Submission

[Hatemyhusband]

Hello all. Nice to meet you! It turns out my (soon to be ex) husband was one of your members. He liked dominance apparently, who knew??? He couldn't assert his way out of a paperbag in real life. Well his newly uncovered porn & sex addiction has left him 30k in debt, living in his parents' spare room, soon to be divorced & crying down the phone about missing his kids. Looks like he's going to be learning all about submission doesn't it! Isn't that ironic! I'm enjoying texting him his greatest hits from here with my own personal commentary.
Who knows, maybe some of you need to hear this little story?

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Hello all. Nice to meet you! It turns out my (soon to be ex) husband was one of your members. He liked dominance apparently, who knew??? He couldn't assert his way out of a paperbag in real life. Well his newly uncovered porn & sex addiction has left him 30k in debt, living in his parents' spare room, soon to be divorced & crying down the phone about missing his kids. Looks like he's going to be learning all about submission doesn't it! Isn't that ironic! I'm enjoying texting him his greatest hits from here with my own personal commentary.
Who knows, maybe some of you need to hear this little story?

Go ahead. Maybe I’ll learn something. But he surely did not piss his money away on this site.

 

[jason4691]

Maybe sour grapes?

 

[drusus]

Who knows, maybe some of you need to hear this little story?

Nobody needs to hear this story. Move on with your divorce and work out how you can both be involved and supportive parents to your children. Pouring out your bitterness to all and sundry isn't going to help anyone.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Nobody needs to hear this story. Move on with your divorce and work out how you can both be involved and supportive parents to your children. Pouring out your bitterness to all and sundry isn't going to help anyone.

Better she should vent here than in the divorce process.

 

[YesIamReal]

Better she should vent here than in the divorce process.

If she is doing it here she is doing it elsewhere as well.
She seems to want to hurt him as much as possible, and it seems is willing to do damage to the kids in the process.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

If she is doing it here she is doing it elsewhere as well.
She seems to want to hurt him as much as possible, and it seems is willing to do damage to the kids in the process.

Clearly, she is not only venting here.
And she is sending him messages intended to hurt him.
But I would stick with my basic point. Hopefully, she can vent and get it out of her system before she hurts the kids.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

That's my point too.. pointing out that he's crying about missing the kids... you know that even if they aren't showing it (she's probably forcing them to suppress it), those kids are at least crying internally over missing him too. Doing something even worse that hurts children is never the correct answer.

I'm also curious about her state. A lot of states are no fault, and will take her restricting his rights into consideration if he gets a good lawyer.

Getting a good lawyer depends on what you consider "good" in this situation.
Some lawyers will fight tooth and nail to get the husband the best deal possible.
A good lawyer is one who will seek an amicable solution that makes it possible for them to communicate and work cooperatively for the best intereests of the childern.

 

[leopard50]

Intriguing. And what are you wearing right now?

 

[30bandits]

Ummm...is this jake?

 

[hulmule]

I've always been the lead and dominant, but that sure looks very enjoyable right now

 

[NEthingGoze]

interesting story, what's new with it?

 

[KatieDoes]

Well, I’m glad that you‘re dealing with things in a healthy manner.

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

 

[WiLordCadus]

Get your pounds of flesh as they say. Also seek therapy, does wonders after the divorce. Highly recommended, your love life is so much easier with actual relationship tools.

As this was all his fault why the marriage failed, correct? Of course it was, what am I thinking?