Strsp On Question

[DrivingSouth]

I am interested in talking to my GF about using a strap on (on) me...My question is does the female get enough stimulation on her clit in order to have an orgasm while doing her man??

Thanks!

 

[SummerMorning]

Well, that really depends on the strap-on and what she does with it. Some have two ends, then you have the strapless feeldoe, and so forth. It also depends on how sensitive she is.

If she's not very sensitive and you want her to orgasm, you'd better have a lot of lube and a very welcoming posterior!

 

[infinity706]

Well, that would depend on the strapon. Of course, women don't tend to get enough clit stimulation from being penetrated anyway, so it's not like it would be any huge deal. A strapon with a well positioned bullet vibe would certainly help matters since clits seem to like those.

 

[silverwhisper]

drivingsouth: my understanding is that there aren't any that offer clitoral stimulation themselves (but note infinity's suggestion re: a bullet vibe for use in addition), although if anyone knows differently, i bet the OP would appreciate a link.

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[saskatuna]

ostensibly things like the feeldoe and the share are supposed to rub in just the right place so a woman can get off.

but having used a feeldoe, you'd have to be just the right size, and really enjoy that particular motion to orgasm from it.

that being said, my girlfriend has enough fun even if she doesn't cum every time from it!

 

[albertaboy]

My wife has a WeVibe and one of the times she fucked me with her strap-on she had an orgasm from the combination.

 

[Eilan]

So did your GF end up being pregnant? You never did let us know.

 

[DrivingSouth]

So did your GF end up being pregnant? You never did let us know.

Unfortunately, she is not pregnant...still working on it though...lol...

 

[oldkinky]

I am interested in talking to my GF about using a strap on (on) me...My question is does the female get enough stimulation on her clit in order to have an orgasm while doing her man??

Thanks!

We use Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness, two silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness to stimulate her clitoris while she fucks me. She gives me a handjob while she fucks me and we usually cum together.

Other dildos can be used with the harness. We recently purchased Vibrating Mistress Dildo. It is fantastic.

Strap on sex is fantastic. My wife loves it too. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on. She rubs lube all over the dildo and talks about her dick and how she is going to fuck me.

By the way be careful not to get a dildo that is too large in diameter. A maximum width of 1.25 inches is just right for me.

 

[mickwannabe]

Unless you buy a strap-on that specifically has the features of clit stimulation, she's S.O.L. For my girl that's not a problem though...for her part of the strap-on deal is the D/s thing...so she'd be happier just grinding herself into my face afterwards anyhow

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

The Feeldoe's been mentioned a few times...we have one, and I can really recommend it, although perhaps not for complete beginners. It's strapless - in essence a double dildo - and while keeping it in place effectively is bit of a dark art at first, once you've got the hang of it, it works really well.

The 'wearer's' end is a well-designed for the vagina as I've ever encountered. It feels lovely in me, and the front ridges stimulate my clitoris very nicely. When I wear it and penetrate my partner for sex, I orgasm beautifully with it.

The 'receiver's' end works well in both your anus or vagina - although for anal penetration at least you will probably have to hold the base steady when entering.

It's also great not to have straps or a harness - so much more unostentatious and natural, if you can ever say that of a dildo. I do rather like how my partner looks when she wears it - the phallus seems almost a part of her.

Overall, heartily recommended.