Sub collars

[katalynn]

I have found my perfect Master finally. =) Sadly though, we are having a hard time finding some really good collars for me. Looking for something that locks and will still look good for like going out, working, everyday life and not have it be so obvious to those that turn their noses up at this type of lifestyle.

It's not that I'm ashamed of course. I'd wear a spiked collar if I had the choice, but I work in an office environment and well.. of course they don't like that. I'm also looking for something perhaps sterling silver type metal, or stainless steel. Something that I can wear anywhere, in the rain, shower, river etc and it won't get trashed.

If anyone has any really good.. fairly priced.. sites to send my way. Much would be appreciated.

 

[JupitersGirl]

This might work with a heart padlock.

http://www.stockroom.com/product1.aspx?product_id=1144

I've seen others and will post them as I come across them. I'm delighted that you have found happiness. <smile>

 

[CutieMouse]

These three links from the BDSM Library sticky still work...

http://www.eternitycollars.com/secure/secure_frame.htm
http://www.totalleather.com/prod06fulld.htm
http://www.dreamstrike.com/bazaar/sspage.html

 

[serijules]

bondagecollars.com has the nicest looking "discreet" collars I've found. I wear one 24/7.

When with Ma'am, I wear one of the eternity collars as linked in other replies....it is not anywhere near discreet IMO...I get many questions and comments on it where my screw-down silver etched collar from bondagecollars only gets compliments.

 

[senior0074d]

I was in the same boat not too long ago — looking for something that locks, feels meaningful, but still looks subtle enough for daily wear, especially in professional settings.


I found a few great options:

• eternitycollars.com has some beautiful locking jewelry that’s super discreet.
• stockroom.com has more classic BDSM styles if you’re into something bolder.
• And I personally got mine from hushcrafts.com — they have leather collars with real silver and gemstone details, and they feel elegant while still carrying that deeper meaning. I love how mine looks like a minimalist choker, but it locks, and no one at work even notices.

Hope that helps — you definitely deserve something that feels just right for you and your dynamic

 

[pollock0]

It might not be what you want to hear buuuuuut: any necklace that has a special meaning for the both of you works. My submissive has a gold necklace that shows a sun. No one would ever suspect that it represents a D/s dynamic and relationship but it does for us. It's perfect for us due to the symbolism and she can always wear it as well.

A lot of online BDSM-themed shops carry rather dubious quality collars in my experience, so I preferred just buying something from an actual good jewellery store.

 

[seekingAlpha]

Find a local jewelry smith and they can make you a one of a kind "stealth" custom collar that can be worm everywhere in any setting. It will mean more since it was customed designed by you and your master. In fact, one of my subs still gets compliments from her coworkers on her "stealth" collar that we designed together.

 

[Older_Pervert]

It might not be what you want to hear buuuuuut: any necklace that has a special meaning for the both of you works. My submissive has a gold necklace that shows a sun. No one would ever suspect that it represents a D/s dynamic and relationship but it does for us. It's perfect for us due to the symbolism and she can always wear it as well.

A lot of online BDSM-themed shops carry rather dubious quality collars in my experience, so I preferred just buying something from an actual good jewellery store.

My girl also has a gold necklace I bought her, that she regards as her secret collar. She has never taken it off since……