What kind of strap on do you prefer to use? Do you like the ones that penetrate you as well as your partner? Do you prefer vibrating or not? I'm looking into buying another one for anal play and I would love to see or hear what some of you use on your men. We already have one with two cocks one for each of us but it doesn't vibrate. I'm thinking the vibration would make a lot of difference for both of us.
strap on question for the ladies
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SweetErika
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A vibrating dildo doesn't do much for me.
A vibe nuzzled up to my clit, however...
Which is why I bought a harness with a spot for a small bullet vibe, in addition to vaginal and anal plugs.
A vibe nuzzled up to my clit, however...
Which is why I bought a harness with a spot for a small bullet vibe, in addition to vaginal and anal plugs.
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I am not a fan of vibrating anything (its just torturous and overstims). I was more focused on a solid strap on - leather with the 4 straps and adjustable O rings (JT Stockrooms). It is solid, doesn't move around and can switch out the O rings for a larger dildo. Personally I don't care for penetration while using it either but then I orgasm by just using the strap on.
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Feeldoe all the way!
Helps me thrust from the right place
Helps me thrust from the right place
i've considered just adding a vibrating cock ring to the dildo on our strap-on.
i'm not interested in a lot of girth being shoved up my backdoor, and so many vibrating, harnessable dongs are over 1.5" wide and not really my cup of tea.
i'm not interested in a lot of girth being shoved up my backdoor, and so many vibrating, harnessable dongs are over 1.5" wide and not really my cup of tea.
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I have two different strap on harnesses that I like. One has a spot for a double, but I rarely use it. I like the other one, and that is the one that I use. I do not need a vibrating dildo because I am not really into a sexual mode. I am in a dominating, control and power over my bitch mode.
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SweetErika said:
I agree with you but small bullet vibes aren't strong enough for me to do more than get excited and/or frustrated.
We have a harness that can put a dildo inside me while I fuck him and a butt plug as well. Doing that and keeping it all in place is somewhat difficult. It's not as stimulating at I might expect either. I'd rather do it all separately and take it slower.
Fortunately, you can take the dildo and butt plug out, then just use the strap on. That's what I prefer. Also, I'm more likely to use other anal toys on him that are not strap on.
Another cool thing about a strap on is that with it we can do some DP for me.
SweetErika
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That's generally true for me as well. Sometimes, if I'm ready to explode beforehand, I can get an orgasm out of the strap-on/bullet combo. Usually not, but the bullet always gives me some stimulation, enhancing my experience.FurryFury said:
You wouldn't happen to have the Ultra Harness Pro 2000(?), would ya?
More often than not, use the plugs separately, too. Having both in the harness can make for too much going on, and problems like slippage, as you said. More than anything, I like having the option of using one or both if the mood strikes - I dig versatility.
I can't complain about getting three insertables and a nice, sturdy, comfortable, leather harness for $35, either.
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I like the hands free quality of the strap on. It can be great for aggressive sodomy or for getting into missionary and staring into his eyes for hours, whichever floats your boat.
But I have to say, that using my *hands* is more erotic for me, I feel much closer to "this is what it's got to be like to have a dick."
But I have to say, that using my *hands* is more erotic for me, I feel much closer to "this is what it's got to be like to have a dick."
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SweetErika said:That's generally true for me as well. Sometimes, if I'm ready to explode beforehand, I can get an orgasm out of the strap-on/bullet combo. Usually not, but the bullet always gives me some stimulation, enhancing my experience.
You wouldn't happen to have the Ultra Harness Pro 2000(?), would ya?
More often than not, use the plugs separately, too. Having both in the harness can make for too much going on, and problems like slippage, as you said. More than anything, I like having the option of using one or both if the mood strikes - I dig versatility.
I can't complain about getting three insertables and a nice, sturdy, comfortable, leather harness for $35, either.
Yes I do. I love having all those options!
