Striptease

[Unccwhitegurl]

Hey!! I want to strip for my man and i know this sounds silly but like whats the best way to go about it? like as far as i know i want to sit him in a chair and put on some music....then what be like don't move?.... I feel silly for asking this but please any help would be appriciated!
Kayla

 

[blondi84]

I just did this for my husbands birthday, and it was fun. I was way nervous, but I will tell you how I did it. I used Paula Cole's Feelin Love song. It's a good song for this kind of thing, but I also considered Toni Braxton's Your makin me high. I bought some 5 inch black heels, wore thigh high stockings, a black thong, matiching black bra, a black cami, and one of his button up work shirts. My hair was up, and I had on an ass load of makeup. When he came home from work, I sent him into our family room, where I had set up about 50 votive candles. I gave him a beer, and told him to relax. I wasn't all dressed up at this point. While he relaxed from his day I got ready and had a couple glasses of wine, and then went downstairs. As I was walking around lighting candles in my little outfit I told him that if he laughed at me, not only would I stop immidiatly and punch him in the face, this would never ever happen again. Later he told me I looked so sexy, and my voice was shaking, he just wanted to fuck me right then and there. I put the music on, and basicly gave him a lapdance, while stripping. I had kind of practiced earlier with just the chair, but I pretty much improvised. It was really so much fun, and I would do it again in a second! It ended with me sitting on his lap kissing him, and then on the floor...

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

Thank u so much i will keep that in mind, i am in college so i may have to improvise as far as buying new clothes....but hey i can be creative..... candles is nice i like that...he wantss me to do it to nine inch nails closer....its not gonna be one of those sensual stripteases this is his fantasy and he wants me to strip and then go busk wild and let him fuck me up the ass... the fucking up the ass is the least scariest.... Thank u so much it did help! and i might just steal ur idea if i want to give him a sensual striptease also.....

 

[blondi84]

oooh, Closer is a sexy song! I can see that working out well. Maybe get a black light or a strobe light! Maybe a fishnet body suit? I am hooked on stripping, I would probably make a fortune if I were single!

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

were u scared the first time u stripped?

 

[blondi84]

Yes, I thought he would laugh at me! I was afraid he would be like "Hun, your cute, and I love you but you just don't have the seriously sexy whore image going.". I am a mom, so I also had to worry about the way my body looked but the whole time he just had this kind of dumb smile on his face. Like he was happy and impressed.

 

[M's girl]

Yes, I thought he would laugh at me! I was afraid he would be like "Hun, your cute, and I love you but you just don't have the seriously sexy whore image going.". I am a mom, so I also had to worry about the way my body looked but the whole time he just had this kind of dumb smile on his face. Like he was happy and impressed.

I would have felt the same I guess. Am not a stripper (too insecure I guess). Great courage for doing it even while you were worried. He must have really appreciated it is my guess and I think you are over your shyness after his reaction?

Good for you!

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

Okay.... *puts on closer* should i just grind on him while the song is going and slowly strip or let him rip my clothes off....if this was sensual the first would be more appropriate but he wasnts it downa nd dirty so the latter would be appropriate yes??....Should i just grind to the beat or do moves according to the lyrics.....*here they are just in case*

I mean he is a domanate man like he has dominated women before etc...I want him to be mine and i think this is a test as too whether he should be or not i mean he meantioned it in passing and was like this is my fantasy...so in passing and out of the blue i just kinda blurted out okay....i'll do it
and he was like what?? and i was like ur fantasy i'll do it...so i am very nervous....i wasn't even this nervous during finals.....

Closer by Nine Inch Nails

you let me violate you, you let me desecrate you
you let me penetrate you, you let me complicate you
help me i broke apart my insides, help me i've got no soul to sell
help me the only thing that works for me, help me get away from myself

i want to fuck you like an animal
i want to feel you from the inside
i want to fuck you like an animal
my whole existence is flawed
you get me closer to god

you can have my isolation, you can have the hate that it brings
you can have my absence of faith, you can have my everything
help me tear down my reason, help me it's your sex i can smell
help me you make me perfect, help me become somebody else

i want to fuck you like an animal
i want to feel you from the inside
i want to fuck you like an animal
my whole existence is flawed
you get me closer to god

through every forest, above the trees
within my stomach, scraped off my knees
i drink the honey inside your hive
you are the reason i stay alive

 

[blondi84]

Ok, I would tie him to the chair. I would then have a strobe light going, I think that would be best. You could probably rent one pretty cheap. If you are flexible you could put one of your feet up on his shoulder and grind your pussy in his face. I think this situation calls for you to tease him, relentlessly. Keep your clothes on, but give him little peeks while you dance. 90% of this is going to be in your head, because he is going to be thinking Wow. That is all he will be thinking because he will not be capable of forming words. If you have any strip clubs in your area, go to one, with your girlfriends. Watch what they do, and if you see a girl that you are impressed with buy her a drink. She will come over and talk to you and you can ask her for some tips.

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

Wow u are awesome...if u live in NC i would so want to seriously hang out with u and chill u seem cool.... I think he likes the tieing up thing... He is very control but last night he gave up control it was quite erotic to finally be in control....

 

[blondi84]

Hope you have fun! I am on the other coast, but if you ever get to the Seattle/Portland area...

 

[TBKahuna123]

You know, my wife has tried to do this but she's always self conscious too. Am I moving right? Is my outfit ok? I don't have a stripper body, do I look stupid? Let me give you an insight:

WE DON'T CARE!!!!

Seriously, if you are in a strong, sexual relationship with someone, you can forget all those fears. Let's start with the body thing: Chances are we've seen you naked already and we haven't complained yet. If we had you wouldn't be doing a strip tease for us, would you? You're beautiful whether you think so or not, and we are extremely aroused by you.

Second, the outfit. Again, we don't care, so long as it comes off! It's simple, just wear something sexy under whatever you wear and you're fine. If you can go out and buy a sexy outfit great, but it's the least of the worries. The ultimate outfit is easy: thong/gstring, stockings, garter belt and heels. Heels and gsting optional, but I digress.

Third, am I moving right. Well, this is the only place to maybe worry. You don't have to look like a pro, but at least have a plan. Practice alone before you do it for real, but remember one thing: Attitude is everything. My wife isn't the most graceful dancer in the world, but the fact that she tries and does it with an attitude is what gets me going. It's the old A for Effort! I don't even notice the technical imperfections because I'm too busy looking at her smoldering eyes the whole time. OK, maybe not at her eyes the whole time, but you get my meaning.

It sounds to me like your boyfriend isn't looking for a sexy striptease, he wants a hot and heavy pounding lap dance, with a happy ending. Attitude is going to be extra important to pull this off. Hot, hungy animalistic and primal. That's the way to go. If you have anything animal printed to wear, I'd say that would be perfect.

Sorry to intrude ladies, just thought I'd ad my buck and a quarter from the male perspective.

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

Thank u thanku u set me a little at ease......
kisses!!

 

[SweetErika]

UNC, there have been a few really great threads on stripping tips in here, so try an advanced search of thread titles.

If you're looking for more music, check out post #6 in The Blank Manual...there's even a thread specifically for music to strip to.

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

UNC, there have been a few really great threads on stripping tips in here, so try an advanced search of thread titles.

If you're looking for more music, check out post #6 in The Blank Manual...there's even a thread specifically for music to strip to.

thank u so much!!! BTW i love ur pic is that u??

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

How do u search for threads??
I m sorry kinda computer illiterate.....

 

[SweetErika]

https://forum.literotica.com/search.php? and try 'stripping' and then 'strip' and 'stripper' in the box in the upper left. Select 'Seach Titles Only' and 'How To' as well.

Here's one to get you started (also contains links to other good threads).

And thank you for the compliment; it's me alright.

 

[lemmesee]

Whatever you may do....or however you may do it....please let him jerk himself off as he is enjoying looking at you....that's what strip-tease is all about ....

 

[AndrewCormac]

You know, my wife has tried to do this but she's always self conscious too. Am I moving right? Is my outfit ok? I don't have a stripper body, do I look stupid? Let me give you an insight:

WE DON'T CARE!!!!

Seriously, if you are in a strong, sexual relationship with someone, you can forget all those fears. Let's start with the body thing: Chances are we've seen you naked already and we haven't complained yet. If we had you wouldn't be doing a strip tease for us, would you? You're beautiful whether you think so or not, and we are extremely aroused by you.

Second, the outfit. Again, we don't care, so long as it comes off! It's simple, just wear something sexy under whatever you wear and you're fine. If you can go out and buy a sexy outfit great, but it's the least of the worries. The ultimate outfit is easy: thong/gstring, stockings, garter belt and heels. Heels and gsting optional, but I digress.

Third, am I moving right. Well, this is the only place to maybe worry. You don't have to look like a pro, but at least have a plan. Practice alone before you do it for real, but remember one thing: Attitude is everything. My wife isn't the most graceful dancer in the world, but the fact that she tries and does it with an attitude is what gets me going. It's the old A for Effort! I don't even notice the technical imperfections because I'm too busy looking at her smoldering eyes the whole time. OK, maybe not at her eyes the whole time, but you get my meaning.

It sounds to me like your boyfriend isn't looking for a sexy striptease, he wants a hot and heavy pounding lap dance, with a happy ending. Attitude is going to be extra important to pull this off. Hot, hungy animalistic and primal. That's the way to go. If you have anything animal printed to wear, I'd say that would be perfect.

Sorry to intrude ladies, just thought I'd ad my buck and a quarter from the male perspective.

in a nutshell! My gf has been promising me a lapdance for a while now, and i know how much i'm going to enjoy it, even if she wore jeans and a t shirt.

oh, and as for moves, i know i'd love some warm cleavage in my face and a firm ass grinding against my crotch. be prepared for some reciprocations though,

 

[DarkLover]

Have any of you tried any striptease workout videos? Any advice on which ones might be good?


DarkLover

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

WE DON'T CARE!!!!

Attitude is everything.

I couldn't agree more. If you want to do this for your man. Be confident that he will appreciate it. Going to the effort to do this is HUGE. Really, I would love for my wife to do this. Just knowing that she is trying is HUGE. Dressing up in a sexy outfit, dancing for me. THIS WILL TURN ME ON. Did I mention that this is a HUGE Deal? HUGE. Do this and tell him not to laugh and then do it again sometime.

Ok tips on the dancing - we don't care just make contact. If you tie him to the chair. Grind into his lap. Press your breasts into his face. Go around behind him and then rub him anywhere. I dosen't matter. Three seconds after you tie him to the chair he WILL BE HARD. This is HUGE. Do it, He will love it.

Holden

HUGE!

 

[blondi84]

Have any of you tried any striptease workout videos? Any advice on which ones might be good?


DarkLover

I bought Carmen Electra's set of stripperobics and while it isn't much of a workout, my husband likes to watch. (me not the dvd's.)

 

[TBKahuna123]

I bought Carmen Electra's set of stripperobics and while it isn't much of a workout, my husband likes to watch. (me not the dvd's.)

Now THAT gives new meaning to going to the gym!!!

 

[Unccwhitegurl]

Now THAT gives new meaning to going to the gym!!!

Amen...lol u learn to strip while ur child are in another room being entertained in the daycare....priceless...

 

[blondi84]

Amen...lol u learn to strip while ur child are in another room being entertained in the daycare....priceless...

Well it's not as though I am a real stripper! I dont think that there is anything wrong with spending my free time doing something to improve my relationship with my husband! BTW she is usually upstairs, not awake yet when I am working out!