Strap-on experiences

[Firey88]

Done By Strap On.

I Have been done by my wife with her strap on a few times and must say its the most intense feeling you can get makes me cum so much harder for her and me especially
I also like to suck on it first for her to let her know I appreciate her for doing this and she luvs to make me gag as well, her little powerplay trick feels so hoottt
Andy.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Re: Done By Strap On.

Originally posted by Firey88
I Have been done by my wife with her strap on a few times and must say its the most intense feeling you can get makes me cum so much harder for her and me especially
I also like to suck on it first for her to let her know I appreciate her for doing this and she luvs to make me gag as well, her little powerplay trick feels so hoottt
Andy.

Aren't you a wonderful man! I bet she does love it.. I know I'd love it too...

now I need to find one of you guys for my own.

 

[gingermango]

Oh, men like him (and me ) are out there, you just have to look for us. As I posted in another thread recently, I was sucking my wife's strapon within a few dates and things progressed fairly rapidly (and pleasurably) after that. My wife's friend now wants to do her man with a strapon but he's entirely uninterested; last weekend they discussed letting her friend try using me as a "learning aid". Needless to say, I didn't voice any objections!

 

[toy_boy5]

What a lucky guy you are, gingermango! I think there are a lot of us who would love to be used for "show-and-tell" like that!

 

[gingermango]

Well, to be fair, "discussed" is all they've done, so far. But we're supposed to get together for awhile Saturday night again. Our friend is an aesthetician and she's waxing my legs for me - my wife specifically asked her to do it and to "make sure it hurts." Her personal slogan is, "A little pain's good for you. A lot's better!" Of course, I may already be in pain from the night before; my wife is planning for me to get a tattoo on my ass cheek that reads, "Sissy Britches" Another friend of ours has designed about three different versions and my wife's finally decided which one she likes. If she has me do it this weekend I'll post pics for anyone interested.

But assuming I'm not too wiped out from anything else, Saturday night may turn out to be "school night."

 

[uptoplay2]

Not the authority on Feeldoes....

But search Mr. Happy's posts and you'll find his experience. Hopefully someday he will post more......

Still hoping that someone will do 1000's words with a pic..... perhaps 10,000?

I did find a nexus pic ..... but she's a shy little missing minx...... and I don't want to piss her off with too many requests for more pics.

 

[kalalau]

Hi. I'll add my 2 cents to this wonderful thread. My girlfriend started putting a sizable dildo in my ass a couple of years ago. At my urging, she then got a harness. How things changed...I think she began to "feel her oats" and got quite enthusiastic!

The fucking is/was wonderful. I absolutely love it and would actually like her to strap it on more often. I have no problem with my sexuality and would love to have a real cock in my ass on a regular basis as well.

Nevertheless, she still uses it primarily for my satisfaction. I have wondered if a double headed dildo like the feeldoe or the nexus would give her more satisfaction? Could anybody comment on this? Additionally, which type (feeldoe or nexus) is better, and why? (or is it just personal preference?)

Thanks.

 

[unit113]

hello all

I see no one has answer my posts about having two ladies use my virgin ass with a strap on I wish I knew some here in the Myrtle Beach area so I could find them to make my dream come true. To be taken my two lovely ladies slowly and deep into me taking turns on me.

 

[FinePhilly]

This thread has been very informative. I know my husband would like me to play with his ass more. Perhaps he'd like me to work up to this. We shall have to see......

 

[MissIntrigue]

Welcome to Lit.. I bet he would love what you've got planned.. please do come back and let us know...

 

[kl2626]

well i'm new here been lurking reading and looking for a while i'm in arelationship for a long time now but she doesn't like ass play . But as for myself i have been wanting to be fucked buy a girl with a strap on i'm in california area bay area i'm not looking for relationship just to fulfill fanasies if you would like to help our fantasies cum true pm me

 

[Nordic man]

strap-on seduction

my first time with a strap-on being used on me was almost like a seduction scene. by the time the strap-on was slid inside of my I was desiring it. She used all of her female charms and was whispering to me to submit to her and allow me to be taken as she was rubbing her breasts against me and whispering to me to let myself go and allow her to dominate me.. by the time she finally had all the strap-on inside of me I was begging for it

 

[wicked girl]

Mistress just obtained a strapon. i can not tell you how excited i am to have her use it on me. ...should she desire to do so.

i hear that there are times when the base digs into the pelvic bone. what are some modifications that are simple fixes?
Mistress is slight and i wouldnt want her to be uncomfortable.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Damn...

This is one of my favorite elements of strap-on play, actually. There's something so sweet and pitiful about the look in a man's eyes when he's got my cock at the back of his throat.

I've had a lot of experience fucking men with my strap-on, but I have yet to fuck a woman with one. This seems a shame, considering that I have a very strong preference for women, but the opportunity just hasn't presented itself yet. I'm a patient girl, though. Someday I'm sure it will happen.

Read my story about assfucking! It's based on a collection of experiences I had with one very cool boy, and it's got some hot dick-sucking action in it. I've linked it for you here.

http://www.angelfire.com/freak/stories/mynightie.html

--Freya

For some reason, that sotry really worked for me. Lucky guy friend you have, neighbor!

Stiffy...

 

[Kierae]

I have had several experiences using my strap ons with men and women in the past but only from a more dominant position. Any suggestions on how to handle the strap on play when the wearer is submissive? At this point the only thing I have come up with involves purchasing either a chest or head harness. I already own 2 harnesses and the nexus so it would be nice if initially we could make use with the toys we already have.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

Kierae

 

[MissIntrigue]

Originally posted by Kierae
I have had several experiences using my strap ons with men and women in the past but only from a more dominant position. Any suggestions on how to handle the strap on play when the wearer is submissive? At this point the only thing I have come up with involves purchasing either a chest or head harness. I already own 2 harnesses and the nexus so it would be nice if initially we could make use with the toys we already have.

Any feedback would be appreciated.

Kierae

I think using your toys that you have already has nothing to to with 'submissive' or Dominant'. The frame of mind is what's important and how you get to the goal that you're striving for is what needs to change. You can use any toy with whatever frame of mind that you want.

If you're wondering how to use a strap-on without D/s being the atmosphere..then you need to do it lovingly as any loving partners would.

I hope I read your request properly, otherwise I feel foolish.

 

[Stiffy Says...]

Speaking with a complete lack of knowledge on the subject...

Sounds like Miss Intrigue has the right idea. I would think with a harness and nexus, a guy would be able to take the active role with the lady wearing it - likely as well as possible.

Dunno, am inbetween partners, so may be awhile before I could get back to you on that.

Stiffy...

 

[tiez]

I have had several experiences using my strap ons with men and women in the past but only from a more dominant position. Any suggestions on how to handle the strap on play when the wearer is submissive? At this point the only thing I have come up with involves purchasing either a chest or head harness. I already own 2 harnesses and the nexus so it would be nice if initially we could make use with the toys we already have.

I know in my case, my submissive side to D/s is what brought me into strap-on curiosity. My training continued in that vein as well, but now in addition to submitting to the phallus, I'm looking forward to it for just the feeling of it as well, the pleasure I'm expecting.

Hopefully it'll turn out like I'm hoping for... hoping soon, before Christmas we think.

 

[uptoplay2]

submissive with a strap-on?

I think you were looking for a way to strap your sub into something so you could use it for you?

This sort of runs counter to how I would be interested in strap-ons except that you are focusing on your pleasure which is why I am attracted to the feeldoe and nexus.

With the nexus (or a strap-on) couldn't you just get them set... and strap them down? At least with the nexus a female sub would get something from this. Or.... if you could strap the nexus into a sub's ass.....

I'm going to stop... since I might be off in the wrong direction.

 

[Kierae]

Actually Miss Intrigue is correct in that it is the state of mind I am dealing with. In the past I have always been in the dominant role when using a strap on or participating in ass play. I will not be in this case with my Husband - no switching allowed. I am worried about falling out of subspace since those toys are major triggers for me. I suppose it just amounts to some major retraining with some heavy handed reinforcements...

Thanks for letting me process and I guess we shall see what happens.

~Kierae

 

[MissIntrigue]

Originally posted by Kierae
Actually Miss Intrigue is correct in that it is the state of mind I am dealing with. In the past I have always been in the dominant role when using a strap on or participating in ass play. I will not be in this case with my Husband - no switching allowed. I am worried about falling out of subspace since those toys are major triggers for me. I suppose it just amounts to some major retraining with some heavy handed reinforcements...

Thanks for letting me process and I guess we shall see what happens.

~Kierae

I am so glad you came back to write more. I hope your venture goes well.. I am most certain it will actually.

Processing is always helpful... Enjoy..

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

I have wondered if a double headed dildo like the feeldoe or the nexus would give her more satisfaction? Could anybody comment on this? Additionally, which type (feeldoe or nexus) is better, and why? (or is it just personal preference?)

Not sure if I've posted about this before (too lazy to look back through ALL the pages...lol) My strap on has a little dildo that goes into Me. I'd rather it wasn't there. When I'm fucking him, I'm getting off on the power I feel, thrusting hard and deep. I'm not concerned with My pussy getting pleasure. If your girlfriend got "quite enthusiastic", it sounds like she enjoyed the power too, and something filling her pussy would just be an annoyance. You could always ask her.

I have neither a feeldoe, or a nexus. Mine is permanently attached....seems "safer" that way!

 

[uptoplay2]

I'd prefer that my lover is feeling something as well

When I am fucking woman there's no way to "turn off" what I am feeling through my dick.

To allow someone to pound away on me for the sake of power is not the role switching that interests me. From my experience the pounding I would be getting wouldn't necessarily be bringing me to a satisfying explosive orgasm..... though a lot of cum would dribble out in the process.

To each her own..... but my goal was to give my lover as close to my experience as possible and vica versa.

 

[crazyivan]

my first experience with a strap-on, i was laying on my back with my legs up in the air. she was laying on top of me looking down into my eyes as she penetrated me. to feel that sliding inside of me, was like nothing i had felt before. i felt so full, so complete. you just fucked my ass raw. the feeling was so great, that i cam all over my stomach.

there is just something about having something long and hard up my ass. i am looking for a real dick to get up there, but a little more nervous about that.

since i am in btwn relationships right now, just not been the same. been almost two years since i had my ass good and fucked. anyone wanna help me out....lol

 

[43nascar]

strap on

My ex husband loved anal play, but drew the line at letting me use a strap on with him, and with sam, well, it's completely out of the question. So this is an unfulfilled fantasy for me so far, but I believe that will be changing soon.

where do you live i would give just about anything to be your first dildo experiance.