Strap-on experiences

[AHHSBITCH]

idk

Not sure if i can recall a strapon session that was in a doom nature for me, perhaps the first time, but that was only becuase it was the first for both of us. I have to admit that my post intense orgasms, are achieved, (without or w/o strapon) when i am being dominated, or humiliated, but to each there own right? just for some underlined reason, theres some about being made to do what my lover wants that truly makes what i want a reality.
can i get a yay for leather, strapons and being called a bitch.

 

[FurryFury]

Hi Fury!!! Good to see your posts again!!! I peaked at your photos and VERY HOT!!! I would love to see you in your favorite color and wearing a strapon!! No pressure.....I understand if you don't want to!......but it might be fun to do!

Hugs

ES

PS I wish everyone on this thread several INTENSE ORGASMS....that means you too Fury!

Thanks!

Sadly if you've only recently looked at my photos or that of my husband being my little ass slut, you've missed out. Photobucket deleted several and I was going to attach them but my husband reformatted his computer and lost the secret nasty pictures file because he forgot to back that file up.

Anyone who copied and saved any of those pictures please share them with me or they are gone forever and I can't repair either thread.

There were more pictures than I had posted here that are gone too. Ones that showed pink parts that were just for HIM. Damn!

Fury

 

[padiman]

Fury
Sadly i missed your pics but you can always make more.

 

[FurryFury]

Fury
Sadly i missed your pics but you can always make more.

Yes, of course, that is true, however pictures that are actually somewhat good (of me) are rare and they are mostly taken to preserve the moment.

There are still some pictures on my threads, but damn!

Fury

 

[ucrgis]

I have recentley become very intrested in the strap-on experience. I find the the the idea of role reversal, and becoming the penetrated to be very erotic. However I am not sure of the best way to bring up with my wife. It is far removed from anything we have done previously. How have people here handled the issue.

 

[au_man]

Is there a strap-on site that isn't all about the dom thing?

Yes, there is a thread in the "Playground" if it isn't too far back that is more about sharing strap on in a loving relationship, though it is still roll reversal.

Happy hunting and it will take several days to read the entire thread, but it is worth the effort...

 

[au_man]

You know, it's thoughts like those Robj76 that get my brain really firing.

Padiman, there ain't nothin' wrong with goin' with what feels good! LOLOL!

Anal sex between a woman and her male partner, where he receives, doesn't have to have a thing to do with D/s. It might be a kink, LOL, but it's not necessarily something that's going to lead one, or a couple, down some slippery slope.

Though Rob worded it well. Dominance fulfills something emotional, IMO and IME, for both those who wield it and those who submit to it. It's an emotional connection, fulfillment, etc. that we just can't find any where else.

Well said Mistress Emma...

There are differning levels of D/s....

A man most first submit to be taken with a strap on.. That doesn't necessaraly require the male to be a full time slave.

I'm in a transition in my relationship... My spouse is 99% sub and is opening up to BSSM where I am her Dom but she loves the switch and the strap on...

I'm not interested on receiving the SM part of BDSM, but do surrender to her for her strap on wants...

It comes down to what works for you and as long as it is fun, who cares about defining that activity?

 

[au_man]

Having my lady switch is about experiencing some of what you just wrote about Emma. All of that. Opening. Getting filled. Wanting to open and take more.. faster.... to feel her grind up close.... to feel her lose control and pound into me.... To understand why being pounded hard can be a good thing.

At the same time..... giving her the chance to slowly sink in, to watch every inch be swallowed, to feel something tug inside her as she moves, to feel the need to thrust hard or slow to meet her needs, to watch me move to try to help her... To understand that final frenzy of thrusting to push herself over the edge.

Ultimately to take control of her own orgasm before worrying about mine, but making my orgasm hers. The difference being that she won't have to worry that her cumming will have anything but a positive effect on my experience. Ahhh if that were only true for we poor males.

None of this seems to be truly possible without some sort of double dildo harness arrangement that transfers her motions to where she needs to feel stimulation. Without that she's only getting part of the experience I want her to have. What I want to give her. What I want her to take.

...............

 

[au_man]

OMG.... This thread is becoming tourture for me. Boo hoo. By the time I ever get a chance to take a guy in his most sweet orfice.... I am going to ravage him. I need to go change my panties again. and get out of this thread.....

LOL....

I love your passion, but better begin practicing that thrusting... It isn't as easy as it looks.

The abs, the hips, the knees all working together...

Yes, it will be quite the workout, for both involved...

 

[au_man]

I have recentley become very intrested in the strap-on experience. I find the the the idea of role reversal, and becoming the penetrated to be very erotic. However I am not sure of the best way to bring up with my wife. It is far removed from anything we have done previously. How have people here handled the issue.

Welcome to Lit...

So many ways to bring this up, but communication is esential in any relationship.

If you do anal with her, how did you discuss that?

How do you discuss financial issues?

Why is sex any different?

Are you projecting your own insecurities and fear of rejection?

 

[ucrgis]

"Are you projecting your own insecurities and fear of rejection?"


That is very good point, now that you mention it, i am sure that is what i am doing.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Strapons are sexy. I just bought Strap Attack 3 through the net. I'm gonna watch it with my BF tonight. We're both fans of Katja Kassin, a European beauty who loves anal sex. She's about the only gal in the industry who can take black stud Lexington Steele's 12-inch up her wahzoo. In this DVD, she finally ends up on the giving end of things and uses a dildo on a guy. THAT is hot. I wonder how my strap-on-phobic yet ambiguously bisexual man will feel about this.

 

[va4footlvrs]

Strapons are sexy. I just bought Strap Attack 3 through the net. I'm gonna watch it with my BF tonight. We're both fans of Katja Kassin, a European beauty who loves anal sex. She's about the only gal in the industry who can take black stud Lexington Steele's 12-inch up her wahzoo. In this DVD, she finally ends up on the giving end of things and uses a dildo on a guy. THAT is hot. I wonder how my strap-on-phobic yet ambiguously bisexual man will feel about this.

what a lucky guy. any chance we can get the details tomorrow?

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

I have recentley become very intrested in the strap-on experience. I find the the the idea of role reversal, and becoming the penetrated to be very erotic. However I am not sure of the best way to bring up with my wife. It is far removed from anything we have done previously. How have people here handled the issue.

Au_man had a good point. Once you've resolved that, the first thing in broaching, or not, this subject is knowing how your partner feels about anal sex to start with.

Basically, whether Domme or sub, women are receptive to doing things that will bring their partners delight. The former statement is a generality, but IME, it seems to be true 98% of the time.

Anyway, if your wife is VERY MUCH against anal sex at all, then you have to approach it in a way that won't put flags up for her and have her going into DEFCON 1. However, if you have an open relationship with good communication, even if she is put-off by anal sex, then my suggestion is just to tell her. Flat out. Even if you are trying to be delicate and warm her too it, don't hem and haw and beat around the bush. You can be honest, and direct, without being lewd.

 

[Emma_Ray_Garrett]

Strapons are sexy. I just bought Strap Attack 3 through the net. I'm gonna watch it with my BF tonight. We're both fans of Katja Kassin, a European beauty who loves anal sex. She's about the only gal in the industry who can take black stud Lexington Steele's 12-inch up her wahzoo. In this DVD, she finally ends up on the giving end of things and uses a dildo on a guy. THAT is hot. I wonder how my strap-on-phobic yet ambiguously bisexual man will feel about this.

Hopefully, LOL, you'll see him adjusting himself initially, then squirming around a bit, then taking his cock out and stroking it.

OOh, even better, he might make this really soft mewling sound, and then you can take out the strap-on and tell him how very much you want to be the one to teach him the pleasures of anal sex.

 

[ucrgis]

Au_man had a good point. Once you've resolved that, the first thing in broaching, or not, this subject is knowing how your partner feels about anal sex to start with.

Basically, whether Domme or sub, women are receptive to doing things that will bring their partners delight. The former statement is a generality, but IME, it seems to be true 98% of the time.

Anyway, if your wife is VERY MUCH against anal sex at all, then you have to approach it in a way that won't put flags up for her and have her going into DEFCON 1. However, if you have an open relationship with good communication, even if she is put-off by anal sex, then my suggestion is just to tell her. Flat out. Even if you are trying to be delicate and warm her too it, don't hem and haw and beat around the bush. You can be honest, and direct, without being lewd.

I think that the anal sex thing would be the entire issue. She certainly against the idea of being on the recievung end of any anal actvity. Which if fine with me, I know what it is like to fuck her, what I want to know is what is like to fucked BY her. She definitley likes being in control, prehapse this is the best way to broach the subject. Thank you everyone for your advice, it has helped a lot

 

[LANITZ]

OMG.... This thread is becoming tourture for me. Boo hoo. By the time I ever get a chance to take a guy in his most sweet orfice.... I am going to ravage him. I need to go change my panties again. and get out of this thread.....

yeah baby i been looking 4 a girl like u

 

[michaelinteas]

yeah baby i been looking 4 a girl like u

arnt we all

 

[Patmedic417]

East Central PA - Missing a SO experience

Greetings - - I had a GF a long time ago that enjoyed role playing and role reversal - no real humiliation just some dress up and me being her chick with a dick kinda thing - she liked it so much we went to a costume party as prom dates - her in the tux - me in the gown - she had bought a strap-on and I did not know until we were slow dancing at the party and she pullled me into her and I felt its hardness and she smiled and said her virgin prom date was going to have fun tonight - and we did - seductive sweet gentle WILD sex - I miss her (the one that got away) - If you want details let me know

ANYWAY .... LOL

Hoping to find a special friend in PA that is looking for this kind of no striongs exploration.

I have been really enjoying this thread ...

 

[schaeff]

Strapons are sexy. I just bought Strap Attack 3 through the net. I'm gonna watch it with my BF tonight. We're both fans of Katja Kassin, a European beauty who loves anal sex. She's about the only gal in the industry who can take black stud Lexington Steele's 12-inch up her wahzoo. In this DVD, she finally ends up on the giving end of things and uses a dildo on a guy. THAT is hot. I wonder how my strap-on-phobic yet ambiguously bisexual man will feel about this.

I gotta ask...how did it go?

 

[Ebonyfire]

An Early Poster Gives an Update

My strap ons and harnesses (yes I have more than one, and am shopping for another) are my favorites toys.

After all this time, I find taking a boy's butt (man pussy) is just about the best fun ever!

And I spend time now looking for more and more positions to do it in!

Eb

 

[uptoplay2]

Rolling eyes... oh no of course we don't want DETAILS!!

Do we really have to beg??

Greetings - - I had a GF a long time ago that enjoyed role playing and role reversal - no real humiliation just some dress up and me being her chick with a dick kinda thing - she liked it so much we went to a costume party as prom dates - her in the tux - me in the gown - she had bought a strap-on and I did not know until we were slow dancing at the party and she pullled me into her and I felt its hardness and she smiled and said her virgin prom date was going to have fun tonight - and we did - seductive sweet gentle WILD sex - I miss her (the one that got away) - If you want details let me know

ANYWAY .... LOL

Hoping to find a special friend in PA that is looking for this kind of no striongs exploration.

I have been really enjoying this thread ...

 

[Ebonyfire]

Do we really have to beg??

Begging is good! Asking nicely works also!

Eb

 

[uptoplay2]

Please tell us about the rest of your prom date

I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd love to know more.

Greetings - - I had a GF a long time ago that enjoyed role playing and role reversal - no real humiliation just some dress up and me being her chick with a dick kinda thing - she liked it so much we went to a costume party as prom dates - her in the tux - me in the gown - she had bought a strap-on and I did not know until we were slow dancing at the party and she pullled me into her and I felt its hardness and she smiled and said her virgin prom date was going to have fun tonight - and we did - seductive sweet gentle WILD sex - I miss her (the one that got away) - If you want details let me know

ANYWAY .... LOL

Hoping to find a special friend in PA that is looking for this kind of no striongs exploration.

I have been really enjoying this thread ...

 

[DavidandTracyNC]

She makes me suck on her hard cock first. She wants it real wet when she makes that hard push up inside me. She rides me hard and I love it.