Stretching and Gagging

[ninjumanji]

Hi Lit

So I have my first non-crazy GF in a long time and things are going well. She loves sex and is loud and kinky and all around excellent in the sack....

but.

My dick isn't huge, but it ain't small. She has the hardest time taking me in the doggy style position. she says I'm punching her ovaries. Her ass is gorgeous and I LOVE fucking her from behind but I dont because it hurts her.

Is there some exercise or method we can try to make this more comfortable for her?

On a related note, she loves sucking my dick, but can't deep it. Any pointers on being able to get my johnson down her throat without her gagging?

Thanks in advance.

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, if you want to do doggie style, you could just let her control the pace.

As for deepthroating, it's really just something you have to learn to be good at. Sometimes, it even gags me still. Of course, in my case, I think it's kind of hot.

 

[sexygakitten]

Id have to agree with the above ^ comments as far as the doggie position goes.

As far as gagging... There are some items on the market that boast that they relax the gag reflex. I've never tried them but thats an option. Somebody else may have experience with those. My only advice it she must relax and let her take control of any major deep throating till she figures out at which point the gagging starts and how to relax that part of her throat.

 

[Derya]

re doggy style

I'd like to hear more folks say what helps them be at ease with doggy style; I don't know if its the way I'm built or what but so many people say doggy style is hot and they get off so easy on it and I do not at all. It is the most uncomfortable position and I get absolutely no pleasure from it but I can tolerate it to benefit my partner as long as I have been able to get off in another position either before and finishing doggy or starting doggy for a while and changing. I get nothing physically out of it at all.....and I find is amazing so many women say that's how they've had intense g-spot orgasms etc

 

[qrayze]

I'd like to hear more folks say what helps them be at ease with doggy style; I don't know if its the way I'm built or what but so many people say doggy style is hot and they get off so easy on it and I do not at all. It is the most uncomfortable position and I get absolutely no pleasure from it but I can tolerate it to benefit my partner as long as I have been able to get off in another position either before and finishing doggy or starting doggy for a while and changing. I get nothing physically out of it at all.....and I find is amazing so many women say that's how they've had intense g-spot orgasms etc

the only way I get stimulation from doggy style is if my head is down on the bed while my ass is in the air with my knees close to my chest. If I'm in that position and relaxed, it's orgasm every time.

 

[fgarvb1]

the only way I get stimulation from doggy style is if my head is down on the bed while my ass is in the air with my knees close to my chest. If I'm in that position and relaxed, it's orgasm every time.

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[Adrraiya]

I'd like to hear more folks say what helps them be at ease with doggy style; I don't know if its the way I'm built or what but so many people say doggy style is hot and they get off so easy on it and I do not at all. It is the most uncomfortable position and I get absolutely no pleasure from it but I can tolerate it to benefit my partner as long as I have been able to get off in another position either before and finishing doggy or starting doggy for a while and changing. I get nothing physically out of it at all.....and I find is amazing so many women say that's how they've had intense g-spot orgasms etc

Excellent Belly-dance gear by-the-way

for me.... the intense orgasms come from doggie style with me arched back up....

him behind you.. you on knees (or standing).... your torso up like you are trying to lean your shoulders into his chest (even thouh you won't get arched that far back)... that one hits the gspot more often than others... because of the angle it puts his body & yours


the other.... that takes "direct hit" a little bit off your cervix & into your vagina is for you to put your face down.... for example on your knees with your breasts on the mattress & your butt in the air....

 

[Adrraiya]

Hi Lit

So I have my first non-crazy GF in a long time and things are going well. She loves sex and is loud and kinky and all around excellent in the sack....

but.

My dick isn't huge, but it ain't small. She has the hardest time taking me in the doggy style position. she says I'm punching her ovaries. Her ass is gorgeous and I LOVE fucking her from behind but I dont because it hurts her.

Is there some exercise or method we can try to make this more comfortable for her?

On a related note, she loves sucking my dick, but can't deep it. Any pointers on being able to get my johnson down her throat without her gagging?

Thanks in advance.

a little wine (or other alchol to enhance relaxation) and the exactly correct angle... for the gag reflex... it is possible... that in her mouth/throat you might be the exact "wrong size" for her to deep throat... if so, then smaller won't go down & longer is enough to get past that point.... I have run into that before... and even though I know how to deepthroat.. that one guy.. was just the wrong size for me to be able to do it to him...

 

[uteasemeipleaseu]

For the deep penetration in doggy style issue, I have found its just a matter of control (usually), ie, controlling the depth of penetration. However, sometimes if the lady is quite relaxed, this can help with being able to get deeper, but I have found, more often than not that if I insert my entire length with any force from doggy that it can cause pain to a degree. Who says bigger is better! lol

 

[Adrraiya]

For the deep penetration in doggy style issue, I have found its just a matter of control (usually), ie, controlling the depth of penetration. However, sometimes if the lady is quite relaxed, this can help with being able to get deeper, but I have found, more often than not that if I insert my entire length with any force from doggy that it can cause pain to a degree. Who says bigger is better! lol

that's true... bigger isn't always better... certainly not for everyone!!

 

[duke1421115]

As to deepthroat - have you tried it in 69 position? Since my cock is curved upward significantly, my girlfriend can only deepthroat me if she is facing down my body, as in a 69 (which I enjoy in itself).

 

[ninjumanji]

thanks for all this feedback. I went down on her until she came, and then fucked her afterwards. She said she could take me a lot better after she came. Does that make sense? Hell, even if it doesn't I dont care. She's lovin it and so am I.

 

[julius_1975ct]

wife loves doggie .. she leoves how it feels and i push against her gspot.... i rub her clit as im doing her this way too. This is not a great position for me because i find it difficult to stay indie her and is hard on my legs/knees.... but I LOVE watching her ass as we do this position.

 

[PrettyLilPistol]

Let her slide in on your dick at her own pace... Shell know when and how much to take. And as far as gagging, practice makes perfect. Not everyones cut out for it.

 

[jezbel]

the only way I get stimulation from doggy style is if my head is down on the bed while my ass is in the air with my knees close to my chest. If I'm in that position and relaxed, it's orgasm every time.

Yeah, I agree this is the best way for me too.

As the OP said, it is very much like 'punching my ovaries' otherwise. Or I like to call it 'knocking on my cervix 'hello can i come in?" Hehe.

Try the position above, or any position where your penis is not angled downwards towards her stomach as I think this is what makes it uncomfortable for me.

Good luck, and happy exploring.