Submissive nudity

[Gln1517]

when I married my second wife I had explored both sides of the BDSM experience. i was pleasantly surprised that my wife was able to talk about sex and her fantasies and desires. When She told me she wanted to be restrained during sex, our journey began. Beside cuffing her hands to the bed, I also took her to number of dungeons where we rented space in order to play. She really enjoyed being bound and her ass whipped. We would always talk afterward to find out what she liked and didn’t. She hinted that she would like to try being dominated by more people and her being naked while others watched. I found a club and we went just to see what it would be like. She was all for doing something and about two weeks later, we went back and I put her in stocks in a public area and used a paddle on her. Others took turns using a paddle or crop on her and one man stuck his cock in her mouth and she sucked him off. When i let her out of the stocks she had a very red ass and I told her how proud I was of her and that we could leave. She surprised me again saying she wanted to stay and remain nude.
Over time, my wife would always remain nude at home and remain that way if we had people over who knew about our lifestyle. Her submission grew and when I suggested that she should remain nude all the time, except when young children were present, she agreed. This included being naked when her father and stepmother came for dinner.
Has anyone had a similar re that kept a submissive naked for long periods of time?

 

[Tallcajun]

No similar experience, but I love your journey!

 

[Dearelliot]

when I married my second wife I had explored both sides of the BDSM experience. i was pleasantly surprised that my wife was able to talk about sex and her fantasies and desires. When She told me she wanted to be restrained during sex, our journey began. Beside cuffing her hands to the bed, I also took her to number of dungeons where we rented space in order to play. She really enjoyed being bound and her ass whipped. We would always talk afterward to find out what she liked and didn’t. She hinted that she would like to try being dominated by more people and her being naked while others watched. I found a club and we went just to see what it would be like. She was all for doing something and about two weeks later, we went back and I put her in stocks in a public area and used a paddle on her. Others took turns using a paddle or crop on her and one man stuck his cock in her mouth and she sucked him off. When i let her out of the stocks she had a very red ass and I told her how proud I was of her and that we could leave. She surprised me again saying she wanted to stay and remain nude.
Over time, my wife would always remain nude at home and remain that way if we had people over who knew about our lifestyle. Her submission grew and when I suggested that she should remain nude all the time, except when young children were present, she agreed. This included being naked when her father and stepmother came for dinner.
Has anyone had a similar re that kept a submissive naked for long periods of time?

It would be nice if you shared more stories about your wife's
interesting fetish

 

[Gln1517]

It would be nice if you shared more stories about your wife's
interesting fetish

What would you like to know?

 

[Dearelliot]

I was wondering if when she is hosting naked not at a public place, if other visitors might not be tempted to give her behind a swat, or ask permission to touch.
I would imagine that her being the only one naked might n make her the center of attention.
My wife when youger, many years ago, was on occasion naked in front of others dressed, but seldom and less daring.

 

[Gln1517]

In the beginning we really only explored my wife’s submissive needs at clubs or with a professional. We had threesomes in the past but the time at the club I mentioned earlier, was the first time Pat, my wife, was naked in front of more than just me and a dominant female. When she sucked cock while in the stocks, it was the first time she serviced a man while with me. We did meet a few people who we became friendly with and we did spend time with them and they helped Pat understand her needs as a submissive. She had told them one evening while we were at one of their house, that she always wanted to have three men at one time. I knew this was a fantasy of hers. We had done anal before and we had a supply of toys. I would often have her wear a butt plus around our house. The next night I watched as three of our acquaintances fucked all three of her holes. One of the wives whose husband was using Pat’s asshole, was blowing me. She told me later that she loved the experience and I knew she would want to do it again. It was after this experience that we relocated and it took a while to find friends.
Through her work, Pat met a women and she told me that she had invited us to her house for dinner. Eventually, they introduced us to another couple and the six of us became friends, getting together every other week at one of our houses.

I was wondering if when she is hosting naked not at a public place, if other visitors might not be tempted to give her behind a swat, or ask permission to touch.
I would imagine that her being the only one naked might n make her the center of attention.
My wife when youger, many years ago, was on occasion naked in front of others dressed, but seldom and less daring.

yes, that happened. I will write about it.

 

[Gln1517]

At one of these get togethers, and after a couple of drinks, the woman who Pat met through work, wanted to know what was the kinkiest thing we all had done. I told about paddling Pat at a BDSM club and she told about being fucked by the three guys. I think they were a bit surprised by this reveal. I explained that Pat was submissive and when asked by one of the husbands what that meant Pat explained that she like being naked, bound and that she liked to be spanked or paddled. The next time we were together Pat was asked by the host Wife if she would be a naked server. Pat readily agreed and went upstairs to undress. She served drinks and dinner and I made sure the others saw me rubbing her ass as she served me. One husband slid two fingers in her pussy and Pat spread her legs slightly to allow him access. Sarah, the host slapped her on the butt. Long story short, the two wives watched the three of us take Pat in all three holes. I had her mouth.

 

[Gln1517]

From that time forward, my wife would always be naked when we got together. When we went to one of the couples house, I would make her ride naked. It was at that point that she began to want to be nude whenever it was possible. Her submissiveness was also growing, craving more humiliation and even seeing her pain tolerance rise.

 

[Dearelliot]

When younger we used to go to Fantasy fest in Key West, a lot of nudity bare breasts etc...My wife enjoyed the opportunity to show in what was a safe environment.

 

[Gln1517]

When younger we used to go to Fantasy fest in Key West, a lot of nudity bare breasts etc...My wife enjoyed the opportunity to show in what was a safe environment.

I think there is a difference between your wife and mine. Yours likes to show herself off albeit in a safe environment. Mine saw her nudity as part of her submissiveness. We did go for walks, her naked of course, around our block at night and twice in a park, also at night. She was seen only once by a late night jogger in the park. He got to feel her up.

 

[Gln1517]

I think there is a difference between your wife and mine. Yours likes to show herself off albeit in a safe environment. Mine saw her nudity as part of her submissiveness. We did go for walks, her naked of course, around our block at night and twice in a park, also at night. She was seen only once by a late night jogger in the park. He got to feel her up.

Is there anything else you would want to know?

 

[Dearelliot]

I think there is a difference between your wife and mine. Yours likes to show herself off albeit in a safe environment. Mine saw her nudity as part of her submissiveness. We did go for walks, her naked of course, around our block at night and twice in a park, also at night. She was seen only once by a late night jogger in the park. He got to feel her up.

Yes without question quite different

 

[Dearelliot]

Is she made to apologize in front of guests and told to go get the strap. Does she perform submissive acts, like being made to kneel for others, to perform oral on men and women?
Made to sit with her legs spread open at parties?

 

[Gln1517]

Is she made to apologize in front of guests and told to go get the strap. Does she perform submissive acts, like being made to kneel for others, to perform oral on men and women?
Made to sit with her legs spread open at parties?

Yes. She has performed oral on men and women. She has been strapped on occasions but she confided to me that she really enjoys being cropped. The most she has ever taken with the strap was 24. If she is sitting, she must drape her legs over the arms of the chair, if the chair has arms. She was in that position when her father and stepmother came over, although they both knew of how submissive she was.

 

[Dearelliot]

Does your wife drip? I, years ago, knew a woman who when she walked naked what she called "her strings" hung from between her legs.
I assume you do humiliate her by making her masturbate while others watch.

 

[Gln1517]

Does your wife drip? I, years ago, knew a woman who when she walked naked what she called "her strings" hung from between her legs.
I assume you do humiliate her by making her masturbate while others watch.

She doesnt drip but she gets very wet. I have, on occasion, have made her masturbate in front of people but other women forcing her to do that was more common with us.

 

[Gln1517]

She doesnt drip but she gets very wet. I have, on occasion, have made her masturbate in front of people but other women forcing her to do that was more common with us.

When you went to Fantasy Fest, your wife wasn’t naked, was she? I thought that would be illegal. Mine wouldn’t go if I couldn’t lead her down the street with a collar and leash and her nude!

 

[Tallcajun]

Was there ever a time you had to insist your wives put clothes on?

Their ‘need for nudity’ seems pretty intense.

I’m loving your stories.

 

[Gln1517]

Was there ever a time you had to insist your wives put clothes on?

Their ‘need for nudity’ seems pretty intense.

I’m loving your stories.

Only if we were around children or in a place that wouldn't condone nudity. You really have to understand how submissive my wife is.

 

[Gln1517]

Only if we were around children or in a place that wouldn't condone nudity. You really have to understand how submissive my wife is.

It became a bit easier as more people became aware of her submissive nature. But, if we were going out to eat, she would dress. We never wanted her to be arrested. Dominated, yes, arrested, no.

 

[Blase]

I never had any experience with D/s until I came to Lit (many years ago now) and, to my great surprise, got involved in the online version.

Online relationships are very different, of course. Since I can't physically be there to support or protect a sub, I'm generally more limited in terms of things like the length of time that a task can take. Nevertheless, I've done a lot of required nudity during play, or as part of assigned tasks, and I always have my eyes open for circumstances that allow me to extend its duration.

One example would be simply requiring a submissive to sleep naked.

 

[Gln1517]

Obviously, we have had many experiences but they all involved my wife being nude and submissive.

 

[Dearelliot]

When you went to Fantasy Fest, your wife wasn’t naked, was she? I thought that would be illegal. Mine wouldn’t go if I couldn’t lead her down the street with a collar and leash and her nude!

There are naked ladies, on occasion but usually they wear something that they can open and close if they see the Law. The naked ones are told they must cover up or else.
From my experience at the hotels and resorts you have much more leeway, naked around the pool was quite common.

 

[jackofthedawn]

Submissive male here. Being kept naked, or wearing only what my domme dictates, at home is a major relationship goal of mine.

 

[Gln1517]

The woman I talk with frequently who I used to date now and then declared if we ever got together living in the same place, she would keep me all shaved and dressed only in
g-strings even when she had her friends over
She would say I'm her toy and that's all. It's a demeaning place to be put in... But I'm emotionally compelled... To be her toy... If we ever lived together....

Totally understand your feelings on this. With us, it’s a need of hers to be naked. I enjoy her being naked, especially if there are people around who may end up using her for whatever pleasures they want. Her being naked at BDSM clubs was always a turn on for her as well as me.