has experimented a lot with different kinks and now can finally say that I know what I enjoy most. CONTROL. As harsh as it may sound, that is the kind of person I am, I absolutely love to be in control be it my everyday life or with my submissive. It can be little things such as picking outfits, telling what to eat,when to eat. The thing that works best for me is when a person willingly shows the passion to serve me. I was in a live-in relationship with my submissive and that was the best year of my life. Everything started out pretty normal, but after the 6 month mark, out dynamic had evolved greatly.

We both used to work software wfh jobs and were pretty much home together most of the time. There were some unsaid rules that were established during out time together.
This is how our day looked like.

As soon as we woke up, it was such that she asked permission to use the washroom. While I allowed her most of the time, making her squirm occasionally was fun. She always kept the bathroom door open. I picked out her outfits down to which bra and panty she was to wear. She cooked everyday. (I used to help her too,I am not a monster). Most of our afternoon was just work. She forfeited her desk and used to sit on the floor next to my desk for her work.(I loved this very much). At 6,after we logged off from work, wearing clothes was not allowed while we were at home. While she cooked dinner,(naked) I used to run errands. For dinner she always asked if she was allowed to have another portion.(I never denied her but she always asked). We used to fool around after that. Occasionally to have anal sex, she always made sure to use an enema to avoid any mishaps. She used to provide me foot massages and when I felt like it, I used to raise my feet to her and she knew what to do. Though it may not be so erotic and exciting to read, she was really devoted towards me and my happiness.

 

[BiBunny]

Devotion, love, worship, and service are all inextricably tangled up in my mind. You can't have one without all the others.

I would devote my life to serving and making my Daddy happy in a heartbeat if he wanted me to.

 

[Boat1]

Devotion?... that's a good question!

My Wife Domme Goddess and I, spent the night in the ER yesterday.

We had dinner tonight, as I cooked sausage apples, stuffing, and squash w/onions....
We enjoyed some beautiful lovemaking afterwards...

I was blessed to get to focus on the backs of Her knees, the inside of Her elbows, and ESPECIALLY, Her precious armpuffs!

OMG I am SOOOO F'NG BLESSED!!!....
She's tucked in, sleeping peacefully, and I almost have all of the dishes washed...
I've NEVER been happier in my entire life, than the way She makes me feel !!!

 

[SissySalina]

Devotion, is earned, not given to anyone. It is the need of being responsible for the welfare of a person. To see that every need of that person is met. To put that person before yourself. It is a form of worship to ensure that that specific person has your full attention and is the reason for your being.

 

[Boat1]

Devotion, is earned, not given to anyone. It is the need of being responsible for the welfare of a person. To see that every need of that person is met. To put that person before yourself. It is a form of worship to ensure that that specific person has your full attention and is the reason for your being.

VERY well stated!
Thanks and Kudos!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I've been both sub and Domme...

I'm devoted to the person I'm in a dynamic with fully!!

The one person I was a sub to, I was devoted to him for 3 years online.
I almost worshipped him, and never felt appreciated.

Maybe that's why I appreciate
my subs.

 

[shesubmits]

with the right person that can be exhilarating, and all i can focus on doing. intoxicating.

 

[artgorden]

I was 23 , he was 35 and was a bbc bodybuilder. He had my number but I didn't have his. (It was the 80s). He was openly uncommitted to me and I was enthusiasticly devoted to him. Any time he called I would be ready to give my mouth and ass.

 

[liqueur]

It can be very challenging for a man to accept his own sexual limitations. Words like "inadequacy" can feel hurtful, but are sometimes most accurate - how else to describe a man with a small penis, a pre-mature ejaculation problem who cannot bring a woman to orgasm?

The process of owning and controlling the man's penis is a powerful way to demonstrate that he has not been rejected and he still has a place in the wife's life and sexual experience. It is just that it will be based on truth.

I do love your thinking. There's a flip side to this truth thing, also, for those of us who love humiliation: I have an average size cock. Some might claim slightly larger than average — slightly over 6". But I have met women who understood my humiliation fetish, and loved playing with it—

because men are conditioned to have so much of their sense of self worth tied up in their sexuality.

Some women can skillfully manipulate a man through that condition to make him feel inadequate, whether he is or not. Eg.: “Yeah, okay, so it’s average. So what? You know what 'average' means, don't you? It means at least half the men you meet walking down the street are bigger than you. Some of them are a lot bigger. Think about that from now on, every time you see a man. Ask yourself if your cock measures up to his.”
I love women like that. We both know it's a mind game. But such a juicy game

note: (I don't even know how this comment got here. It doesn't seem all that relevant, and it was intended for a different thread entirely. But since it's gotten responses, I'll leave it here.)

 

[policywank]

I do love your thinking. There's a flip side to this truth thing, also, for those of us who love humiliation: I have an average size cock. Some might claim slightly larger than average — slightly over 6". But I have met women who understood my humiliation fetish, and loved playing with it—

Some women can skillfully manipulate a man through that condition to make him feel inadequate, whether he is or not. Eg.: “Yeah, okay, so it’s average. So what? You know what 'average' means, don't you? It means at least half the men you meet walking down the street are bigger than you. Some of them are a lot bigger. Think about that from now on, every time you see a man. Ask yourself if your cock measures up to his.”
I love women like that. We both know it's a mind game. But such a juicy game

Lots of men who enjoy humiliation are actually average.

But it is a strange thing the way men seek to validate their sexual status by finding ways to say that their dick is at least average. Those size metrics generally reflect all of humanity including a large number of men who are of ethnicities of small stature. But of greater relevance I don't think most people aspire to average in most things in life. If you told me that your new girlfriend is a solid '5' on a scale of 1 to 10 and she drives a 2018 Prius I'd say that is just fine, but nothing special and certainly not a flex.

To use another popular metric a lot of women reference a man's height. What do most women say is their ideal minimum height? It varies of course but the usual reference is 6'.....not the average male height of 5' 7.5". It is human nature to want better than average even if we ourselves are average. So, while lots of women accept an average penis if they are honest with you they will say that they prefer more.

 

[liqueur]

it is a strange thing the way men seek to validate their sexual status by finding ways to say that their dick is at least average... I don't think most people aspire to average in most things in life.

Exactly so!

 

[Scareltt]

Lots of men who enjoy humiliation are actually average.

But it is a strange thing the way men seek to validate their sexual status by finding ways to say that their dick is at least average. Those size metrics generally reflect all of humanity including a large number of men who are of ethnicities of small stature. But of greater relevance I don't think most people aspire to average in most things in life. If you told me that your new girlfriend is a solid '5' on a scale of 1 to 10 and she drives a 2018 Prius I'd say that is just fine, but nothing special and certainly not a flex.

To use another popular metric a lot of women reference a man's height. What do most women say is their ideal minimum height? It varies of course but the usual reference is 6'.....not the average male height of 5' 7.5". It is human nature to want better than average even if we ourselves are average. So, while lots of women accept an average penis if they are honest with you they will say that they prefer more.

Most men are dishonest about the three sixes.. 6’, 6” (that’s odd) and 6 figures..

Cute right?

 

[policywank]

Most men are dishonest about the three sixes.. 6’, 6” (that’s odd) and 6 figures..

Cute right?

Indeed cute and I expect fairly accurate.