Stupid male question

[PaddyO]

OK Ladies I do have a question. I am married but the wife just isn't interested in sex. Where and how is the best way to meet women for a NSA affair. I am 67 y.o. been married for 7 yrs and out of the dating loop for 15 yrs. I don't want hookers, just a married woman whose husband isn't interested. Don't want to flaunt anything to my wife and hurt her.

You can email me at Paddy-O@live.com

Thanks for any advice.

 

[ella_v]

If you don't want to hurt your wife, you should not cheat on her. Because when she finds out it will be very painful for her...

 

[SweetErika]

1) This isn't Personals.

2) You're not allowed to post personal info on this site, including your email address.

3) You've been posting the same topic since you joined. Why do you think the responses will be different this time?

4) If you're dissatisfied with your relationship, you need to talk to your wife about it. Maybe she'll figure out how to get her mojo back (if that's the issue) or even encourage you to get your sexual needs met elsewhere, but she should have a part in the decision-making.

 

[zhelp]

1) This isn't Personals.

2) You're not allowed to post personal info on this site, including your email address.

3) You've been posting the same topic since you joined. Why do you think the responses will be different this time?

4) If you're dissatisfied with your relationship, you need to talk to your wife about it. Maybe she'll figure out how to get her mojo back (if that's the issue) or even encourage you to get your sexual needs met elsewhere, but she should have a part in the decision-making.

'she should have a part in the decision-making.'
- Exactly

 

[twister947]

If one partner chooses chastity for him/herself, fine, but that is a personal, individual decision. If the non-chaste partner seeks sexual gratification elsewhere, under those conditions, it isn't cheating, imo.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Make one of those "older man seeking young women" threads in the Personals section.

 

[SweetErika]

If one partner chooses chastity for him/herself, fine, but that is a personal, individual decision. If the non-chaste partner seeks sexual gratification elsewhere, under those conditions, it isn't cheating, imo.

It's cheating if it violates the rules the couple has established.

What you're describing is simply a version of passive aggressive bullshit and justification, but it's still cheating if the couple hasn't agreed the non-chaste partner can get their needs met elsewhere.

 

[janeyl]

<but the wife just isn't interested in sex...>


See, when I see posts like this, I always just want to add..."With You"...

 

[twister947]

It's cheating if it violates the rules the couple has established.

What you're describing is simply a version of passive aggressive bullshit and justification, but it's still cheating if the couple hasn't agreed the non-chaste partner can get their needs met elsewhere.

A sexless marriage violates the expectations, if not the rules (rules??) of the relationship,as well. That passive aggressive door swings both ways.

I still believe that if one partner opts out of a sexual relationship, the other's sex life is no longer any of his/her business.

 

[Hunnyberry]

<but the wife just isn't interested in sex...>


See, when I see posts like this, I always just want to add..."With You"...

Oh how I love that comment!! Janey

 

[Hunnyberry]

OK Ladies I do have a question. I am married but the wife just isn't interested in sex. Where and how is the best way to meet women for a NSA affair. I am 67 y.o. been married for 7 yrs and out of the dating loop for 15 yrs. I don't want hookers, just a married woman whose husband isn't interested. Don't want to flaunt anything to my wife and hurt her.

You can email me at Paddy-O@live.com

Thanks for any advice.

hmmmm 67 y.o.
start playing bingo! Lot's of married chicks there.
okay, I apologize for meing mean. really truly I am

 

[Eilan]

<but the wife just isn't interested in sex...>


See, when I see posts like this, I always just want to add..."With You"...

DingDingDingDingDing! We have a winner!

 

[jckontharocks]

You're 67 go fishing

 

[bailadora]

You're 67 go fishing

I know you think you're being funny, but that's just thoughtless and stupid. His age has fuck all to do with it.