I have an update to my rope thread and thought that I would start a new thread.
As my girl took a shower, I set up the room for a major scene. She came out and said, "Oh, dear, what have we here?" in a slightly sarcastic tone, meaning that she was into it, but not so much that she couldn't speak if you know what I mean.
Anyway, as I began slowly tying her up, she asked, "Oh, I searched through your email and saw that you were planning to go to a rope learning event at the local kink society. Are you going? With whom? Do you need to be vetted?"
So, in my mind, I'm like, "What The Fuck." Why in the world do we have to have this discussion at this moment. Then, I went to kiss her, and she was just closed mouth. The whole thing seemed moronic to me.
Anyway, I just stopped there. Later, she said that she had planned that all along so that I would just keep going and not listen to her.
Given that she had no idea I was setting up a scene until she walked out of the bathroom, I can't figure out how she had that all planned....
(By the way, she has mental/chemical anxiety disorders that cause her to lie all the time).
I asked her much later if she really was sure that she wanted to say that it was some plan of hers to resist me and create conflict, and she said that it was definitely her plan but that she can act more interested next time.
Does any of this make sense to you? It doesn't to me!
(ps. I did speak with people from the local kink society. Wow, I am so happy I did! They are very nice and love sharing.)
As my girl took a shower, I set up the room for a major scene. She came out and said, "Oh, dear, what have we here?" in a slightly sarcastic tone, meaning that she was into it, but not so much that she couldn't speak if you know what I mean.
Anyway, as I began slowly tying her up, she asked, "Oh, I searched through your email and saw that you were planning to go to a rope learning event at the local kink society. Are you going? With whom? Do you need to be vetted?"
So, in my mind, I'm like, "What The Fuck." Why in the world do we have to have this discussion at this moment. Then, I went to kiss her, and she was just closed mouth. The whole thing seemed moronic to me.
Anyway, I just stopped there. Later, she said that she had planned that all along so that I would just keep going and not listen to her.
Given that she had no idea I was setting up a scene until she walked out of the bathroom, I can't figure out how she had that all planned....
(By the way, she has mental/chemical anxiety disorders that cause her to lie all the time).
I asked her much later if she really was sure that she wanted to say that it was some plan of hers to resist me and create conflict, and she said that it was definitely her plan but that she can act more interested next time.
Does any of this make sense to you? It doesn't to me!
(ps. I did speak with people from the local kink society. Wow, I am so happy I did! They are very nice and love sharing.)
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