Stroking My Man

I, or that should be we, have read a lot about handjobs in a blog by someone who is a professional when it comes to giving happy endings (Confessions of an Erotic Masseuse). So that research begs the question about the wrist technique you use. Dominant or off hand? Backhand or forehand? Fingertip or curled grip?

Inquiring minds want to know.

Dominant for the stroking (my right), left on the head of his cock. Forehand. Fingertip or curl depends on size. With average guys I start with fingertips until they swell enough then shift to curled grip. With big guys, all curled. But I always use my thumb or finger tip on that spot just below the head. And when he starts shooting, I often press down on the spot and wow, what a response. Ladies, you should try this with your man. He'll love it.
 
I think it's important to switch it up. There's nothing quite like masturbating my husband. I think it's so different than sex. A little more innocent. A intimate in a completely different way. I love my techniques lol. There's just a ton going on. It's sexy
 
I think it's important to switch it up. There's nothing quite like masturbating my husband. I think it's so different than sex. A little more innocent. A intimate in a completely different way. I love my techniques lol. There's just a ton going on. It's sexy

Agree. :)
 
Hand jobs were my introduction to sex. It was an act of intimacy without going the whole way. I recall those days with fondness, being jerked off in my car and trying not to cum over her faux fur coat.....
It still is a loving act, for her to give relief in such a way, and after all theses years is something very special.
 
Dominant for the stroking (my right), left on the head of his cock. Forehand. Fingertip or curl depends on size. With average guys I start with fingertips until they swell enough then shift to curled grip. With big guys, all curled. But I always use my thumb or finger tip on that spot just below the head. And when he starts shooting, I often press down on the spot and wow, what a response. Ladies, you should try this with your man. He'll love it.

Just more proof that I need to introduce you to my wife.
 
Kathie Ann - I am with you on this topic. I particularly love to move my face close when he is about to cum. If I can, I love to watch it shoot out of his cock. That drives me crazy! The shower - I have found - that I don't get my fair share of the hot water. Still, your showers sound like a lot of fun
 
I think it was the Joy of Sex where it was called "handwork" and said to be an important skill no women should be without.

You bet I used that to persuade more than one reluctant darling to develop her "skill".
 
Kathie Ann - I am with you on this topic. I particularly love to move my face close when he is about to cum. If I can, I love to watch it shoot out of his cock. That drives me crazy! The shower - I have found - that I don't get my fair share of the hot water. Still, your showers sound like a lot of fun

That's the way it is sweetie. We don't get the covers or pillows, we get the wet spot, we don't get the warm water. But I do get his semen and his penis. So I guess I can accept that. A fair deal for all!
 
That's the way it is sweetie. We don't get the covers or pillows, we get the wet spot, we don't get the warm water. But I do get his semen and his penis. So I guess I can accept that. A fair deal for all!

With someone like you around, I'd buy a bigger hot water heater.
 
One of the things I have always loved to do is give my man handjobs. I love to get him right to the point of orgasm and then stop and torture him with expectation, then start up again and when he's really losing it then stop again and gently massage the head of his cock, rubbing my thumb on the spot just below the head and I swear, he shoots like a fire hose. My favorite place to do it is in the shower. I like to stand behind him while he puts his hand on the shower wall and puts his head in the shower and I press up too him from behind and reach around and stroke him from behind. I can usually tell he's about to shoot because his ass shakes a little. That's when I stop and kiss his neck and back and rub his chest. Then I start again. I do that a few times until I think he's really ready to blow and then massage the head and he shoots like crazy. I love it. Sometimes he doesn't let me do it all the way. Sometimes he gets impatient and spins around and just screws me. That's ok too.

So ladies, do you like to do this, and men do you like to have it done to you?

Reading this got me very turned on. You have a way with words woman! I couldn't agree more. I love lending my husband a hand and there is something so fucking hot about watching him erupt when the pleasure becomes too much for him. I also think I love seeing the visual sign of his pleasure especially when he has a large amount of ejaculate. It is definitely all about rubbing the frenulum like you mentioned and if you really want to make him lose control and give him the biggest and best orgasms add some prostate stimulation with a finger or toy into the mix and watch him explode like never before.
 
Reading this got me very turned on. You have a way with words woman! I couldn't agree more. I love lending my husband a hand and there is something so fucking hot about watching him erupt when the pleasure becomes too much for him. I also think I love seeing the visual sign of his pleasure especially when he has a large amount of ejaculate. It is definitely all about rubbing the frenulum like you mentioned and if you really want to make him lose control and give him the biggest and best orgasms add some prostate stimulation with a finger or toy into the mix and watch him explode like never before.

Thank you. You're kind. :)
 
I, or that should be we, have read a lot about handjobs in a blog by someone who is a professional when it comes to giving happy endings (Confessions of an Erotic Masseuse). So that research begs the question about the wrist technique you use. Dominant or off hand? Backhand or forehand? Fingertip or curled grip?

Inquiring minds want to know.

That blog's a really good read! Thank you for sharing. She's got a really nice writing style and she makes the challenge of running a small business as interesting as the descriptions of her work. Shame she's not keeping it up to date.
 
I, or that should be we, have read a lot about handjobs in a blog by someone who is a professional when it comes to giving happy endings (Confessions of an Erotic Masseuse). So that research begs the question about the wrist technique you use. Dominant or off hand? Backhand or forehand? Fingertip or curled grip?

Inquiring minds want to know.

That blog's a really good read! Thank you for sharing. She's got a really nice writing style and she makes the challenge of running a small business as interesting as the descriptions of her work. Shame she's not keeping it up to date.
Her blog was the major source for hubby and I to learn the happy ending culture.

Yes, she has disappeared with only three posts since 2012, the last being over a year ago. She broke up with her boyfriend, then HE got married to someone else and she took it hard. I have her personal email but she doesn't answer even simple contact attempts. The emails don't bounce (as of last fall) so no one cancel the address.
 
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My husband read through this thread last night and reminded me of an escapade we had in the early 90s. I worked for a major hotel and one of the perks was staying for free with only minor blackout restrictions. We traveled as few as 15 miles and as much as 200 for a weekend away from the kids. We often indulged in frisky play in swimming pools and whirlpools.

This particular weekend, we were in an Indiana college town (South Bend). We were in the whirlpool about to do something nasty when a large number of college girls entered the facility. Hubby was sitting with his swim suit around his ankles as we talked to various groups of them, as many as 8 at once. They were from other colleges in town for cheerleading competition.

The risque part was when the pump timer shut off. He escaped notice until two girls happened to see. Someone eventually restarted the jets but they kept staring, waiting for glimpses through the bubbles. When I saw them peeking, I started to stroke him underwater.

Well, that really got their attention. They could see enough motion to know what I was doing. I read their lips as they discussed the scene. Poor hubby was going crazy. He tried to disguise his orgasm but I pulled his cock up enough to break the surface and shoot semen in the air. You should have seen the look on their faces. :devil:
 
Her blog was the major source for hubby and I to learn the happy ending culture.

Yes, she has disappeared with only three posts since 2012, the last being over a year ago. She broke up with her boyfriend, then HE got married to someone else and she took it hard. I have her personal email but she doesn't answer even simple contact attempts. The emails don't bounce (as of last fall) so no one cancel the address.

Yeah it's a shame. It's a pretty good read and more humorous than tititillating
 
Would love this. But wifey is too vanilla.

[Don't like to say that kind of stuff bc it seems awful, but I needed to tell someone and I can't talk with anyone in my life about it]
 
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