Strap-on experiences

[Aeroil]

a piece of advice garylee: don't pick it out ahead of time, the temptation will kill you wait until you can buy it before you pick it out

 

[Soulfiregirl]

Yes Soulfiregirl and Aeroil I think that many more men would get into it, if they gave it a chance.

As far as our plumbimg goes we all have prostate glands, and if you stimulate the gland it can cause orgasm and ejaculation. Depending how this is done it can be very pleasurable.

I think the hardest thing for most men is to get over the gay fear. If they like getting it in the behind does that mean they are gay? The answer is no (I don't mean to lecture Soulfiregirl) but I really believe that many men don't even want to talk about anal play for that reason.

For example, when I talk with other guys about sex and someone describes a very hot blow job where the woman rubbed the area just below his balls resulting in an explosive orgasm we all say WOW!! I want to try that too!!! etc However, if I told them that pressing on that spot actually stimulates the prostate and she can make you cum just as hard by sticking a finger up your butt most men are not into it!

Through D/S play I have learned alot about my body I would have never thought possible. I have found out the pleasure of a prostate orgasm, anal orgasm, and of course regular ejaculation. Add a mental orgasm to the above equation and we are talking awesome! However, just two of the above can be very intense.

For example: While watching an X rated video with a woman fucking a man with a strap-on I used to wonder why the woman would jack the man off while fucking him. I found that I could have an orgasm with just the woman fucking me, especially if she also orgasmed. However, I found out that the orgasm I was having was mainly a prostate orgasm....where my cum kind of leaked out , don't get me wrong it felt great! But when I had a woman jack me off at the same time I had my prostate orgasm, the intensity tripled and my cum shot out like a fire hose! I would yell so loud sometimes I lost my voice! Wow!!!

You can actually masturbate that way, by using your fingers or a dildo...though I find it too intense by myself and prefer to do it with a partner and her strap-on or other toys.

Perhaps too much info? I hope not.....take care


eroticspank

Actually, that was an excellent post. Very informative. (you weren't lecturing at all....*giggle*...)

May I ask, ES...how long did it take for you to be able to "accept" a strap on? Was it painful at first? (I've never tried anal myself but I've had colon problems my whole life so it scares me a little bit)

I've always wondered how gay men, (or straight men who just like to be screwed that way) can handle something the size of a penis passing throught the tight sphincter muscles down there. How do you relax them enough? (and once you do, do they "pop" back into place or do they stretch eventually? Is there "leaking"?)

I guess I should start an anal thread but I figured I'd just ask here. I may be open to trying anal myself but because of my colon problems sometimes, I don't know if I could. It just seems like it would hurt too much. I can handle a finger though.

 

[Aeroil]

hmm, well eroticspank probably knows a lot more than I do, but maybe I can answer some of those questions. If properly prepared, if it hurts, it barely hurts, and then it doesn't last long. Just massaging the sphincter muscles loosens them up quite a bit, and a rimjob works really well, or so I've heard. As far as 'leaking' goes I have a friend who insists that if she ever does anal she's going to tear her sphincter and have anal leakage and such, and she is very quick to tell me about all her friends that have had it happen to them . I really think she's just paranoid, most people can handle it just fine if it's not done too quickly. If you have colon problems you may want to look into the issue before you try anything too intense. Like I said, eroticspank probably knows a lot more than I do, he has RL experience, or so he claims

 

[levy]

Wow... I posted about this in the HT section. Didn't see this.
The more I read the more i'm ready to try this.
This is HOT!! I like hearing how it makes you women feel.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Originally posted by levy
Wow... I posted about this in the HT section. Didn't see this.
The more I read the more i'm ready to try this.
This is HOT!! I like hearing how it makes you women feel.

Are you going to tell us where you are.. how old you are...what about 'how it makes you women feel' that you like..?

 

[uptoplay2]

Miss I....

A refresher of what you or other ladies might want.... Then we can get into what those on the other side want.

A) You enjoy the power
B) The ability to provide pleasure with the strap-on.
C) The ability to please herself in a new way.
D) The ability to "humiliate" and control her partner?
E) The eroticism of the situation.
Are there other reasons?? Let's flesh this out..

I'd be happy with a mixture of.... ABCE... not into being humiliated or called someone's bitch... just as I would have trouble doing that to someone else. C is a major turn on for me.... as you know!
(Hey I didn't even mention..... you know what!)

 

[Soulfiregirl]

Re: Miss I....

A refresher of what you or other ladies might want.... Then we can get into what those on the other side want.


B) The ability to provide pleasure with the strap-on.
C) The ability to please herself in a new way.
E) The eroticism of the situation.
Are there other reasons?? Let's flesh this out..

I love hearing a guy's sounds when he's really enjoying himself with what I'm doing to him. I LOVE that. (I love some noice with sex) I just like the idea of making a guy cum by doing something different to him then traditional penis in the vagina sex. (although I love that too)

It just seem very erotic to me to encourage a man (or woman) to allow themselves to be a little more vunerable and be "taken" sexually....with a strap-on.

One of my fantasies is to slide one of my fingers in and out of a guy while I'm going down on him. (or a dildo if he wants something bigger) Or I'm doing a girl from behind with a strap-on while I reach under and play with her clit.

*sigh* (am I sure I only want pen-pals right now??? Damn, this board makes me horny...lol)

As Martha Stewart would say "Strap-ons, they're a good thing."

 

[smokeygirl6]

Strap on, it's a good thing

I really enjoy his reaction to our strap on play and that's what makes it so satisfying to me. It's a complete turn around (lol) from what he says he enjoys about regular penis to vagina sex with me, watching my reactions. Yes, it doe take some getting used to for him and you have to be very in tune with what he is enjoying vs. what he is enduring, but plenty of talk during and after can solve that issue.

 

[smokeygirl6]

I know I'm not a prolific poster here, but I'm really excited I got up to a big 10 posts! Really, for someone as shy as me, that's a milestone, going for 100 now! Bump.

 

[uptoplay2]

first things first smokeygirl

First we have to take care of your virginity!
That happens at thirty. Keep posting!
Inquiring minds what to know what you are thinking.....

Ok... mainly horny minds... but we are interested in what you have to say that's for sure!

 

[AssTart]

Re: Miss I....

A refresher of what you or other ladies might want.... Then we can get into what those on the other side want.

A) You enjoy the power
B) The ability to provide pleasure with the strap-on.
C) The ability to please herself in a new way.
D) The ability to "humiliate" and control her partner?
E) The eroticism of the situation.
Are there other reasons?? Let's flesh this out..

I'd be happy with a mixture of.... ABCE... not into being humiliated or called someone's bitch... just as I would have trouble doing that to someone else. C is a major turn on for me.... as you know!
(Hey I didn't even mention..... you know what!)

I HATE the humiliation part. I do not even think of it that way - I love my husband too much. I also HATE the websites that call it "sissyfication" (sp??) We both enjoy me calling him my "Fucktoy" or "pet" - both loving yet dominate for me. The jury is still out on "Bendover boyfriend"

I want to take him, fill him, posess him, make him scream my name while cuming harder than he ever has!

 

[uptoplay2]

lucky lucky man....

even luckier if he knows you are getting yourself to that same moment..... more so if in getting your fucking he discovers how you really like to be fucked.

 

[kalalau]

Re: lucky lucky man....

even luckier if he knows you are getting yourself to that same moment..... more so if in getting your fucking he discovers how you really like to be fucked.

You know, UpTo, I'm so in heaven when being fucked that I hadn't thought of that!!! Thanks. K

 

[levy]

Are you going to tell us where you are.. how old you are...what about 'how it makes you women feel' that you like..?

MissIntrigue

I'm in the South Eastern USA... 36 And I like when a woman is in control. Pretty much what uptoplay2 said except the ability to "humiliate" part. I have yet to do it. The gf went and got a toy
today. gulp...... She says she wants to but I don't think she'll go through with it. Kinda shy.

 

[smokeygirl6]

MissIntrigue

I'm in the South Eastern USA... 36 And I like when a woman is in control. Pretty much what uptoplay2 said except the ability to "humiliate" part. I have yet to do it. The gf went and got a toy
today. gulp...... She says she wants to but I don't think she'll go through with it. Kinda shy.

What kind of toy, may I ask? Humiliation does not have to be a part of it, just enjoyment, like hearing you beg for more.

 

[uptoplay2]

I would not be humiliated to be reduced to begging

.......... but to know that she was also driving herself over the edge. In theory, according to accounts here, to really get there I'd have to wait for a bit of help after she had finished, or better, as she was finishing. That would be bliss.... and yes.... I'd beg as she was coming down from her orgasm...or in the midst.

 

[smokeygirl6]

Howabout as you were both finishing?

 

[uptoplay2]

As we BOTH were finishing!

Yes...... wouldn't KNOWING that a mutual orgasm was almost assured...... be truly wonderful??!! And for the guy..... WOW what an orgasm! If only the orgasm for her matched!

merde........ that little thought had a bit of an effect.

 

[smokeygirl6]

For me the orgasm does match and THEN SOME! I'm lucky that way.....

 

[Aeroil]

hmm, the woman's orgasm depends on the mentality, mainly, whether they like fucking their man or not, and of course their dildo, and how they use it . at least that's what I understand, hehehe.

 

[smokeygirl6]

Yep, it's all in how you use it. Of course, I had no idea how to when I started...but my guy knew how to use HIS and was willing to coach me on how to use mine. I'm still learning, but oh what fun to be the student.

 

[uptoplay2]

You aren't the only lucky one

Au is the luckiest one in my mind. And just the thought of you two...... well that makes me lucky too! There is hope.

For me the orgasm does match and THEN SOME! I'm lucky that way.....

 

[smokeygirl6]

We are lucky to be together and enjoying....of course there is hope, just find a girl and bring out the dirty girl in her. We all have it, it just takes the right guy to bring it out.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Originally posted by smokeygirl6
What kind of toy, may I ask? Humiliation does not have to be a part of it, just enjoyment, like hearing you beg for more.

I agree with smokeygirl...that pleading, whether it's verbal, or just in your tone of your sounds....makes a girl hot to the core...

 

[MissIntrigue]

Originally posted by smokeygirl6
We are lucky to be together and enjoying....of course there is hope, just find a girl and bring out the dirty girl in her. We all have it, it just takes the right guy to bring it out.

One dirty girl here looking for a dirty boy...Heh
Humilation optional..serious inquiries only.
Panty wearers or willing to wear them a plus.