Sub's Sub

[subwannabe]

A recent thread finally prodded me into this post I have been thinking about making. I have always had this fantasy of a Dom rewarding their Sub by letting their Sub be a Dom to another Sub. I don't seem to see this talked about much here. I would like to be that third sub (I'm a male). To make it simple, let's say that the Dom is a female and she has both a female sub and myself as another sub. The Dom wants to reward her female sub for being a good slave by allowing her to dominate me. As a slight variation I have also always fantasized about my wife and I both being subs to another female. Of course there are several different variations. Unfortunately, this will never be more than a fantasy for me but I would like to hear other's viewpoints on this scenario.

 

[KoPilot]

M/F/F fantasies are really boring. That is my viewpoint.

 

[desertslave]

M/F/F fantasies are really boring. That is my viewpoint.

I would respectfully disagree. I've been part of a handful of different M/M/F threesomes, and they're "ok", but I much more enjoyed the two M/F/F adventures. I'm bi so it's absolutely perfect for me.

 

[KoPilot]

I would respectfully disagree. I've been part of a handful of different M/M/F threesomes, and they're "ok", but I much more enjoyed the two M/F/F adventures. I'm bi so it's absolutely perfect for me.

Nah, I meant just in a general, "cultural" sense. I'm sure from the participants POV they're fun and amazing (or at least should be) but every time I hear a guy talk about wanting two chicks doting on him my eyes roll so hard that my optometrist can feel it. It's like... yes, and the sky is blue. NEXT.

 

[desertslave]

Nah, I meant just in a general, "cultural" sense. I'm sure from the participants POV they're fun and amazing (or at least should be) but every time I hear a guy talk about wanting two chicks doting on him my eyes roll so hard that my optometrist can feel it. It's like... yes, and the sky is blue. NEXT.

ROFL Good point. The joy (to me) is when the M is all tuckered out and the F/F continues.

 

[ecstaticsub]

We've tinkered around with this idea a little. But it is not a reward for me, it is just an interest we both have. We had a playmate who bottomed to us both, with her subbing to me being the major part of the set up, that was great fun. However, any submissive I have would have to be female. Knowing myself I would be far too sadistic to male subs and it would not be fun for anyone.

 

[cbelle02]

I am submissive to my Dom/life partner, and i generally lean submissive in most encounters with males. However, I have mildly dommed others and I have a desire to do so more often. My partner and I are working on setting up a scenario where I can dominate, under his direction, another partner, male or female. So he will be my Dom and instruct me on being the best Domme I can be for the other submissive.

I don't know that I like the idea of it as a "reward" though. But maybe. If I've been good, I will get to dom the other partner, otherwise, he will dom us both. I could see that.

 

[Primalex]

I don't get the difference for the M between the F->F->M chain versus just being dominated by another F. Right now it sounds like:"I want to have sex with another woman without cheating."

 

[desertslave]

isn't that a pretty common take on polyamory in general?

Maybe for some people that's exactly what it is.

I was sub to a bi couple; my mistresses were each other's primary relationship, I was F2's plaything and F1 would sometimes dominate me if she felt like it (no sex)... There was also another sub in the picture; F1's boy, who was homophobic so we were never made to play with each other. I was fairly grateful for that myself. As I said other guys aren't out of bounds for me entirely, but if anyone is disgusted at the thought of my body I sure as hell don't want them in the room for playtime, let alone touching me. If F1 was disgusted by me, ... well... she might have been, but not by my body.

as a poly dynamic it was hardly ideal, & I certainly can't claim that it worked.

The 5-year, semi-LDR poly relationship I was in was somewhat similar. The primary relationship was M/m, but m was a bi switch and I was his sub. I interacted with his Dom occasionally, sub/bottoming to both of them. I was allowed, once or twice, to witness my Sir in his sub role, but we never interacted as m/f to M. The relationship ended with Sir's death. I've sometimes wondered where it might have progressed.

Master and I have talked about having a second, female sub. I can top, but it's really not my thing. It would be fun to have a, ummm, girlfriend who Master would share with me, though. I've never been with a Domme, either, and I'm admittedly curious. Most of those I've observed haven't pushed many buttons for me, but they've been playing with male subs.

 

[Kim_Burly]

Until very recently Sir and I had a group of three other couples that we played with, and one of the women became my sub and Sir gradually gave me a lot of autonomy to do what I wanted with her. Then she fell deeply in love with me, in a romantic way. I love her, but more in a friend/sister way. That lead to drama that was hard on her marriage and me as well. We have tried to be just friends, but that has been hard for both of us.

Then I began my therapy and other changes occurred, so Sir decided we should go back to the monogamous model. This has been good for both of us, not perfect, but much better. There are things that can only done with more than just a couple, but that ship has sailed.

We're still in transition, I can't say I wish we had never done it, it's better to have loved and lost than never loved, well, enough said. I'm sorry for a rambling, nonsensical post. I guess if I were try to say something of use, please don't enter into these relationships casually and be careful about getting involved with married people.

 

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[Him15]

Nah, I meant just in a general, "cultural" sense. I'm sure from the participants POV they're fun and amazing (or at least should be) but every time I hear a guy talk about wanting two chicks doting on him my eyes roll so hard that my optometrist can feel it. It's like... yes, and the sky is blue. NEXT.

I think your optometrist is doing something wrong.

 

[leashedbottom]

my Master enjoys watching me being dominated by another slave... they tend to be really aggressive, like they are getting revenge or something, but i am too sub to even think about the other way around

 

[DeliaJade]

I'm a F sub who would love being dominated by another sub M or F under the direction of my M Dom.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

While I often fantasize about MMF, I never fantasize about submitting to more than one dominant partner. My PYL is very special to me, and I can't wrap my head around giving my submission to more than one person. That's just for me, though. Additionally, I've got zero switchiness in me.

 

[spellslave]

Sounds like the sub in that situation - if they enjoyed topping the other submissive- would have at least some inclination towards being a switch. Finding a couple who both want to include a third person and have the right balance of dominance, submissiveness and switchiness is going to be your challenge if anything.