Stretching and training

BiBunny said:
I just wanted to drool over the speculums. I have two of them, one medium-sized and one large. They're some of my favorite toys. When B. puts them in me, opens me up, and reaches in to gently massage my cervix with his fingers, I'm in Heaven. *Drool* The last time he used the big one on me, I came so hard I warped the damn thing. :eek:

Ok, I have nothing of any importance to add to this thread. I just love large penetrations. :nana:
Jesus, thats hot... Ive thought about purchasing a speculum for Mrs Popcorn, I think your contribution has made up my mind as far as the next purchase goes.
 
I have used those plugs more now - and also longer times. It still feels really stretching and somewhere in borderline of pain but at least it haven't teared any tissues anymore...

At least those plugs do what they were needed to do. They open me up so that anal play is easier. On Saturday my gf fucked me in ass with an umbrella handle ( :eek: ). It was really nice to be able to take it without too much squirming. And she liked it too.

Lot's of rough sex and then sweet cuddling afterwards. I almost began to cry after orgasm (stupid though that I held back). Submission always makes me so emotional. :heart:
 
My goodness...an umbrella handle? Hope you're careful with the shapes of things and don't get splinters or such.

I've masturbated fingering my ass often and have gotten, through patience, four fingers in (barely).Still hoping to meet a small-handed girl to get wrist-deep in me...someday!
 
erick07 said:
My goodness...an umbrella handle? Hope you're careful with the shapes of things and don't get splinters or such.

Thinking afterwards it would have been smart to use even condom over it... It was smooth enough and otherwise reasonably safe I think.

Thats just the initial reason to use plugs. To stretch myself so that she can use "anything" to fuck me.
 
misspihla said:
Thinking afterwards it would have been smart to use even condom over it... It was smooth enough and otherwise reasonably safe I think.

Thats just the initial reason to use plugs. To stretch myself so that she can use "anything" to fuck me.
Good to see your enjoying yourself with your new toys and friend.

I agree though, a condom over the handle might be the way to go. Should make for an easier cleanup too. I use one over my buttplug when I used it the other day. Made cleanup a lot easier. I plan on using it again tonight if I am not too busy with other things. But, I think I am a ways off from using anything like an umbrella handle. LOL

Anyway, be safe and have fun. That's what it's all about.

Ohh, and plenty of lube. I know I used a lot and it did make things easier, thus, more fun.
 
No worries.. I do use lube. I have couple times had small tears and bleedings and it hurts enough to remind me not to forget the lube. :eek:
 
You need a rectal dilator kit: http://www.extremerestraints.com/rectal-dilator-kit_277.html

You start with the smallest plug, and keep it in as long as you comfortably can
When you can "wear" it comfortably for a full 24 hours (taking it out as needed for nature's call), you move to the next size & the next size
You go slow & easy & use lube
when you get to the point of being able to keep the biggest one in your body will be well trained & as long as you don't stop playing with your ass you don't lose it even if you take days (several) off or use smaller things
:)
 
hot hot hot

ass training is such a hot idea !

im going to have to tell my friends about it !
 
forestorgy said:
ass training is such a hot idea !

im going to have to tell my friends about it !


A well-trained ass is a happy ass!
 
Seems like I broke up with her :/

Haven't trained or even used any toys at all for a week or two. It feels a bit silly now alone.
 
misspihla said:
Seems like I broke up with her :/

Haven't trained or even used any toys at all for a week or two. It feels a bit silly now alone.


:(

I'm sorry. I hope you can find a new kinky anal lover.
They're out there!
One of my sweeties is coming to visit next weekend with her new speculum, I'm looking forward to seeing how open she can get. :)
 
James G 5 said:
:(

I'm sorry. I hope you can find a new kinky anal lover.
They're out there!
One of my sweeties is coming to visit next weekend with her new speculum, I'm looking forward to seeing how open she can get. :)

I'm sure someone will be happy to take her place - her loss anyway :D

Have fun :p
 
I just had to post on this topic. I am almost embarrased to admit it but this topic really turns me on. As much as I like all the lady talk about taking things I am a guy who can't get enough of taking things. Also I must admit the bigger the better.
 
rick_j21 said:
I just had to post on this topic. I am almost embarrased to admit it but this topic really turns me on. As much as I like all the lady talk about taking things I am a guy who can't get enough of taking things. Also I must admit the bigger the better.

Hmm, I have played with a young man like you...it was fun. :D

Catalina :catroar:
 
rick_j21 said:
I just had to post on this topic. I am almost embarrased to admit it but this topic really turns me on. As much as I like all the lady talk about taking things I am a guy who can't get enough of taking things. Also I must admit the bigger the better.

Well embarrassment is good for everyone once in a while :p As is getting turned on - more often than once in a while though...
 
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I'm not sure that stretching your asshole is such a good idea. Bigger than cock size anyway. It's just not designed for a fist.
 
WriterDom said:
I'm not sure that stretching your asshole is such a good idea. Bigger than cock size anyway. It's just not designed for a fist.

Do you have more information about that or just a hunch?

I think anal fisting is something that gay men have done and I believe it can be done reasonably safe way.

I'm not really aiming for it though. Fisting pussy is another thing then.. :eek:
 
misspihla said:
Do you have more information about that or just a hunch?

I think anal fisting is something that gay men have done and I believe it can be done reasonably safe way.

I'm not really aiming for it though. Fisting pussy is another thing then.. :eek:

No, I don't have a medical reference, but have known more than one nurse who was very careful about the anal region. It is just common sense. Babies come out your cunt. No healthy person ever has baby sized turds. I've shit some snakes before but no babies.
 
WriterDom said:
No, I don't have a medical reference, but have known more than one nurse who was very careful about the anal region. It is just common sense. Babies come out your cunt. No healthy person ever has baby sized turds. I've shit some snakes before but no babies.

From the Stop AIDS Project's SM Smartly booklet, information on "ass play," including fisting and how to do it safely. And this information has been reviewed by medical experts:

http://smsafely.org/page22-23.html

:rose: Neon
 
For weeks or so without even stucking a finger up there...

I need to try again soon to check with some toys if this pause has actually made me more tight again.

Now I'm smiling like crazy.. for funny feeling of "scientific" research in this... eh.. must be the cider :)
 
A question, and a confession:

1) Where are you from?

2) I had a girlfriend who really liked anal, and who used a dildo on my ass once. Some time later I got one of my own and, every once in a while, I break it out. It isn't gigantic, about average thickness but slightly tapered, fairly 'lifelike', and about 8 inches long. It has a latex outer covering over a vibe. When it is all the way inside my ass, and the vibe is on the lowest setting, the feelings that flood through my body are amazing. It almost transcends the normal feelings I associate with sex. I've never shared this item with my wife, who finds the whole anal thing rather icky. In a moment of daring, however, she got me a butt plug. Bless her sweet heart, it was about the size of my pinky! :) I couldn't bring myself to tell her that it was far too small to be of any consequence.

Lastly, your AV is very lovely. Have you considered starting your own AmPic thread? I suspect that you'd have lots of fans.

xoxo

srw
 
this is a bit off on a tandem, but I want to know about fisting. my SO is afraid that things wont be so tight after... so she doesn't want to do it. Me? i'm dying for it, heard it's one of the best things under the sun.

is that true? if so, how do you fight it, other than kegels or whatnot?

lol, now I feel like a newbie!


to answer the point of the thread, using things that graduate in circumference are great for stretching. Like start with a carrot, and work your way to bigger and better things!
 
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