Strap on Question (re back)

[collar_corset]

Ok here's the thing. My lovely boyfriend has just said he will allow me to fuck him with a strap on.

The only thing I am worried about is I'm fairly certain I read somewhere that it can cause problems with the lower back and as I have Fibromyalgia, Sciatica and am being investigated for MS I am a little worried (and if I were a horse, I'd be shot! )

Obviously I am going to take it slow as it's only fair on him, but has anyone had this problem and are there any other ways to address this issue?

Oooh, other than the health problems I am one very lucky girl

Thanks to you all

 

[SweetErika]

So you already have a lot of lower back problems? Because I don't think it's likely to cause back problems if you're not doing anything insane, but it has to potential to exacerbate existing issues.

I've never noticed it causing lower back pain (even when I was very pregnant and that was a big issue), but we typically stick to one fairly ergonomic position (him on his back on the bed, with me facing him), and there are certainly plenty of other positions you can try.

In terms of avoiding working your lower back, you may want to stick to positions and motions that allow you to use your legs or move your whole body, rather than thrust your hips.

And of course it'll help greatly if you have a harness that fits properly/snugly and such.

 

[infinity706]

If you're worried about your back, you could always just lie on your back and let him ride you.

 

[mscpl4fun]

Different positions

We just bought the Share and our first time was strictly on my back with her facing me. She did not have any back pain at all afterwords. We have been experimenting with different positions and have tried her taking me doggy style, reverse cowboy, and me riding her facing her. I have to tell you that doggy style hurt my back not hers! lol. Not sure why but maybe it was just the position I was in. However, when I rode her it was great. The reverse cowboy was ok but I enjoyed turned around facing her and on top. We had a rectangular long cushioned stool that is about 2' tall and she laid on this. I straddled here and I am 6'3" so it was perfect for us. It took all the pressure off here and allowed her to enjoy the position. Facing her I was able to watch her face, she stroked my cock while I was sliding the Share in and out of my ass. The best thing was that she would squeeze her legs together and this would force the bulb from the Share to really fill her pussy. The upward motion of me pulling to cock out of my ass actually pulled the bulb of the Share up to rub and bump her G-spot each time. The curve of the Share hitting my prostate and her jacking me off caused me to blow a huge load all over her stomach and chest and caused here to have a rolling G-spot orgasam. What a great ending. I highly recommend trying the positions best suited for you but this one is great for us and no pressure on her lower back at all. Try this out and let me know how it goes.

 

[Georgesowner1]

I have a chronic pain condition and he has bad knees.

We recently tried a bench. We have a narrow bench at the foot of our bed. We turned it perpendicular to the bed. I leaned back against the bed while sitting on the bench.

He straddled me with his back to me. He rested some of his weight on me. He did most of the work. He was able to get some serious prostrate stimulation going on. He was leaking like a sieve.

We are certainly going to be using this position again and I am sure tweaking the movements for maximum satisfaction.

Don't give up and keep trying different things until you find one that works for you.