Strap-on experiences
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subbie_333
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only once
I have had the pleasure only once, i would love to try again...last time it was a rushed thing wich made it less enjoyable! And sad to say she was not as sexy as i fantasize about
i would really like an extremely sexy female to make me suck her cock, then take my ass with it while looking into my eyes! P.S. i also have a trannyfetish , but a very beautiful one!!! (hard to find)
I have had the pleasure only once, i would love to try again...last time it was a rushed thing wich made it less enjoyable! And sad to say she was not as sexy as i fantasize about
i would really like an extremely sexy female to make me suck her cock, then take my ass with it while looking into my eyes! P.S. i also have a trannyfetish , but a very beautiful one!!! (hard to find)
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I can only imagine it must be fun for both of you. Which is the way it should be.
It would be for me.
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Two unrelated issues...
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My wife won't wear one although sometimes she will use a dildo on me.
the problem is we have had some less than perfect situations with strap-ons and anal sex. So she is a little scared/nervous by it. I just keep reassuring her and let her have her space. I don't beg for it or pressure her into it. I only ask once in a while and let her decide when she wants to do it. It's one of those things that are going to take time for her to get into and since she is my partner for life, I have plenty of time for that.
although sometimes she will use a dildo on me.the problem is we have had some less than perfect situations with strap-ons and anal sex. So she is a little scared/nervous by it. I just keep reassuring her and let her have her space. I don't beg for it or pressure her into it. I only ask once in a while and let her decide when she wants to do it. It's one of those things that are going to take time for her to get into and since she is my partner for life, I have plenty of time for that.
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still waiting for the strap-on experience
I'm in the same boat. I have been asking my wife to use a strap-on me. She uses dildos on me now and I love the sensation. We hve just started anal play in the past 4 months and we love the change. This has added another level of excitement to the old routines. But I'm still waiting for the first strap-on experiece.
I'm in the same boat. I have been asking my wife to use a strap-on me. She uses dildos on me now and I love the sensation. We hve just started anal play in the past 4 months and we love the change. This has added another level of excitement to the old routines. But I'm still waiting for the first strap-on experiece.
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Many times...
My wife has used several different strapons on me, from 5 " up to 10", but what eludes us is her being able to get her hand into me... her and I both fantasize about her fisting me, but we cant seem to get her hand in. Is there any tips yall can give us that might help us fulfill this fantasy for us both?
My wife has used several different strapons on me, from 5 " up to 10", but what eludes us is her being able to get her hand into me... her and I both fantasize about her fisting me, but we cant seem to get her hand in. Is there any tips yall can give us that might help us fulfill this fantasy for us both?
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Latex gloves. Lots of silicone lube or something oil-based (Vaseline, Crisco, what-the-fuck-ever). Plenty of time.
Pretty sure you already do all this, but I thought I'd throw it out there, anyway. Concentrate on the journey, not the destination, or else you'll be so worried about it that you'll keep tensing up, and she'll never get it in.
Once the thumb joint's in there, you're golden.
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Thank you very much, she will be home from work in about 10 minutes and we will try your advice. I'll let yall know how it went.. or went in, lol. Thanks again.
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This has been one of my fantasies for many years now. I just haven't been able to find a woman that isn't so uptight and not willing to do it.
I dream for the night when I woman will force me to go down on her strap on then turn me around and have her way with me.
I dream for the night when I woman will force me to go down on her strap on then turn me around and have her way with me.
My wife won't wear one
the problem is we have had some less than perfect situations with strap-ons and anal sex. So she is a little scared/nervous by it. I just keep reassuring her and let her have her space. I don't beg for it or pressure her into it. I only ask once in a while and let her decide when she wants to do it. It's one of those things that are going to take time for her to get into and since she is my partner for life, I have plenty of time for that.
I'm like your wife. Dildos work; strap-ons don't. I'm not a man and I have no desire to become one. I don't enjoy it: I don't do. I'm the Domme, baby, and he's the sub and a minion does NOT write the rule of engagement.
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i have not yet had the pleasure of using or having used a strap-on with either men or women... this is definitely on my 'to do' list 
I have to say the thought of taking a bit of control over a man seems very appealing ... or, in my case, being "allowed" to take the control ...
I am looking forward to trying this one day ...
Don't wait to be "allowed" to take control. Just cut away his power little by little until you have complete control.
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Make sure you check out the fisting thread - vagina...ass...no major difference there. Patience and it will happen. In fact it happens more often in the ass (those tissues expand better than vaginal).
Not every woman will be open to strap on - it is a role reversal and for some folks, they just aren't into it. If she is willing to do the dildos, then be happy. I love both but I do love having a huge dildo sitting on my chest while my man rides it. (Something about that image is permanently burned into my brain.
Not every woman will be open to strap on - it is a role reversal and for some folks, they just aren't into it. If she is willing to do the dildos, then be happy. I love both but I do love having a huge dildo sitting on my chest while my man rides it. (Something about that image is permanently burned into my brain.
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subbie_333
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um, no it isn't! i make and sell a leather strap-on harness that i designed specifically for BBWs:
http://www.cometsoftware.com/she/leather_catalog_strap-on.htm
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Cool, thx!
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I have to say the thought of taking a bit of control over a man seems very appealing ... or, in my case, being "allowed" to take the control ...
I am looking forward to trying this one day ...
I know when and where that can happen....<grin>
AlaskanM4
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I have to say the thought of taking a bit of control over a man seems very appealing ... or, in my case, being "allowed" to take the control ...
I am looking forward to trying this one day ...
I know when and where that can happen....<grin>
AlaskanM4
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I have to say the thought of taking a bit of control over a man seems very appealing ... or, in my case, being "allowed" to take the control ...
I am looking forward to trying this one day ...
I know when and where that can happen....<grin>
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