Straight..ophobic?

[BoomerP]

I think I've actually grown alittle discriminative to straight people. Today was the first time I've really thought about it

It's like it's harder to like straight people.. or easier not to like them.
Anyone else had this mindset?

 

[LaLaLilly]

I think I've actually grown alittle discriminative to straight people. Today was the first time I've really thought about it

It's like it's harder to like straight people.. or easier not to like them.
Anyone else had this mindset?

What is it about someone who is totally straight that turns you off? Is it comments or the general way of thinking?

 

[BoomerP]

What is it about someone who is totally straight that turns you off? Is it comments or the general way of thinking?

I dont really know.. Alot of things just irk me about them

It might be a competition thing. Or a clan mentality.
Like I get upset with the men because they take the women I like and I'm upset with the women cause they let the men take them

 

[LaLaLilly]

I dont really know.. Alot of things just irk me about them

It might be a competition thing. Or a clan mentality.
Like I get upset with the men because they take the women I like and I'm upset with the women cause they let the men take them

Aww..It's true you can't help who you like. However, even from my perspective, it feels like the men do it on purpose

 

[BoomerP]

Aww..It's true you can't help who you like. However, even from my perspective, it feels like the men do it on purpose

Yes... It does seem like that

 

[Wolfman1982]

you two, I am offended by your statements. Since what I feel is not fun, whether I am bi or straight. Then I am a man, and what you are babbling about is bullshit. And if it was something more relevant than heartbreaks. Then I would understand this, but this has nothing to do with that. This is a clear attack on men, and not bi or straight men. But men who enjoys women, whether they are straight or bi. So I am for one offended. And I am a bi man.
Who understands most heterosexual matters. But it doesn´t mean I accept everything that is thrown in the face of me. And for that matter accept the straight guys ramblings all the time. And believe me, I can be heterophobic at times, because of my dealings with some of them. So do me a favour and understand. This is where some men will go in and be much much more ugly in their choice of words, than me.

 

[Bollocks_Bitch]

you two, I am offended by your statements. Since what I feel is not fun, whether I am bi or straight. Then I am a man, and what you are babbling about is bullshit. And if it was something more relevant than heartbreaks. Then I would understand this, but this has nothing to do with that. This is a clear attack on men, and not bi or straight men. But men who enjoys women, whether they are straight or bi. So I am for one offended. And I am a bi man.
Who understands most heterosexual matters. But it doesn´t mean I accept everything that is thrown in the face of me. And for that matter accept the straight guys ramblings all the time. And believe me, I can be heterophobic at times, because of my dealings with some of them. So do me a favour and understand. This is where some men will go in and be much much more ugly in their choice of words, than me.

Say What?

 

[Bollocks_Bitch]

you two, I am offended by your statements. Since what I feel is not fun, whether I am bi or straight. Then I am a man, and what you are babbling about is bullshit. And if it was something more relevant than heartbreaks. Then I would understand this, but this has nothing to do with that. This is a clear attack on men, and not bi or straight men. But men who enjoys women, whether they are straight or bi. So I am for one offended. And I am a bi man.
Who understands most heterosexual matters. But it doesn´t mean I accept everything that is thrown in the face of me. And for that matter accept the straight guys ramblings all the time. And believe me, I can be heterophobic at times, because of my dealings with some of them. So do me a favour and understand. This is where some men will go in and be much much more ugly in their choice of words, than me.

I don't think that this thread was purely created to offend you. You speak in circles. I am pansexual and it is fact that both men and women are very competitive in nature and go after what ever it is that may be of challenge to them. They could give a care less about the other person's feelings. You are not the only one who deals with heterosexuals on a regular basis.

 

[BoomerP]

you two, I am offended by your statements. Since what I feel is not fun, whether I am bi or straight. Then I am a man, and what you are babbling about is bullshit. And if it was something more relevant than heartbreaks. Then I would understand this, but this has nothing to do with that. This is a clear attack on men, and not bi or straight men. But men who enjoys women, whether they are straight or bi. So I am for one offended. And I am a bi man.
Who understands most heterosexual matters. But it doesn´t mean I accept everything that is thrown in the face of me. And for that matter accept the straight guys ramblings all the time. And believe me, I can be heterophobic at times, because of my dealings with some of them. So do me a favour and understand. This is where some men will go in and be much much more ugly in their choice of words, than me.

Yeah it's bullshit and I've just come to realise it.
I wasnt attacking anyone. Just saying how I felt and it's just as much diverted to women as men. Maybe even more to women.

Anyway point of the thread was I know. It's jealousy or something from my side and I'd like to stop thinking that way

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I don't deal with purely straight people on a daily basis outside of my family (like the children's father) but I do understand the feelings that get aroused. I am not phobic though. I think BB has the right of it when she stated that it's probably more competitve than phobic, Parrish love. Wanting what you want and not wanting others to get it. And honestly, it is easier to think that straight people have it better than a purely *gay/lesbian* person. It isn't true but when one deals with discrimination due to sexual preferences...well it's easier to dislike the group...whether everyone deserves that dislike or not.

 

[Shywong]

I love lesbians but dykes are scary. Is that a paradox?

 

[Etoile]

There are a lot of gay men who hate women, a lot of gay people who hate straight people, a lot of gay girls who hate straight men...it's a world of politcal incorrectness out there.

I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with it in particular, except from the perspective that hating other people is bad and all that. Gay people who dislike straight people are no different from black people who dislike white people, etc. It's just one group disliking another, there's nothing special about it because it's gay vs. straight or anything.

Some people love everybody. Some people hate everybody. Most people are somewhere in between.

 

[gloriann]

I get what Parrish was trying to say. I think it's an age and experience thing, to be truthful, because when I was a babydyke, I felt the same way. As you come into your own, you kind of give up those labels (hopefully) and like or dislike people for who they are and how they behave, rather than their sexual orientation. I've been pissed off and offended by just as many gay guys and lesbians as I have straight men and women...