Stand-alone Fondling

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I always wondered if it is possible to hit an orgasm - or even better a mutual one - just by fondling each other? Rules are simple: No penetration, No fellatio, No cunnilingus and No handjobs.

So let's call it "Stand-alone Fondling".

Now the question is: How many guys can do it? Or even more important, how many guys would like to do it? For me I know I can do it and very much enjoy it.

And for the ladies: Do you like being fondled or is it just a warm-up session for you? Please keep in mind that in this situation fondling does not precede anything. It IS the thing. We are talking Stand-alone Fondling here.

Would you like it?
 
I as a teenage I could, I would cum just from kissing. I would love to give it try to see if I still could.
 
WOW! That's strong! That's not even fondling.
Do you mean simple kissing or deep smooching with tongue-play and all?
 
I get a pretty instant hardon from kissing. Not a peck, but even a not-very-sexy, no-tongue deep embrace romantic kiss will have me hard in seconds flat. As for actually orgasming? Hm. I don't know about it, because I do very much like fore-foreplay but I just can't be sure I'd come. Though, I bet if I did... It'd take awhile but would be one hell of an orgasm, from all the sexual tension. When I edge myself on for even just a few times, when I do finally blow it comes out in streams - so again, I imagine it'd be intense.
 
I have cum from just rubbing my wifes back.
If she enjoys it she moans so dam sexy!
 
I (male) certainly couldn't come like that, but then I can't come from handjobs or blowjobs either; has to be penetration for me (or masturbation). But as for women, I find the premise maybe a little bit unclear, because you say "fondling" as if this is a very light thing, but don't specifically rule out fingering a woman's pussy/clit.

If those are allowed, then I think you'll find it a fairly rare woman who can't come that way (in fact I'd say that is one of the easiest ways to make her come, possibly even the easiest). If you mean something else, you'll have to elaborate.
 
I get a pretty instant hardon from kissing. Not a peck, but even a not-very-sexy, no-tongue deep embrace romantic kiss will have me hard in seconds flat.

I do that to...

Really don't know about organism- if it was gonna happen, it would take for-fucking-ever...
 
When me and my now fiance were first dating, years ago, he left abruptly during a fully clothed make out session, making up some lame excuse. I always thought I did something wrong that day and it wasn't until recently that he told me it was because he came in his jeans and was mortified......I wish soooo badly that he would have told me. I would have been thrilled not disappointed. :D
 
When me and my now fiance were first dating, years ago, he left abruptly during a fully clothed make out session, making up some lame excuse. I always thought I did something wrong that day and it wasn't until recently that he told me it was because he came in his jeans and was mortified......I wish soooo badly that he would have told me. I would have been thrilled not disappointed. :D

At a night club, a girl so exquisitely rubbed her ass into my crotch that I came in my trousers. Unfortunately they were linen and I was left with an enormous stain. It was very embarrassing as this happened at 10pm and I had the rest of the evening to get through.
 
i often cum while going down on my OL, she gets so wet and when she gets off sometimes that's enough for me too.
 
I (male) certainly couldn't come like that, but then I can't come from handjobs or blowjobs either; has to be penetration for me (or masturbation). But as for women, I find the premise maybe a little bit unclear, because you say "fondling" as if this is a very light thing, but don't specifically rule out fingering a woman's pussy/clit.

If those are allowed, then I think you'll find it a fairly rare woman who can't come that way (in fact I'd say that is one of the easiest ways to make her come, possibly even the easiest). If you mean something else, you'll have to elaborate.

Very interesting. I would not like to include fingering into fondling. But that turns the whole act of fondling a bit one sided.

This also turns the whole act of fondling into a rather vague concept. What does it include and what not? What do we mean by it?

Seems like the time has come for some collaborative thinking. ;)
 
Back when I was a young'un, and my then fiancee and I went to the drive-in....sitting the front seat of the car, but too shy or scared to actually do anything to or for each other with our hands, I occasionally would hump her fully-clothed thigh until I ejaculated my semen in my pants....and then we both pretended that we didn't know it had happened....and just watched the movie....
 
not exactly the same but...

I had almost forgotten this...it didn't result in an orgasm but it was interesting just the same...

wife and I with some friends went to a county fair...it was hot, crowded and not my thing...until...smile..

there was a tent show where a pretty girl stands on stage and turns into a gorilla...it had something to do with a strobe light...very convincing...and crowded..a very sexy girl and her girl friends stood in front of us...the prettiest one directly in front of me...the crowd backed up several times because of the theatrics...instead I stood still with my hands open in front of me...

I got what I was hoping for..that girl planted her very sweet ass into my hands and stayed there...I'm sure she didn't know who was feeling her up...no one in my crowd noticed...when the show was over we went separate ways with only a glance back

just an anonymous grope but it made me happy
 
My ex used to love me eating her pussy and I loved to oblige. Whenever I did it I would be rock hard the whole time, but I didn't touch, and I often felt like I might be getting close.

Thing is she liked me to penetrate her straight after she came and I didn't want to disappoint so I tried to think of other things so I wouldn't cum. I would alway explode after a few strokes inside her.

I would love to explore this with someone who wouldn't mind it happening and see if it is possible.
 
I have cum from licking my wife before.

Last night she asked me to pass her the vibrator so she could get off & get to sleep , she had a early start the next morning.
I said I could lick her. She replied..yeah but you'll want something after.
I promised I wouldn't.
Anyway her vibrator batteries were flat & I was put to work with my toungue.
I absolutely struggled not to blow my load when I was licking her.
I love doing it that much!

I know a girl who use to love giving head to guys without wanting anything else in return. I was talking to one of the guys & he reckons giving head made her cum.
Now I can really understand that
 
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