Strap-on experiences

phdbio said:
all you women that love this so much it is hard to believe that more women aren't open to the idea of role reversal. my gf loves to be played with but the reverse makes her shy. the couple of times she has used her strap on on me were amazing though... i just wish i could get her here to see that she isn't as dirty for likeing it as she thinks she is


Tell her to come here and then she can "meet" other girls to talk to. She may relax once she sees that other women enjoy using strap-ons with men. Tell her there is nothing wrong with being "dirty" in the bedroom. It just adds to the pleasure for both of you. Tell her to let go of her guilt let herself feel free to explore. (easier said then done I'm sure but you could try) The more comfortable you make her feel about this by talking to her kindly about it, the more she may relax about it.
 
someday i will. she isn't even thinking of sex now she is so busy with school but i hope to one day have her here with me
 
One of these days i will be in the situation to try this. Every BDSM partner i have had, i have talked about it with, but never actually did it.

Someday.

md
 
phdbio said:
someday i will. she isn't even thinking of sex now she is so busy with school but i hope to one day have her here with me



Well, if she has a caring and understanding boyfriend like you then she is a lucky girl indeed. All good things will come in time.
 
I'm sure we have all the preparations listed....

Someone told me a recent experience that got messy because the silly lad didn't take the time to be really clean. No enemmas. It sort of ruined the experience.

Thinking back...... over 20 years..... to when I did do this.... I don't remember doing an enema either. Of course back then there was no internet to prove for information.

I ended up creating a double ended strap-on for my lover who was quite interested in the whole endeavor (I think she somehow got me turned on to it....) The contraption was a total failure. She couldn't control it easily. We would have been better off with her just using the dildo in her hand.... which is what we did later. I was gipped out of the experience of really being fucked by her and having a chance to experience her losing her cherry (She took every single one of mine..... until the advent of cyber)

Feeling a woman making herself come by fucking me...... (once I know I'm not going to be hurt)....... bliss. Finally releasing me to cum with her...... heaven.

I am heartened that a recent report indicated that the feeldoe might live up to all my dreams.
 
lots of possibilities

uptoplay2 said:
Feeling a woman making herself come by fucking me...... (once I know I'm not going to be hurt)....... bliss. Finally releasing me to cum with her...... heaven.

I am heartened that a recent report indicated that the feeldoe might live up to all my dreams.

Well uptoplay2, I really have to agree with you about the wonderful feeling of a woman making herself cum by fucking me! It really is awesome!!! It is so wonderful!

As far as getting hurt goes, you need to communicate with her and tell her exactly how you feel. For example when she first penetrates you, you will feel discomfort until your anus adjusts to the size of the strap-on. (Start with a small one first) For me she had to stop twice and wait a bit before she could get it all the way inside me. Then she started slowly thrusting....we had to stop a few times during this phase too. Soon she could thrust into me with a fairly normal speed. Next she changed the angle and asked me how it felt. (each one of us--men-- are built a little different so some angles feel better than others) It took time but we found a position that felt very good---for both of us!

By then she was so turned on that she just started fucking me harder and harder...almost out of control....and I loved it! I pushed backed and could not get enough of her.....she was enjoying it so much she came before I did but kept fucking me!!!! It did not take much longer and I came too!!

As far as feeldoe goes, I have not tried it but it sounds great. In addition, if you can shop online together there are alot of strap-ons out there that will help her orgasm while fucking you. Try goodvibes.com to name one website.

In the scene above, she had a strap-on harness and then fitted the appropriate size dildo in the harness for me. We secured it in place so that it was right on her pelvic bone and she secured a small vibrator underneath right next to her clit. However, in all the excitement she forgot to turn the vibrator on!! We were so turned on by the scene we didn't need it.

Good luck,

eroticspank
 
Lol, eroticspank, your posts to this thread are always a treat .
A nice site too, I'm quite interested in some of these and I'm sure Mistress will be too :)
 
http://www.webelez.com/Members/new_movies.html
This link may die when they move the clip.

Go to www.webelez enter.. then scroll to lower left and look for video on demand. Feeldoe sample intro there. After looking for SOOOoO long. I was happy to find this,
but now I want so much more. Like what does it look like if the wearer stands up... and of course.... how does it look as it is used. (and yes... I'd be happy to find ff or mf.... actually..... ff would be even more interestin)
Hopefully they will have a follow up.

this one might work for a while with a download you can keep
http://www.phatforums.com/yabbitboy/posts/05-02-27/22936.shtml
 
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it has always been a fantasy of mine to take a strapon from a woman. i have tried to find a woman that wanted to penetrate me... i have found it difficult. i think i would love it. i have used a dildo on myself before...turned me on a great deal.
 
i would certainly enjoy wearing a dildo and penetrating a man or woman. i am just beginning my bi-lesbian life and feel i have a lot to look forward to. had a lot of straight and shy sex for a long time. but always loved anal myself, receiving it. :cool:
 
I have only used a strap on one time, it was a hot experience for me, to be driving that big fake cock into my then gal pal's pussy. I would love to have it done to me and someday to do it to my daddy!!!!
 
what do you want to do

Mya Wencha said:
I have only used a strap on one time, it was a hot experience for me, to be driving that big fake cock into my then gal pal's pussy. I would love to have it done to me and someday to do it to my daddy!!!!


Mya

What do you want to do to daddy?

daddy Phil
 
PhilLusty said:
Mya

What do you want to do to daddy?

daddy Phil

I want to fuck you with a strap on daddy! Please, daddy, let me give it to you in your ass, please!!!!
 
yeesh, when did the strapon thread turn into a cybering den........
 
When I was in my early 20's i lived with an older woman, in her 40's that was quite Domme and loved to use a strapon. That was my first experience with them. Loved it. Mostly because unlike a man, she could last forever, and tease me and drive me crazy for hours. But all through our 1-year relationship she always said I'd leave her for a man, which is exactly what happened.

I left her for a Latino who i lived with for 6 years, then i lived with a black man for 5 years. They were both great lovers. And I admit, I liked the feel of a warm, throbbing live cock much better than a strapon.

Then last summer, for the first time since I was 21 I got invovled with another woman. This one older than me also, in her late 40's, and also on the Domme side. She had a strapon that she used on me, made out of something called "cyberskin." Almost feels like the real thing. But it was only about 6" long. I told her I lived with a black man for five years and was used to a bit larger. She told me to go out and buy whatever I liked and she'd use it on me. So I did. Went out to a store and bought one for her strapon belt that was about 9" long and quite thick (but it still wasn't as big as my black boyfriend's!).

Anyway... she would use a vibrator on me first... then her 6" strapon, and then the 9" one. Was sort of nice that way. Sort of loosened you up first for the main event.

My favorite memory with her (we only dated for about 3 months), was going out last Halloween to a costume party. She was a seamstress for theater companies and made us two Elizabethan gowns. They were quite elaborate, like something out of a Shakespearean play. She made three crinolins for under my skirt. It was beautiful. We actually won runner up in the costume contest.

When we got home that night, she bent me over the back of her sofa, lifted my dress and the crinolins... she said I looked quite hot... mainly because she'd asked me to wear garter belts and stockings. She then she proceeded to pull down my panties, and to strapon the 9" dildo. She took me without her usual 'loosening' up process. At first it hurt, I screamed like crazy, but quickly got used to it, and it felt great... she drove me crazy, and finally made me cum.

Never will forget that. Her in her Elizabethan gown, and me in mine, bent over her sofa, taking it from her strapon. She was a very hot woman.

Steffie
 
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massstud said:
Lighten up there Aeroil...*****s too damn short....
haha, I was kidding massstud, sorry if I didn't portray that.
 
I originally posted the below under another thread...

I originally posted the below under the thread: "Domination with a strapon." However, the discussion under this one would seem to merrit a repost.

"While I've always been bi, though with a definite predisposition for dominant woman - but that is another thread, for me it is much more about the power-exchange than the sensation, though I love anal. *dahrool* The following true story epitomizes what I mean. I dear friend and top had me encased in saran wrap, bent over a wooden table. She literally caned me until she had broken away enough of the plastic to make my ass exposed. The strap-on came next, due keep in mind this woman had hips that could buck a 200lb man. All I remember was being slammed into that table over and over again, her growling things like "is this the way you like your cunt raped you fucken whore." At some point she swore she came. I collapsed and the next morning my thighs and pelvis were horribly bruised. *bliss*"
 
Something I've always wanted to do but it seems that there is a shortage of women that are into that on Long Island.
 
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