~Dream~
Loving My Soulmate Scott
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I am starting this thread not so that others doubt my submission
but that hopefully so new people coming in to this lifestyle can see that it's not always wine and roses either.
Submission IS a choice..not a guarantee..once it is given ,it can be taken back ..when given to a Dom(Master),it should be received and treated as a gift,priceless,and to be carefully treasured.
As recent as today ,I have come to realize that parts of me are still not what I would term as" fully submissive"..This scares theHELL out of me..I intend to give myself and have given myself 100% to my Master as His sexually submissive slave and yet parts of me are screaming as if in rebellion about this..but NEVER my heart,my soul ..mostly just 'my pride".
Pride goeth before a fall' as the saying goes so I guess I'm in for a big fall.I'm hoping that my Master's loving arms are there to catch me..I want and NEED to learn to communicate my needs more properly and effectively,while still being respectful..when a sub DISAGREES for example on a matter with her/his Dom/me,what are the appropriate actions to take? only puppies or puppets always agree on Everything...Subs still have their OWN mind but thats what sometimes gets us into trouble too..
being respectful to Him but getting my feelings heard also is VERY VERY important to me...
Master's suggestion is always simple:"Just Submit"..sounds simple too,doesnt it? well,it's Not ..Sometimes for even as very much as I love and adore Him ,I Still struggle...does it mean I'm a Top,or that I am no longer 'submissive"? NO..or at least I sure hope not...I do not want to doubt my submissiveness,at all.
But ,just in the past couple of days I have caused my Master to,and that in itself is a VERY real HELL FOR ME. ....
I have been a 'bratty' sub and seeking to understand this is quite painful for me ..so it is NOT just as simple as the 2 words "Just Submit to me,not at all..I seek to please Him,but I strongly believe that there are times I need reassurance from not only from Him but from within myself also that THIS is the right path I have chosen ..my life feels so dead ,so empty without my submissiveess".I KNOW it's what I AM and what I desire and at times it's the most beautiful feeling in the world ..almost 99% of the time..but I'll tell You what....that 1% is painful as hell....
"Anybody else ever feel like this or am I just having an off day?"
but that hopefully so new people coming in to this lifestyle can see that it's not always wine and roses either.
Submission IS a choice..not a guarantee..once it is given ,it can be taken back ..when given to a Dom(Master),it should be received and treated as a gift,priceless,and to be carefully treasured.
As recent as today ,I have come to realize that parts of me are still not what I would term as" fully submissive"..This scares theHELL out of me..I intend to give myself and have given myself 100% to my Master as His sexually submissive slave and yet parts of me are screaming as if in rebellion about this..but NEVER my heart,my soul ..mostly just 'my pride".
Pride goeth before a fall' as the saying goes so I guess I'm in for a big fall.I'm hoping that my Master's loving arms are there to catch me..I want and NEED to learn to communicate my needs more properly and effectively,while still being respectful..when a sub DISAGREES for example on a matter with her/his Dom/me,what are the appropriate actions to take? only puppies or puppets always agree on Everything...Subs still have their OWN mind but thats what sometimes gets us into trouble too..
being respectful to Him but getting my feelings heard also is VERY VERY important to me...
Master's suggestion is always simple:"Just Submit"..sounds simple too,doesnt it? well,it's Not ..Sometimes for even as very much as I love and adore Him ,I Still struggle...does it mean I'm a Top,or that I am no longer 'submissive"? NO..or at least I sure hope not...I do not want to doubt my submissiveness,at all.
But ,just in the past couple of days I have caused my Master to,and that in itself is a VERY real HELL FOR ME. ....
I have been a 'bratty' sub and seeking to understand this is quite painful for me ..so it is NOT just as simple as the 2 words "Just Submit to me,not at all..I seek to please Him,but I strongly believe that there are times I need reassurance from not only from Him but from within myself also that THIS is the right path I have chosen ..my life feels so dead ,so empty without my submissiveess".I KNOW it's what I AM and what I desire and at times it's the most beautiful feeling in the world ..almost 99% of the time..but I'll tell You what....that 1% is painful as hell....
"Anybody else ever feel like this or am I just having an off day?"