StrapOn Knowhow

[WannaBeKinky]

Just got a strap on from my hubby. And I it is still sitting in my drawer. I want to use it on him but dont know what to do.

We have had some anal play before, and we both enjoy it. I hinted to him that I thought a strapon would be fun, and I guess he took me serious. He bought me one. I was shocked!
It is a good one. And I am anxious to try it, but for some reason, I am nervous.
Before when we played with anal, it was kinda like trying a new position. No big deal.
But this thing, is like, well, kinda like, getting a costume on. And so I cant get over the feeling like I need to have a script of something really naughty to say, and do. But Im not an aggresive girl, and Im really kinda not sure what to do here. lol.

I really really really want to knock his socks off. I have been thinking about getting dressed into a leather/lace outfit I have, that he hasnt seen on me yet, and slip into my strapon, and suprise him in that. I also own a cool little black whip. I know it would make him instantly hard to see me in it all... but after that.. then what..
Can you help me out here?
I have some cuffs... should I cuff him?
Should I play dominant with him?
I really want to see him suck my new cock, but dont know what to do.
Anyone know where I can read a story or find some advice on how to 'learn to be dominant" or something to that effect ..lol.
I really want to do this right! And sure could use any help you might have. Thanks!

 

[WannaBeKinky]

Maybe I worded that all wrong.
Maybe I should just ask, how you would like it, and maybe I'd get some ideas that way.
ANY HELP HERE WOULD BE GREAT!

 

[Nora]

You might get a better response on the "How To" board.

Uh...personally, i think you should ask your husband since he'll be the um. recipient. Ya know?

 

[WannaBeKinky]

Well, if I was asking how to do anal, then I would definately go to my hubby, to ask what or how he wants it. I agree with ya there!
But because we are fairly experienced with anal, I was just kinda hoping for some ideas to suprise him with.
And something for me to follow in my mind, so I can follow thru with the whole scenario without falling down laughing at the whole thing...cause as it is now, all I can do is turn red, and giggle when Im holding that thing.lol.
I really want to pull this off, with some finesse so to speak. lol.
Just looking for some ideas.
Thanks.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I want to use it on him but dont know what to do.

Think of yourself as a sensual man.... just don't roll over and go straight to sleep after....

Honey every person straps on a dick for a different reason.... I could suggest a role play but then it might make you laugh all the way to the lube bottle... just relax and play out something you are comfortable with and that you know he may also... not like it will be the one and only time you will use it if you both enjoy anal....

Have fun and post some pics...

Personally... you wear the leather and boots and he wears the stockings and silk....