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Four_Inch_Heels
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Some advice from someone who likes to slip into her 8" cock and fuck her hubby silly......
Is she doing anything anal to you now, 69fan? It helps to know what her feelings are towards anal in general.
LDLarry, yours is easier. It shouldn't take much to move to the next step. When she's got the vibe deep in your ass, make sure she knows how much you enjoy it. Whisper to her.......god, I wish you had a cock you could fuck me with! Put the idea in her head of her "own cock"....if she's into it, tell her you'd love to be her bitch. After she gets used to hearing that, bring some up on the web, show them to her, ask her what she thinks. Tell her how hot you think it would be to use one. How she could feel what it's like for a guy to enter someone.
Let me know how it goes!
Is she doing anything anal to you now, 69fan? It helps to know what her feelings are towards anal in general.
LDLarry, yours is easier. It shouldn't take much to move to the next step. When she's got the vibe deep in your ass, make sure she knows how much you enjoy it. Whisper to her.......god, I wish you had a cock you could fuck me with! Put the idea in her head of her "own cock"....if she's into it, tell her you'd love to be her bitch. After she gets used to hearing that, bring some up on the web, show them to her, ask her what she thinks. Tell her how hot you think it would be to use one. How she could feel what it's like for a guy to enter someone.
Let me know how it goes!
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Sounds great.
Have you mamaged to make him come without masturbating him?
Have you managed to give him a real ANAL (not penis) orgasm?
And which stapon do you use? I have seen some that have an opening over the lady's anus for reciprocal work from the male.
Have you mamaged to make him come without masturbating him?
Have you managed to give him a real ANAL (not penis) orgasm?
And which stapon do you use? I have seen some that have an opening over the lady's anus for reciprocal work from the male.
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I definitely agree with everyone else when they say figure out her feelings on anal in general. A lot of women are frightened by it, I think, but then again, so are a lot of men. My boyfriend loves anal play, so I brought up the idea of someday using a strap-on with him. He liked the idea, but was surprised that I was the one to suggest it. If I didn't end up with him, I would probably still think anal was creepy and weird, and would be freaked out that you'd want a woman to do that to you.
Anyway, I've been rambling, so good luck!
Anyway, I've been rambling, so good luck!
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Cloacamaximus said:
No, I haven't made him cum without masturbating him, or given him an anal orgasm.
When he's my bitch, it's ALL about me, my pleasure, my feelings of power. I'm not concerned with giving him pleasure (although he loves me fucking him), I'm just into penetrating him, and riding him deep.
My strapon is black, a little over 8" long, and thick. It's all one piece, not detachable, and is connected with a black leather/pleather harness. It has a little dildo attached that goes into my pussy, but as I said, it's all about the power for me. So, though the dildo feels good in me at the same time, I could do without it.
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69fan said:how does anyone get their wives or girlfriends to try to use a strapon to your ass. Im dieing to get my wife to fuck mine
Have you asked her if she thinks anal play is exciting? If nothing else, you can bring your strapon to my house and I'll use it on you.
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PhilLusty said:
I'd prefer you on all fours, Phil.......
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69fan said:how does anyone get their wives or girlfriends to try to use a strapon to your ass. Im dieing to get my wife to fuck mine
First impression for me is to just *ask*, but that is me now, not some number of years ago.
We watched porno videos now and then. Since I wanted her to use a strap-on, one time when I really had the itch, I rented one that included a scene with this... I made a remark when the scene came on and that opened the door for some strap-on fun !!!
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69fan said:how does anyone get their wives or girlfriends to try to use a strapon to your ass. Im dieing to get my wife to fuck mine
Have you tried asking?!?! Most lovers want to please their partners and are willing to try new (and even KINKY) things, if they know that is what the partner wants.
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69fan said:how does anyone get their wives or girlfriends to try to use a strapon to your ass. Im dieing to get my wife to fuck mine
Wow. I've been dying to find a man to let me use a strap-on on him. I think you should just play around the idea with her and make suggestions, utilize something on your ass, slide her hands there, ask her, etc. She may be dying to fuck your ass, hoping that you'd ask....
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Talked with my wife about it today, started it off with an email talking about getting a double ended dong or a strapon. She opted for the strapon so I went to the store tonight and picked one up.
We had some vodka and baileys and headed upstears. I also picked up 2 plugs, small and medium to prime the hole so to speak. It worked out well and I had a blast, she had fun on the power trip of getting to do her husband.
Definately will do it again Just make sure you use enough lube and know how to relax and enjoy.
We had some vodka and baileys and headed upstears. I also picked up 2 plugs, small and medium to prime the hole so to speak. It worked out well and I had a blast, she had fun on the power trip of getting to do her husband.
Definately will do it again
Just make sure you use enough lube and know how to relax and enjoy.BostonGirl
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So how does a wife fullfill this for her man? My husband has admitted that this is his kinkiest fantasy. He's never come out and asked me to actually do it, but I'm intrigued. I have no idea what to do with this information (and we do have an anniversary coming up). I mean, I assume there is more to this fantasy, right? That I probably wouldn't be successful if I just surprised him with it... no equivalent to "wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am". Is the fantasy about domination? Does it include spanking? Or is it something else? I know I should just talk to him but I don't even know where to begin...
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strapon thingies for wives
I'd agree with the use of a double-ended dildo. You can get one for the wife without first coming to terms about her doing your ass with it. My experience with the double ended dildo is that women get into role playing with it, the role obviously her being a man.
A double-ended dildo is convenient just for the length because it is long enough to grip easily. If it is flexible and not to large diameter-wise (get one the same diameter as your own cock), it can be used to double penetrate the wife, either in the ass and pussy at one time, or both ends in the pussy with the actions being like two men alternating the thrusting in her. This usually endears any woman to a double ended dildo.
Once she is comfortable with it, then give her a "BJ". I find that if you get between her legs after she has inserted the dildo in her pussy, go down on the dildo as far as your are comfortable, lightly bite it (to seize it in your mouth) and then use your head to shove it in and out of her, this will really get her off. What she sees is a head bobbing up and down on "her" cock between her legs, what she feels is a cock thrusting in and out of her cunt. This is usually pretty mind blowing. A lot of women go on a power trip and start pulling hard on your ears or grabbing the back of your head and gagging you with it and talking nasty. I guess paybacks a bitch!
From the role reversal of the hubby giving the wife a blowjob, it is a small step to her ass fucking you, unless she is really phobic about scat. If she is concerned about cleanliness, have her give you the 3H enema (high, hot and hell of a lot)! That'll clean things up and make it much more enjoyable. Use lots of lube until you get callouses!
Between the power trip of her giving you an enema and then fucking your ass silly, you just might create a monster! I know of several that i've created.
I'd agree with the use of a double-ended dildo. You can get one for the wife without first coming to terms about her doing your ass with it. My experience with the double ended dildo is that women get into role playing with it, the role obviously her being a man.
A double-ended dildo is convenient just for the length because it is long enough to grip easily. If it is flexible and not to large diameter-wise (get one the same diameter as your own cock), it can be used to double penetrate the wife, either in the ass and pussy at one time, or both ends in the pussy with the actions being like two men alternating the thrusting in her. This usually endears any woman to a double ended dildo.
Once she is comfortable with it, then give her a "BJ". I find that if you get between her legs after she has inserted the dildo in her pussy, go down on the dildo as far as your are comfortable, lightly bite it (to seize it in your mouth) and then use your head to shove it in and out of her, this will really get her off. What she sees is a head bobbing up and down on "her" cock between her legs, what she feels is a cock thrusting in and out of her cunt. This is usually pretty mind blowing. A lot of women go on a power trip and start pulling hard on your ears or grabbing the back of your head and gagging you with it and talking nasty. I guess paybacks a bitch!
From the role reversal of the hubby giving the wife a blowjob, it is a small step to her ass fucking you, unless she is really phobic about scat. If she is concerned about cleanliness, have her give you the 3H enema (high, hot and hell of a lot)! That'll clean things up and make it much more enjoyable. Use lots of lube until you get callouses!
Between the power trip of her giving you an enema and then fucking your ass silly, you just might create a monster! I know of several that i've created.
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Re: strapon thingies for wives
Excellent, excellent advice, Photographer-wu! Although in my case, it was MY idea to get the strap on, the whole idea was that I would have my OWN cock. And, yes, payback is a bitch, and I enjoy making him gag on it. But, if it had been my hubby's idea, seeing him sucking it between my legs would surely have spurned me on!
Excellent, excellent advice, Photographer-wu! Although in my case, it was MY idea to get the strap on, the whole idea was that I would have my OWN cock. And, yes, payback is a bitch, and I enjoy making him gag on it. But, if it had been my hubby's idea, seeing him sucking it between my legs would surely have spurned me on!
