Statistically, what "flavors" of sex do you have?

[BlondGirl]

Do you always have kinky/spicy sex? Do you ever have straight vanilla sex? Does every sexual encounter contain some elements of SM? Does your sex-play differ in this regard based on what partner you are with? Any other aspects?

 

[cellis]

There is always some element of kink... never without it...

It is not always a scene... it does not always go the limits... but it is never nilla...

And I am so glad...

 

[HotXBunz]

98% of the time some kind of kink unless it is a hot, fast and cheap encounter. Sometimes a quicky turns into much more.

 

[Quint]

We grew into BDSM together, so there was quite a bit of nilla at the beginning of our relationship. I think of him as my husband (to be) first, my master second or third, and I certainly don't mind the times we make love. I understand that there are many of you who have mates who are also your Dom/mes or subs, and that the two descriptions are permanently mingled in your mind; he's your husband AND your master, not one preceding the other, and see even the tender lovemaking sessions as D/s. Perhaps due to our nilla foundation or the fact that he isn't naturally dominant, I haven't been able to see him as such. As a result, there are many times when our sex is fast, hard, and demanding, but only a Mormon would call it kinky.

 

[WriterDom]

If she has to ask for permission to cum, does that make it kinky?

 

[cymbidia]

what cellis said...

Yes, WD, it does.


Always kinky, for me.
Always.

I've left a long term nilla marriage and i'm all done with nilla sex. It just doesn't do what i need it to do. Even after -if/when- i find another permanent partner, i can't imagine our lovemaking will ever *not* include at least some bits of D/s sexuality as highlighted components of what lies simmering between us.

 

[lilfrk]

It's almost always kinky. It's rare that it's a straight vanilla anything anymore.

 

[MissTaken]

Usually kinky and always involves a little kink.

There are times when a nilla type loving with a bit of kink fits the bill.

Of course, all the boys around here are nilla boys so I have to make do with slim pickings!



Eeks....I sound like a redneck for sure!

 

[liqournfront]

I wish I could say always kinky. If you call Oral kinky but I think of Oral as vanilla. Unless its bound and forced analingus which I absolutely adore but rarely if ever get.
So my flavors are limited but one can dream.

 

[MissTaken]

Welcome to the boards, liquor!

Yes, I am afraid many of us do more dreaming than doing....at times!



Or at least, I seem to , lately!

 

[RisiaSkye]

I put myself down for 50/50. Kinky is, of course, all in the mind of the beholder. What counts as kinky?

For me, I only count it as kinky if it involves breaking out the hardware. Hey, it's my definition, and I'm sticking with it.

 

[AnonymousSlave]

If she has to ask for permission to cum, does that make it kinky?

A slave never cums before her Master.
Never!
Unless, of course, she is told to.

 

[petrel]

I put myself down for 50/50. Kinky is, of course, all in the mind of the beholder. What counts as kinky?

For me, I only count it as kinky if it involves breaking out the hardware. Hey, it's my definition, and I'm sticking with it.

got to agree with you here Risia - kink is in the mind so therefore kinky sex for me could be anything!!
If I am asking for it though I usually take 'straight' to mean without hardware (or rubberware) and kink to mean - get the toybag out.

 

[CarolineOh]

I am hovering in a kind of split existence. I have wonderful sex with my boyfriend which I think of as vanilla, although we do get a bit rough and he is sort of naturally commanding. I imagine an outsider might see it as a bit kinky.
Meanwhile, I've been exploring BDSM with the help of some friends in the local scene. My boyfriend has been supportive of me in this, but has been resistant to participating. I have some fear that there will eventually lead to a conflict, but so far so good.

 

[KestralWolfe]

For me, I only count it as kinky if it involves breaking out the hardware. Hey, it's my definition, and I'm sticking with it.

I put myself down for 50/50 as well. Kink is great, it's a beautiful way to express depths of love that some canot seem to be able to express.....however, occasionally some good plain hot, heavy, nilla is great As Risia said, kinky's in the eye of the beholder. Is that the same as kinky is as kiny does? *grin*

KW

 

[lovetoread]

Kinky?

Who on here would do such things?

I am usually kinky in some way now.

When I was married it was only nilla,I cannot do that anymore.



(And Miss T,what is wrong with being a redneck? heh,rednecks are fine peoples,I should know.)

 

[Richard49]

Do you always have kinky/spicy sex? Do you ever have straight vanilla sex? Does every sexual encounter contain some elements of SM? Does your sex-play differ in this regard based on what partner you are with? Any other aspects?

I would say 99% of the time.
Though I have only had one encounter in almost 8 months.
That was Nila and forgetable.

Thna again to answer this I would need a defintion of sex/encounter to be sure

I went and read your personal ad.....interesting.

 

[Merelan]

Does leaving my socks on count as kinky? Please... pretty please.

Okay, I think I need to see some examples of each type, pictures, descriptions, etc. That way we know exactly what you mean.

Sigh... okay. Vanilla with very, very little kink, but working on it. So call it French Vanilla with those flecks of beans.

Great, now I want ice cream.

 

[BlondGirl]

Re: Re: Statistically, what "flavors" of sex do you have?

I went and read your personal ad.....interesting.

Is this a complement? Or is this how you respond when you can't find something nice to say?

Do I say "Thanks" ? Or do I say, "What did you expect?"

 

[Richard49]

Re: Re: Re: Statistically, what "flavors" of sex do you have?

Is this a complement? Or is this how you respond when you can't find something nice to say?

Do I say "Thanks" ? Or do I say, "What did you expect?"

It is a compliment.........and U could say "thanks" and "What did U expect?"

Not sure what I expected....but not what I found.......
It sound like an exciting and interesting female sub.......

Are my feet still in mouth all the way to my ass?

Interesting is postive statement from me

Most of the world is a bore

 

[BlondGirl]

Thank you very much for the compliment.

What part did you like best? The description of my hobbies? Or my details of favorite sex activities?

Or was it the dripping sarcasm in response to the other bullshit ads that tend to be overpopulated there?

 

[Richard49]

Thank you very much for the compliment.

What part did you like best? The description of my hobbies? Or my details of favorite sex activities?

Or was it the dripping sarcasm in response to the other bullshit ads that tend to be overpopulated there?

1) if you are all your ad says you are... than you are one hell of a woman and sub......

2) If your add is a piece of fiction or a combination of fiction and sarcasm with maybe a little truth ... you are intriguing and mentaly stimulating.

 

[BlondGirl]

Well, let me see, what is inaccurate in the ad... My:
age
measurements
panty preference
sexual turn ons
love of sports
truck
eroticism of working on the vehicle
description of fixing my man's car
dedication to cooking
education
profession
Some of the hobbies.


The truth:
I am blond
I am female
I do cook bread
I do own a dog
I do go to church
I do have a digicam
I like to play chess and Scrabble
and, last, but not least:
I do have an 8 track player

 

[Richard49]

Well, let me see, what is inaccurate in the ad... My:
age
measurements
panty preference
sexual turn ons
love of sports
truck
eroticism of working on the vehicle
description of fixing my man's car
dedication to cooking
education
profession
Some of the hobbies.


The truth:
I am blond
I am female
I do cook bread
I do own a dog
I do go to church
I do have a digicam
I like to play chess and Scrabble
and, last, but not least:
I do have an 8 track player

The truthful things sound good

and what are the answers to the things that were not true

 

[SpectreT]

Flavor? Mint Chocolate Chip

Oops... Sex, not ice cream.

Hrm. More kink than [sarcasm]"normal"[/sarcasm]. When I'm getting any, that is. Which hasn't been in quite a while....

(I assume D.I.Y. doesn't count? )