Strap on dildo & Marriage Proposal ?

[PredatorSmile]

I have an unusual fantasy, it's based on a dream I recently had.


Strapping it on and giving it to a certain bisexual man who shares my bed is my top fantasy. He's scared of it, though. He wants his a55 to remain virgin until he turns to dust. Never mind that he routinely fucks his girl's bum, and many queer boys's bums too.



I wrote a short story which went like this :



A girl and a guy are living together. She's in love with him, and she's quite kinky. One night, she surprises him. First, they have regular sex and he fucks her pussy AND ass, hard. Just the way she likes it. Then, she whips out her strap on and fucks him. He's lying on his back and she plows his ass with her big strap on.



In the middle of the action, the girl kisses her boyfriend, tells him she loves him, and asks HIM to marry HER.


HOW'S THAT FOR KINK ?

 

[SpectreT]

I dunno about kink, but there's no chance in hell I'd turn down a marriage proposal of that nature.

 

[PredatorSmile]

I dunno about kink, but there's no chance in hell I'd turn down a marriage proposal of that nature.

I'm half-serious about trying it for real....

 

[SpectreT]

I'm half-serious about trying it for real....

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Only half?

Just curious... Is there a specific reason he wants his hindquarters to be unassailed? I guess what I'm trying to ask, is, do you think there's the slightest chance of negotiation on the backdoor front?

 

[John Doe]

Plowing his ass might be fun, but you might want to work up to it first.

I assume you've already conveyed just how much this fantasy turns you on but he still refuses, so if you're really considering action, you could try inserting a finger while you're blowing him or something. It's very important to be very reassuring and to go slow as you work up to bigger and better things, possibly over the period of days or even weeks. And of course, too much lube is not enough.

Or he may think that peing penetrated is a submissive thing and he may refuse on those grounds, in which case you would have to negotiate. (It may be strictly off-limits)

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

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Only half?

Just curious... Is there a specific reason he wants his hindquarters to be unassailed? I guess what I'm trying to ask, is, do you think there's the slightest chance of negotiation on the backdoor front?

SpectT have you no idea how many men while happy to 'assail' as you put it would sooner be decapitated than be 'assailed' themselves.....

 

[PredatorSmile]

Plowing his ass might be fun, but you might want to work up to it first.

I assume you've already conveyed just how much this fantasy turns you on but he still refuses, so if you're really considering action, you could try inserting a finger while you're blowing him or something. It's very important to be very reassuring and to go slow as you work up to bigger and better things, possibly over the period of days or even weeks. And of course, too much lube is not enough.

Or he may think that peing penetrated is a submissive thing and he may refuse on those grounds, in which case you would have to negotiate. (It may be strictly off-limits)

Aaron doesn't mind fingers, or tongues...down there. However, toys of any kind FRIGHTEN him. I keep buying strap-on DVDs to get him in the mood but those vids feature ball-busting, angry witches using toys on humiliated men, not exactly something which reassures an uninitiated guy !
I stopped buying those vids. He won't change his mind, though....


Someone we both know and trust suggested to me that maybe his refusal and fear of this sort of thing may be related to something which may have happened in his youth or childhood. Aaron doesn't say. As far as I know, he had a great life and wonderful parents.


My fantasy will stay just that....a fantasy.


I'm not kidding about the marriage proposal, though ( I'm serious about the act of proposing but NOT the manner !!!). We've survived so much together and we love each other. Why not make it official...circa '07 ?
That's my thinking.

 

[John Doe]

Aaron doesn't mind fingers, or tongues...down there. However, toys of any kind FRIGHTEN him. I keep buying strap-on DVDs to get him in the mood but those vids feature ball-busting, angry witches using toys on humiliated men, not exactly something which reassures an uninitiated guy !
I stopped buying those vids. He won't change his mind, though....


Someone we both know and trust suggested to me that maybe his refusal and fear of this sort of thing may be related to something which may have happened in his youth or childhood. Aaron doesn't say. As far as I know, he had a great life and wonderful parents.


My fantasy will stay just that....a fantasy.


I'm not kidding about the marriage proposal, though ( I'm serious about the act of proposing but NOT the manner !!!). We've survived so much together and we love each other. Why not make it official...circa '07 ?
That's my thinking.

Cool. Good luck.

Or if you believe that wishing good luck is bad luck, then break a leg and pass a stone.

 

[O'Mac]

Good luck on the proposal, but as for the anal intrusion, I think that if he hasn't been convinced by now he probably won't go for it ever.

 

[SpectreT]

SpectT have you no idea how many men while happy to 'assail' as you put it would sooner be decapitated than be 'assailed' themselves.....

Never really gave it much thought. I'm more of a "sauce for the goose is good for the gander" type of guy, and it's on such a basic level, I don't analyze it much anymore.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Good luck on the proposal, but as for the anal intrusion, I think that if he hasn't been convinced by now he probably won't go for it ever.

Well, he becomes pretty open-minded when drunk.....Just kidding ! I'd never do that, since he'd hate me in the morning. And I'd hate myself for it.



If anything, this frustration I've encountered in my personal life has been good for my writing. My stories do feature some delicious strap-on action. Fiction can be fun, and for some of us, it's the only way to live certain fantasies.