ToPleaseHim
RedVelvet IYKYK
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As a reminder to both new and longtime members of the BDSM forum, please stay alert when sharing your information and more with others here.
Many of you have noticed (and thankfully report) the uptick in new accounts posing as FemDommes using highly stylized, poetic (AI written) content loaded with emotional hooks. Be very careful with strangers, especially brand new members who jump so quickly into fantasy play and quickly escalate the relationship dynamic.
We have been banning scam accounts for years, but they are getting savvier now with the AI discussion prompts. They are using known tactics used by romance scammers looking to exploit submissive-leaning members emotionally and financially.
Red flags to watch for:
We want this to be a place for real connection, learning and discussing BDSM, not actual predators. (Nothing wrong with predator/prey play and dynamics. But let’s keep the scam predators out of this space).
If something feels off, please trust your instincts and report it. Mods are here to help. Please be very cautious about sharing information like your name and where you are from and photos of your face or other identifying traits. Please protect your wallet.
I appreciate your help in keeping this forum a safe place.
Many of you have noticed (and thankfully report) the uptick in new accounts posing as FemDommes using highly stylized, poetic (AI written) content loaded with emotional hooks. Be very careful with strangers, especially brand new members who jump so quickly into fantasy play and quickly escalate the relationship dynamic.
We have been banning scam accounts for years, but they are getting savvier now with the AI discussion prompts. They are using known tactics used by romance scammers looking to exploit submissive-leaning members emotionally and financially.
Red flags to watch for:
- Brand new accounts posting seductive or overly idealized monologues
- Vague or overly polished language with no personal experience or context
- Questions designed to provoke emotional vulnerability without real dialogue
- Fast moves toward private messaging or personal dynamics (often taking the conversation elsewhere - Telegram, Zangi, Signal, WhatsApp)
We want this to be a place for real connection, learning and discussing BDSM, not actual predators. (Nothing wrong with predator/prey play and dynamics. But let’s keep the scam predators out of this space).
If something feels off, please trust your instincts and report it. Mods are here to help. Please be very cautious about sharing information like your name and where you are from and photos of your face or other identifying traits. Please protect your wallet.
I appreciate your help in keeping this forum a safe place.
