Submitting

[Feelfreetotouch]

It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.

Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly.

 

[YourCaptor]

It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.

Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly.

Word...

but from the other side.

 

[NomadLady]

It's not easy to find the time. It's not easy to find someone with your schedule. But when it all comes together it's outstanding. All you can do is keep trying and hope for the best. People will come and go and when they go, don't be bitter. Appreciate whatever time they gave you and learn from all that they taught you- it will prove valuable in the future.

Oh, and don't screw up during inspection-- the outcome is never as good as it could have been if you had just done it correctly.

How true....looking forward to meeting someone new very soon here myself...thanks for this post!!

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Good luck to you both.

 

[NomadLady]

Good luck to you both.

Thanks it happened today and was HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT......

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Thanks it happened today and was HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT......

Do tell.

 

[NomadLady]

Do tell.

It was mostly vanilla but it was HOT HOT HOT HOT....so was HE!!!!!!!!!!

 

[NomadLady]

Do tell.

Emails, etc are making me think the second meeting will be more about submission.....YIPPEEEE!!!

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Emails, etc are making me think the second meeting will be more about submission.....YIPPEEEE!!!

Lucky you!

 

[NomadLady]

Lucky you!

Hope that luck happens for you as well...

 

[Shaetiano]

Well here goes nothing...

Seems like a good thread to throw this on.


Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..

 

[NomadLady]

Well here goes nothing...

Seems like a good thread to throw this on.


Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..

Unless you are both willing to pick up the pieces...it is VERY hard.

 

[Shaetiano]

Unless you are both willing to pick up the pieces...it is VERY hard.

I know, but He is not. So, that's why I mentioned what I did.
Hmm, I feel like I hijacked a thread not meaning to. Still fairly new and would just really like to talk at the moment.

 

[NomadLady]

I know, but He is not. So, that's why I mentioned what I did.
Hmm, I feel like I hijacked a thread not meaning to. Still fairly new and would just really like to talk at the moment.

I tried picking up pieces for a very long time....in hindsight, I should have stopped years earlier...preserve yourself, your dignity, your self esteem and try to move on. Easier said than done I know....but the t-shirt for trying just isn't that cool.

 

[Shaetiano]

I tried picking up pieces for a very long time....in hindsight, I should have stopped years earlier...preserve yourself, your dignity, your self esteem and try to move on. Easier said than done I know....but the t-shirt for trying just isn't that cool.

Not really trying to pick up the pieces persay with what I had there with Him. I know trying to pick up the pieces with Him will never happen.

However, what I meant to say was I am trying to pick up the pieces of me. I miss the sub, that part of me, feels very neglected, and yeah.. So, that's what I meant to say. Sorry for the confusion.

 

[NomadLady]

Not really trying to pick up the pieces persay with what I had there with Him. I know trying to pick up the pieces with Him will never happen.

However, what I meant to say was I am trying to pick up the pieces of me. I miss the sub, that part of me, feels very neglected, and yeah.. So, that's what I meant to say. Sorry for the confusion.

I can sympathize with you there....the last time I saw my Dom was over three months ago....it is agony. Probably won't ever see him again but who knows...nothing either of us did anything to cause the seperation, that makes it even harder to deal with.

Time makes it easier but I do miss the submission...

 

[Shaetiano]

I can sympathize with you there....the last time I saw my Dom was over three months ago....it is agony. Probably won't ever see him again but who knows...nothing either of us did anything to cause the seperation, that makes it even harder to deal with.

Time makes it easier but I do miss the submission...

Hmm, me and the whole "time makes it easier" phrase are having disagreements. But, I know what you mean as well. Just don't like that phrase/saying anymore.

So, starting a new would be the right phrase, is where I'm having the issue.

 

[NomadLady]

Hmm, me and the whole "time makes it easier" phrase are having disagreements. But, I know what you mean as well. Just don't like that phrase/saying anymore.

So, starting a new would be the right phrase, is where I'm having the issue.

Starting anew is hard, I should have said time eases the pain of missing the submission, that isn't necessarily "easier" when you love being a sub.

 

[Shaetiano]

Starting anew is hard, I should have said time eases the pain of missing the submission, that isn't necessarily "easier" when you love being a sub.

That I can say I agree with. Been finding ways to just help the family members/friends with simple every day tasks hoping it would ease that part of me. But through the last year I've come to realize it only seems to be harboring what I really want.

 

[rcoobc]

and what do you really want shae?

 

[Shaetiano]

and what do you really want shae?

Someone who understands that there are things in my life that have changed me, that I have to face on a day to day basis when reality hits. Someone, who wants to be the leading Dom and a lover all in one. A person that will help me and grow with me through the experiences of what we want to explore and try.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

How are things going for all of you? Any luck?

 

[scottishgirl]

Really new to all of this. Finding the thread helpful Xxx

 

[missgiter]

Well here goes nothing...

Seems like a good thread to throw this on.


Not bitter.. sometimes still a little hurt, but the circumstances had changed us both and after five years well.. Its hard to pick up again to find what we are looking for, or where to start..

Picking up the pieces is quite hard... I'm coming out of a 10 year (vanilla) relationship looking for so-much more. Finding yourself is where to start, though. Find yourself THEN look to another.

 

[desertslave]

Picking up the pieces is quite hard... I'm coming out of a 10 year (vanilla) relationship looking for so-much more. Finding yourself is where to start, though. Find yourself THEN look to another.

I think this is generally wise but...sometimes it takes another to help you discover yourself. Had Master not found me when he did and basically shown me myself and reminded me of who I had been and who I needed to be, I wouldn't be posting here (or anywhere, for that matter) right now. It's still a hard thing to say, out loud, but it's true. I was so lost, and it was so dark where I was.