Strap-on experiences

[disabledvet]

Jealous

What a great testimony...

I had this until recently...sort of. He was wonderful on the intimacy part of our relationship...we weren't married but...he just wasn't psychologically minded and we couldn't connect properly outside of the bedroom no matter how I tried. He was just into a different path. So much time lost :-/

I think it's great that you believe it's valuable information to pass along to men that might be exploring their thoughts about it. Thank you so much for sharing.

Thoroughly jealous with all the success enjoyed by you and others using a strapon. I brought the subject up with my wife who has since ridiculed me as being gay. Good times

 

[disabledvet]

I'll volunteer if you let me try mine on you! <smirk> I know...we're too far apart. You certainly sound a lot like me in your profile...

Oooooh...ooooh...pick me...pick me

 

[MissIntrigue]

I'm beginning to think I'm a bit of a switch... sometimes dom, sometimes not. I've found strapon videos to be a big turn-on (and fantasies), but I'm not so sure about actually doing it. It would definitely have to be someone I have complete trust in. An experienced partner would probably be good, or at least one who really wanted to do it. Even so, any fantasy is more about a mutual thing - videos with lots of verbal degredation are a total turn-off... so maybe not a switch, just kinky.

It's perfectly okay to not desire the humiliation and degradation that gets depicted in many strap on videos.

Complete trust is necessary to be able to relax enough to allow this act to be rewarding...even if you're only experimenting to find out if you're even going to like it or not. Someone that really wants to do it is okay too but they have to know what they are doing too! Make sure they read about and know about the key things (lots of lube, stretching, taking it slow etc to begin with!)

Good luck and I hope that your first and every time after that is wonderful!

 

[MissIntrigue]

Thoroughly jealous with all the success enjoyed by you and others using a strapon. I brought the subject up with my wife who has since ridiculed me as being gay. Good times

It doesn't make you gay! If you were only interested in male on male sex= that makes you gay.

I'm sorry to hear that yet another married man tries to reveal an interest in this act where the wife shoots his idea down and not only that, ridicules him while doing so. I'm sorry for that in your marriage.

 

[backslash]

It's perfectly okay to not desire the humiliation and degradation that gets depicted in many strap on videos.

Complete trust is necessary to be able to relax enough to allow this act to be rewarding...even if you're only experimenting to find out if you're even going to like it or not. Someone that really wants to do it is okay too but they have to know what they are doing too! Make sure they read about and know about the key things (lots of lube, stretching, taking it slow etc to begin with!)

Good luck and I hope that your first and every time after that is wonderful!

I think the best videos are the ones where it's a couple and they're just doing it for FUN... I've seen a few like that and they make me lean more towards trying it.

I was with a girl who would have done it (she offered, though didn't have any experience) and she would have been good about it (lube, patience, being gentle). We only ever got as far as a finger during oral, though. It was good and not so good. I didn't get any amazing feeling out of it, but no pain... mentally it was a turn-on, though.

 

[MissIntrigue]

I think the best videos are the ones where it's a couple and they're just doing it for FUN... I've seen a few like that and they make me lean more towards trying it.

I was with a girl who would have done it (she offered, though didn't have any experience) and she would have been good about it (lube, patience, being gentle). We only ever got as far as a finger during oral, though. It was good and not so good. I didn't get any amazing feeling out of it, but no pain... mentally it was a turn-on, though.

She wasn't getting you in the right spot! I'm attaching a diagram of the internal male parts..save it to your computer or photo files for future refernce..to guide the next girl on where to go...

 

[vegasflasher]

Hi every one. First time here. I think it would be an added attraction to a sexual good time for a woman I was with to use one on-in me. My wife now"separated" has seen me suck cock, help her with sucking a cock. I have had many toys in my ass and on one occasion, in the bathroom of an ABS theater, a real good fucking of my ass by a real cock. I think it would be a turn on for a lady I'm with to put a strap-on, on and fuck me.

 

[jomar]

Wow, old thread but I'll play. She straps it to me from time to time and it is awesome. No humiliation or degradation, but talking dirty while she looms over me and rides me is a turn on, hell yeah.

I've got some strapon stories for those interested...Marion, The Bet. Much to my surprise and amusement they took a cross dressing turn, just so you know.

 

[disabledvet]

I have been dreaming of having my ass pounded by a strapon for well over 20 yrs. The closest I have come to satisfaction has been limited to the toys I have used. Incidentally, I am from Seacoast NH if anyone is interested.

 

[CBM514]

I have been dreaming of having my ass pounded by a strapon for well over 20 yrs. The closest I have come to satisfaction has been limited to the toys I have used. Incidentally, I am from Seacoast NH if anyone is interested.

Have you ever asked your woman? You may be surprised at the answer...

 

[yojimbo441]

Please feel free to share your experiences here.

Did you ever use a strap-on?

Was ever one used on you?

How did it feel for you (active or passive part)?

Would you do it again?



Has one of you ladies ever had the pleasure to be fucked thorougly with a strap-on by another woman?

I have had a strap on used on me once. I was the most incredible feeling.
We saw an episode of "Reel Sex" and that was how the subject got brought up.
The wife asked if I would ever try it, I said "For you? Sure." I forgot all about it until one night we were having sex and she said "Stay here, I'll be right back" She went to the bathroom and closed the door. When she opened it again she had on a strap on. She asked "Are you ready?" I nodded yes. It started out a bit awkward since neither of us had done anything remotely like this before. It didn't matter, it was the most intense and incredible sex of my life. I came so hard I nearly shot across the room. To date we have never done it again but I'm pretty sure that day is coming.

 

[MissIntrigue]

Have you ever asked your woman? You may be surprised at the answer...

I think a lot of guys just don't know how to word it as a direct question. And I think a lot of guys are just not sure how to bring it up for fear of her rejection about it.

It isn't the easiest thing to talk about, I know.

Some women go off the deep end and start accusing the guy of turning gay over the desire to have it! How close minded!

 

[subserviant]

A pleasant surprise .My gf knows I like have my ass played with ,she pushed her finger in a while back ,I liked it.She offered to use a strap on ,we went out and bought one ,couldn't get home fast enough, washed it ,helped her put on the strap ,naturally I was on my knees ,we got the cock in place ,she grabbed my hair told me to suck it .At first I refused ,then thought what the hell so I sucked it .What turn on ,she fucked me with it ,more of a turn on ,we use it on a regulator basis and both love it

 

[CBM514]

I think a lot of guys just don't know how to word it as a direct question. And I think a lot of guys are just not sure how to bring it up for fear of her rejection about it.

It isn't the easiest thing to talk about, I know.

Some women go off the deep end and start accusing the guy of turning gay over the desire to have it! How close minded!

Yeah that's all a fair statement...it needs to often be a series of conversations and honestly some people (gender aside) may not eventually be open minded enough to try some things...but if partners can't communicate about sex it can lead to communization problems elsewhere...

 

[MissIntrigue]

A pleasant surprise .My gf knows I like have my ass played with ,she pushed her finger in a while back ,I liked it.She offered to use a strap on ,we went out and bought one ,couldn't get home fast enough, washed it ,helped her put on the strap ,naturally I was on my knees ,we got the cock in place ,she grabbed my hair told me to suck it .At first I refused ,then thought what the hell so I sucked it .What turn on ,she fucked me with it ,more of a turn on ,we use it on a regulator basis and both love it

Thank you so much for sharing your experience with it.

While not everyone likes this kind of sex...the ones that *think* they are going to like it and finally get to be taken with Strap on are life-long lovers of it!

You're a lucky couple!

 

[panty wearer]

I think a lot of guys just don't know how to word it as a direct question. And I think a lot of guys are just not sure how to bring it up for fear of her rejection about it.

It isn't the easiest thing to talk about, I know.

Some women go off the deep end and start accusing the guy of turning gay over the desire to have it! How close minded!

Oh! You know my wife then. I've asked for over 20 years to be pegged by her, and she has that same closed mind sindrome .

 

[RustingAway]

Not too long ago I had a great experience. I meet a couple from another site. After a quick face to face meeting we hit a hotel room not too far away. They brought a bag full of toys. Dawn was about 10 years older me but still a knockout in her high heels. They already knew my interest in strapon play. After a couple of drinks in the room I head to take a quick shower. When I came back, Dawn was naked wearing only a strapon and high heels. I could believe that this was happening. After a little foreplay I found myself on the bed with my legs spread. She tried to use her starpon but it was too big. I asked her to use something smaller. Her husband grabbed a small dildo, lubbed it up and she slowy inserted it to my ass. It felt great. As quick as it slipped in she took it out and positioned her large strapon dildo at the entrance. This time it went in easy. And God did it feel great. I was so worked up. This sexy woman was fucking me in the ass. I begged for more.

 

[disabledvet]

How does one find someone willing to use a strapon? I promise that I will be a good boy

 

[MissIntrigue]

How does one find someone willing to use a strapon? I promise that I will be a good boy

You probably should be forward and direct with the question when you meet someone.

"Would you be willing to use a strap on with me?"

See?

 

[SunshineDaddy]

Strap on fun

Yes I have and it is now one of my favorites. Yes it does hurt at first, but after some practice it feels good. Plus it makes my women into a sexual animal. She loves the power it gives her over me. It has led to other fun things to say the least....;

 

[just4friends]

Say more of these things...

Yes I have and it is now one of my favorites. Yes it does hurt at first, but after some practice it feels good. Plus it makes my women into a sexual animal. She loves the power it gives her over me. It has led to other fun things to say the least....;

You say less just when it might get more interesting....

Led to ???

 

[reaktor]

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[CBM514]

Not in to the humiliation/domination side of it, but if I was dating a woman who wanted to fuck me with a strap on why would I say no? Seems only fair if I want to fuck her in the ass.

Fair is fair after all right? Oh yeah, and besides it feels good too...

 

[curiousguy67]

strap on

would love to find a woman who would do this

 

[Artois1]

This my ultimate fantasy would love to meet a woman who would do this to me