Straight from the waist up gay from the waist down

[Escierto]

When I described my situation as a straight man who is a pure bottom for his transgender girlfriend, someone described me as straight from the waist up and gay from the waist down. After I told my girlfriend, she agreed that it was a good description for me. I guess because I am only attracted to women (my head) but love to be fucked (my ass). I don’t think I am unique. Anyone else who thinks this is a good description for them?

 

[asaxon]

When I described my situation as a straight man who is a pure bottom for his transgender girlfriend, someone described me as straight from the waist up and gay from the waist down. After I told my girlfriend, she agreed that it was a good description for me. I guess because I am only attracted to women (my head) but love to be fucked (my ass). I don’t think I am unique. Anyone else who thinks this is a good description for them?

I would confer with that. It is about what is under the shorts, could be why I prefer looking at smooth bodies.

 

[AlexBailey]

That description doesn't quite fit me, but I can relate to the non-traditional aspects.

I had a girlfriend who was a lesbian in every way except that she loved my cock.

 

[Astroman72]

I'd probably define myself as straight from the waist up and bi from the waist down, but yes, I totally get where you're coming from...or cumming from, as the case may be.

 

[Escierto]

That description doesn't quite fit me, but I can relate to the non-traditional aspects.

I had a girlfriend who was a lesbian in every way except that she loved my cock.

I did not notice this comment before. Do you think she was gay from the waist up and straight from the waist down lol?

 

[Escierto]

I'd probably define myself as straight from the waist up and bi from the waist down, but yes, I totally get where you're coming from...or cumming from, as the case may be.

Human beings are such strange combinations. I always thought of myself as completely straight - I barely even notice men! However someone who likes getting fucked by a hard cock (even if it’s attached to a woman) is probably not completely straight. As Popeye says, I yam what I yam!

 

[Astroman72]

Human beings are such strange combinations. I always thought of myself as completely straight - I barely even notice men! However someone who likes getting fucked by a hard cock (even if it’s attached to a woman) is probably not completely straight. As Popeye says, I yam what I yam!

Yes, we are strange combinations. I call myself bi, because as you said, if you love cock you're not really straight. But I'm not at all attracted to men in the same way that I am to women. With me it happened at puberty, when I developed pretty much an equal desire for pussies and cocks (and nice balls! )

 

[AlexBailey]

I did not notice this comment before. Do you think she was gay from the waist up and straight from the waist down lol?

Lol. It may have been the case when we were together. She was put on-the-spot about her sexuality by several friends when we were together, even to the point where some of her friends wouldn't talk to her while she was 'with that nut-sack'. The sexism against her from countless other lesbians was obvious, but we stuck together for nearly four years. Aside from being assaulted before we met, I'm the only male she's ever been with. She's definitely all lesbian now.

 

[19cock]

I mostly fall into the same boat. I have no interest in kissing another guy and have never had romantic feelings or an interest in dating a man. Men are purely sexual objects in the realm of relationships, etc.

 

[AddyB]

Love to wear panties and dream

I think I'm more straight face, gay from the neck down. I've never been with a man, but I fantasize being with one! Kissing, feeling, sucking mmm! I would love to be loved by a man!

 

[Escierto]

Lol. It may have been the case when we were together. She was put on-the-spot about her sexuality by several friends when we were together, even to the point where some of her friends wouldn't talk to her while she was 'with that nut-sack'. The sexism against her from countless other lesbians was obvious, but we stuck together for nearly four years. Aside from being assaulted before we met, I'm the only male she's ever been with. She's definitely all lesbian now.

Do you consider yourself male or female or none of the above?

 

[james2346]

i am just waiting for someone to have a good time with. its been too long. ;0-)

 

[AlexBailey]

Do you consider yourself male or female or none of the above?

I think I've always felt in between. I had a lot of dysphoria and no settled feelings about who I was when I was younger. I felt like I was one of the girls except for my body. Most of the girls I hung out with were tomboys, some were femme and artsy or punkish, others were butch.

I mostly dressed on the softer side compared to my butch girlfriend. I wore jeans and nice shirts or a few fancy tops. Friends joked and called her Mr. and me Mrs.

I have a straight wife now and have presented as male for the last twenty years as I've run my business and raised my family.

It wasn't until recently that I started describing myself as Queer. To be more specific I would also say gender-queer / non-binary / gender-fluid. Those words are labels but I find them very comforting, I wish I had embraced them much earlier in my life.

I don't prescribe pronouns for myself. I'm fine with being referred to however someone is inspired.

 

[stickygirl]

Pffft how to unwrap this?
As a trans woman I find it kinda offensive to have my sexuality or that of my partner's defined by cis-normative standards. Before I had my surgery I had a penis, but I would have taken real offence if my cis-gender male-bodied partner described himself as gay because he was dating me or allowed others to do so.

I think you need to be less label-intensive, think pan-sexual and forget the names of the body parts that make you feel good and allow you to connect physically with someone else. To define yourself in that way when you're with a transgender person is often going to be a deal breaker in a relationship.

Also, women don't come smooth out of the box. If a woman decides to shave, that's her decision. I shave - I like how it feels and how it makes me look and a lot of women feel the same - but not all women. Details like that matter

 

[Escierto]

Pffft how to unwrap this?
As a trans woman I find it kinda offensive to have my sexuality or that of my partner's defined by cis-normative standards. Before I had my surgery I had a penis, but I would have taken real offence if my cis-gender male-bodied partner described himself as gay because he was dating me or allowed others to do so.

I think you need to be less label-intensive, think pan-sexual and forget the names of the body parts that make you feel good and allow you to connect physically with someone else. To define yourself in that way when you're with a transgender person is often going to be a deal breaker in a relationship.

Also, women don't come smooth out of the box. If a woman decides to shave, that's her decision. I shave - I like how it feels and how it makes me look and a lot of women feel the same - but not all women. Details like that matter

I am the last person to tell my girlfriend what she should do with her body. She has a receding hairline and has been using Minoxidil. How do I feel? It’s not my head - I support whatever she wants to do. Bald is fine with me but if she wants to do Minoxidil I will help remind her.

As for shaving, she has gone long periods of time without shaving. To tell the truth I didn’t really notice it until later after she had shaved her scraggly mustache and beard off. Again, it’s her face. I love her no matter what she does.

It’s hard to escape labels but at this point I don’t let any label tell me who I can be with or what I do with them.

 

[crazy4myhusband]

When I described my situation as a straight man who is a pure bottom for his transgender girlfriend, someone described me as straight from the waist up and gay from the waist down. After I told my girlfriend, she agreed that it was a good description for me. I guess because I am only attracted to women (my head) but love to be fucked (my ass). I don’t think I am unique. Anyone else who thinks this is a good description for them?

You sound exactly like my husband now. It took quite a while for him to let it all happen but he will be the first to admit getting done anally is quite amazing no matter what gender is doing it. And though females can do it well, the real deal unloading real cum is waaaaayyyy better than taking anything else.

He is totally attracted to me the other ladies we play with but will suck with us and as I mentioned totally gets into getting his backside done.

 

[photobuff56]

I think I'm more straight face, gay from the neck down. I've never been with a man, but I fantasize being with one! Kissing, feeling, sucking mmm! I would love to be loved by a man!

All that and more it is fun. I'm bi married to a woman, I have a new FWB he's married to a woman but a closet gay. We met on silverdaddies.com. The kissing feeling and sucking is so much fun and I'm 30 yrs older than him, he just loves older guys.

 

[TallOne]

When I described my situation as a straight man who is a pure bottom for his transgender girlfriend, someone described me as straight from the waist up and gay from the waist down. After I told my girlfriend, she agreed that it was a good description for me. I guess because I am only attracted to women (my head) but love to be fucked (my ass). I don’t think I am unique. Anyone else who thinks this is a good description for them?

Would you leave your girlfriend if she went through with reassignment surgery?

 

[Escierto]

Would you leave your girlfriend if she went through with reassignment surgery?

No. I told her that I am so in love with her it doesn’t matter what she does. She can have surgery. She can decide she wants to bottom. She can be a gay guy. I don’t care - I just want to be with her.

Of course today I helped her cum on cam. I toyed my ass with my dildo while she jerked watching me. She had her orgasm really quickly lol so I guess she liked the show. God I wished the cum all over her tummy had been up my ass!

 

[Escierto]

Totally with you! Love my women and smooth bodies...but my fantasy is a smooth Cd with a hard dick fucking me while I'm dressed up slutty and sexy!

My girlfriend has a smooth female body. Except for one thing.

https://i.imgur.com/T9GWWCq.jpg

 

[photobuff56]

I mostly fall into the same boat. I have no interest in kissing another guy and have never had romantic feelings or an interest in dating a man. Men are purely sexual objects in the realm of relationships, etc.

I didn't have any interest in kissing another guy either but it happened and I enjoy it. If they don't want to that's fine with me but it adds to the intensity of the moment.