Straight (not even curious) women who've had lesbian sex

[SandraMustard]

I've been struggling all morning with how to word the thread and wondering if I expect any company under the conditions I am setting. I want to exclude women who followed a bi-curiosity or were encouraged to experiment such that they expected to have sex with a woman. Literotica being a place to explore fetishes and share experiences, active seekers/practitioners have plenty of threads to follow aside from this one.

What am I trying to prove? That there is no one like me? Or there are many like me who wish to express their views or out their experience? Is it worthwhile to limit this thread to those who didn't even wonder about or want to have woman-woman sex prior to their experience? It's only the precondition I wish to set.

There can be any variation of Why-What-How it happened. Your reactions to the experience can be different than mine - loved it, hated it, no big deal. Please tell what your motivations will be for the future - never again, want more, whatever.

 

[SandraMustard]

I'll share first

My background. I never once wondered about woman-woman sex involving me. Because of my informed sexual knowledge, I've always been aware of same sex activities going on in real life among people I knew. But I didn't want to encounter it myself; I even shied away from situations that might.

I'm not a prude so I've even added a little fantasy lesbian sex to a submitted story to titillate readers. I've watched porn with lesbian sex but was neither turned on or off by it. I never watched, imagining myself as part of the scene. Gay men sex does turn me off.

My experiences.

• I was offered and accepted a special stimulation technique from a masseuse. I discovered she meant happy-ending but I let her proceed. As my first massage, this happened before I was aware of the HE culture. Now, I only allow masseurs (men) to work on me (massage, excite, even fuck). The only possible recurrence would result from an impromptu couples-massage.

• I was seduced by an avowed lesbian. I didn't see it coming; I was almost incapacitated by alcohol; but I participated in kissing and 69 with her. I think my vagina was penetrated by a dildo, likely a strap-on. I can't imagine being surprised again or being emotionally close enough to a woman to want/allow sex solely with her.

• During a foursome at a swinger party, the other woman went down on me. I didn't object but I had no desire to reciprocate. I can see this happening again in group sex situations, even as a giver to excite my male partner(s).

My reactions. I had orgasms in all experiences but my interpretation is: stimulations are stimulations so of course my body responded. I wasn't repulsed or additionally aroused by the gender performing on me.

My future. I don't care if nothing ever happens again; I still shy away from most situations; but I won't turn away if something unexpected starts again. I still consider my orientation to be 100% straight. Certainly, I can't be bi-curious if I know what sex with a woman is like. But I can't accept being labeled as bi because I had experiences, only bi-tolerant.

 

[Ahi_Viking]

hmm

That's interesting, Sandra. At least it's nice that you enjoyed it.

I'm a very straight guy. But, last year I had some physical therapy where a male masseuse got very close to my most private spot. I was thinking, "Hey...wait a minute" but I didn't protest. Go figure...

 

[SandraMustard]

That's interesting, Sandra. At least it's nice that you enjoyed it.

I'm a very straight guy. But, last year I had some physical therapy where a male masseuse got very close to my most private spot. I was thinking, "Hey...wait a minute" but I didn't protest. Go figure...

Your contribution is welcome but I didn't invite men because it seems the situation for them is more black and white. IMO, an admittedly curious man will seek an answer and likely turn truly bi. A straight man will avoid it at all costs and run away if something is attempted. You didn't elaborate on the outcome of your situation.

BTW, to help inform you and others, 'masseuse' is French and gender (female) specific. A male would be a 'masseur'. Because of the unsavory associations that have gathered around the terms, serious (trained/licensed) practitioners generally prefer to be called 'physical therapists.'