Strap-Ons

[Trinique_Fire]

Just got fucked with a strap on for the first time in my life. My fiancee and I had a date night in Boystown last night and did some sex shopping together. There were a lot of firsts for both of us last night and today. I am excited for she and I to try different toys, positions, harnesses, and other implements as we grow together.

What are some of your favorite products and memories?

 

[Stella_Omega]

C&P my post in another forum;

This is NOT my idea or my picture. It's my Google fu.
Here's the original post;
http://fd-midori.livejournal.com/368756.html

and here's the source of the cartoon;
http://girlslikethis.tumblr.com/post/2715161172/more-scarf-harness-inspired-by-midori
I posted it to my own site so as not to be livelinking.
Mea culpa.

Anyway, check this out;

You need two strips of soft fabric, or two scarves, long enough to go around your hips and tie securely-- make sure you use a method that lets you untie them too!
(this is linked from my own website, moderator)

Here are ways to use the same method in other places;
http://siliconevalley.tumblr.com/po...-really-strap-a-dildo-to-a-chair-and-anything

(I prefer my Fun Factory Share which has a ball that slides inside me and a penis which I slide inside my partner-- but I hardly ever fuck with my legs clamped tight, and nobody's kegel muscles are stronger than two bodies humping out of rhythm. So a rope or scarf harness is most very much handy!)

 

[EclipseNight]

Question - question - question - question. HOW WAS IT? X

 

[Stella_Omega]

My primary lover is in chemo right now, and penetration is really difficult for her, so we kind of scissors whith her on her back and one leg up over my hip. I lay really quiet while she decides how much she wants to take. My job is to vibrate my hips for her and keep the lube flowing while she works herself. it's very intense and intimate, actually. And because she doesn't want big movement, I fancy that I can feel where I am inside her.

The other way I have sex is pretty active. Someone is usually tied to something-- that's when I damn well better have that thing harnessed! I can't hold it in with only my kegels, not is two bodies are in motion.

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Lucy you! I want that bad, lol.

I'm assuming you meant "lucky," but then again...Lucy is right up there in my avatar....

 

[Trinique_Fire]

My primary lover is in chemo right now, and penetration is really difficult for her, so we kind of scissors whith her on her back and one leg up over my hip. I lay really quiet while she decides how much she wants to take. My job is to vibrate my hips for her and keep the lube flowing while she works herself. it's very intense and intimate, actually. And because she doesn't want big movement, I fancy that I can feel where I am inside her.

The other way I have sex is pretty active. Someone is usually tied to something-- that's when I damn well better have that thing harnessed! I can't hold it in with only my kegels, not is two bodies are in motion.

Good got dayum, Stella. You make a girl want to do some shit over here...

 

[Trinique_Fire]

Question - question - question - question. HOW WAS IT? X

It was breathtaking and quite amazing. I can only imagine that it's this heightened when you're doing it with someone you love as deeply as I love my fiancee. I wanted to cry and cum all at once, and I felt like there was this perpetual orgasm sort of floating around my stomach...very hard to explain. A very spiritual thing, believe it or not.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I love the feel-do.

*nods*

I have many, many memories attached to that, none of which I am willing to share.

(Funnily enough, I have never been a fan of regular strap ons...neither to give nor receive...as it feels entirely too much like *faking it*)

Since Stella seemed to have covered all the basics for best use and how to...I will just say again...

that I love the feel-do...

 

[Stella_Omega]

(Funnily enough, I have never been a fan of regular strap ons...neither to give nor receive...as it feels entirely too much like *faking it*)

Ay-Mennn.

 

[southern_gal]

If I might ask some of you with far more experience than me, what is a good way to approach a man about the idea of me wearing a strap on? I had a few chats with someone right after I signed up and she mentioned wanting to use one on a guy and quite frankly it has been all on my mind the last couple of days. My husband is not uptight about anything sexually and for years he has been gently urging me to come out of my shell about things. (biggest reason I entered the forums) I realize my question may have an answer more detailed than I am expecting but a good starting point or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

 

[Stella_Omega]

If I might ask some of you with far more experience than me, what is a good way to approach a man about the idea of me wearing a strap on? I had a few chats with someone right after I signed up and she mentioned wanting to use one on a guy and quite frankly it has been all on my mind the last couple of days. My husband is not uptight about anything sexually and for years he has been gently urging me to come out of my shell about things. (biggest reason I entered the forums) I realize my question may have an answer more detailed than I am expecting but a good starting point or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

The activity is called "pegging" these days.
The trick that seems to work for many women is to find some good pics online, or some pegging stories or posts here and say; "Hey honey, look at this! What do you think? I think it looks like a great idea!"

 

[blade_rocknut]

I love the feel-do.

*nods*

I have many, many memories attached to that, none of which I am willing to share.

(Funnily enough, I have never been a fan of regular strap ons...neither to give nor receive...as it feels entirely too much like *faking it*)

Since Stella seemed to have covered all the basics for best use and how to...I will just say again...

that I love the feel-do...

*tacklehugs Luna* ( we love it, too)

The activity is called "pegging" these days.
The trick that seems to work for many women is to find some good pics online, or some pegging stories or posts here and say; "Hey honey, look at this! What do you think? I think it looks like a great idea!"

^ Exquisite advice. Some men are more visual ( most are more visually stimulated than women); some will prefer reading. Reading a story, for me; is a much better way to broach something new, and is likely gives a truer indication as to whether the *activity* is arousing, because the reader's mind draws the characters to their liking.