I'll be honest: my libido has been through the fucking roof lately. I have no idea why, but my arousal has been skyrocketting.
Anyway, Hi everyone! Im a submissive leaning male switch. Hopefully that was obvious by the title. While I generally do lean submissive most of the time and enjoy it, I do enjoy being dominant when my partner gets off on it. I want to be upfront about all of this ahead of time.
So I guess the real question is... what am I looking for? Im an early 30s male searching for a Domme or Domme leaning switch. Unapologetically nerdy, a lover of music, and generally inquisitive. The logic half of my brain is the dominant half over the creative side. I dont want it to be just a one time play, but I also dont expect to fall in love. There has to be some kind of middle ground, right? The more I talk, play, and get to know my partner, the more enjoyable sex gets. We get to learn each others interests, kinks, desires, and whether we truly would be compatible. I'd love to find a woman I can be open with sexually and not be judged. That also includes getting to know the person a bit on a more personal level. Private information ahould be kept private, though.
Some things Im not interested in (so you have some kind of basis): water sports, forced bi, cucking, severe punishment, public shaming
Some things I love/enjoy: name calling, titles, anal play, orgasm control, seduction, teasing, gentle femdom, cum play
Ive been told previously that these can be topping from the bottom, unbecoming of a 'sub', or since submissive men are a dime-a-dozen, demanding. Ideally, Id like to think I dont come across like that, but I do know my interests in hard limits.
Hopefully if this interests you in the slightest, please feel free to send me a PM. That little red number next to the envelope is such a hit of dopamine.
Anyway, Hi everyone! Im a submissive leaning male switch. Hopefully that was obvious by the title. While I generally do lean submissive most of the time and enjoy it, I do enjoy being dominant when my partner gets off on it. I want to be upfront about all of this ahead of time.
So I guess the real question is... what am I looking for? Im an early 30s male searching for a Domme or Domme leaning switch. Unapologetically nerdy, a lover of music, and generally inquisitive. The logic half of my brain is the dominant half over the creative side. I dont want it to be just a one time play, but I also dont expect to fall in love. There has to be some kind of middle ground, right? The more I talk, play, and get to know my partner, the more enjoyable sex gets. We get to learn each others interests, kinks, desires, and whether we truly would be compatible. I'd love to find a woman I can be open with sexually and not be judged. That also includes getting to know the person a bit on a more personal level. Private information ahould be kept private, though.
Some things Im not interested in (so you have some kind of basis): water sports, forced bi, cucking, severe punishment, public shaming
Some things I love/enjoy: name calling, titles, anal play, orgasm control, seduction, teasing, gentle femdom, cum play
Ive been told previously that these can be topping from the bottom, unbecoming of a 'sub', or since submissive men are a dime-a-dozen, demanding. Ideally, Id like to think I dont come across like that, but I do know my interests in hard limits.
Hopefully if this interests you in the slightest, please feel free to send me a PM. That little red number next to the envelope is such a hit of dopamine.
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