lovecraft68
Bad Doggie
- Joined
- Jul 13, 2009
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Yeah. On consideration, I'd omit Gay from my categories. Gay men are usually exceptionally tolerant and understanding. What I was trying to get at are people who are deep in the closet and highly conflicted about some secret desire or fantasy. They come here and read stories on the subject and then purge themselves of guilt by directing their anger at the author.
And you're right again. I'd say by far the majority of them are men, who feel their masculinity threatened by these desires and who are more likely to react with anger.
I don't work much in the high-risk categories. Most of the nasty FB I get is from men demanding my heroines be punished for being 'sluts,' or taking me to task for not being more cruel and sadistic in my BDSM stuff.
This is where I believe the really nasty incest feedback comes from. These guys get off to stories about sex with mom or sis which is something they have fantasized about, then get pissed they liked it and take it out on the author.
In GM, which I don't read, but my wife does, I see the occasional snotty remark(I love the feedback portal and read comments to stories I will never read) The wife has commented that although she don;t give a rats ass, the "every straight guy in the world secretly wants to suck cock" theory brings some of that nastiness on.
I never leave negative comments on the stories I finish. The ones I do are the ones I quit early because of stupid spelling/grammar errors that slipped through (saw one the other day = "Sorry, she's not hear right now") or if the plot just absolutely sucks (i.e. "The six lesbians immediately became enthralled by the sight of Habib's throbbing 18" cock and surrendered to his manly desires"**)