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JustaSCOUNDREL said:
She is getting pretty strong electrical shocks where ever the device touches her.
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I just can't imagine that being erotic for the woman. There has to be an element of pleasure within the pain for it to be arousing at all. Just can't see any plaster for the woman on this one. Each to her own but not for this gal.
 
DonnaEcup said:
Ok, please help me understand this fetish. I consider myself extremely open to new ways to mutually enjoy all the variations of sexual stimulation.
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The fetish of restraining a woman in the position I want her?

For me it's about power and control, which are two of my main kinks. There are lots of ways to explore those concepts, but let's take the picture in question for now:

https://67.media.tumblr.com/2380ce2968925ebd8dc1a535abd427b7/tumblr_mlzdbdNUa81qm6pfzo1_540.jpg

I like that she is exposed, open to my eyes and my touch. She can turn her head but she'd have a hard time seeing what I'm doing behind her. The immobility and the difficulty seeing will give her a sense of vulnerability and helplessness that is the flip side of my power and control. I like seeing that realization seep into her consciousness.

With the restraints in place keeping her in what looks to be a pretty comfortable position, I know that I can do what I want for a while and she's left with no option but to take it. This appeals to the physical sadist in me. I see her ass and thighs in perfect spanking mode and my mind starts cycling through my list of hitty things I could use to devastating effect. Her immobility presents a question I like to ponder. Normally when someone can move you will see them react to a physical hit. They might hop around, try to get out of the way, do some physical activity that will absorb and process the pain. But when they can't move, now I find myself wondering where that pain will go. Will she shout it out? Will she channel it into arousal? If you haven't seen a bound pain-slut start by screaming in pain at first impact and then morph into aroused moans once the hits get going, well it's a sight to behold. It's also great for teasing. You can get out a vibrator (hitachi wands are GREAT for this) or just use your fingers. But the restraints are perfect for a tease. Have you ever had that itch on your skin somewhere that you juuuuuuuuust couldn't scratch? Well imagine having an extremely aroused pussy and no matter how much you try to squirm, no matter how much you want it, the finger on your clit just never quite gives you enough friction or pressure. For some, that is divine torture. Conversely, you can put that vibrator in a microphone stand and push it up against her so no matter what happens she can't get away from it. Turn that bad boy on and watch her get washed away in the waves. Results vary from woman to woman, of course, but those are both pretty popular options.

Personally I also get a huge kick out of the mental aspect of it. She knows I'm watching her, inspecting her, looking at her from any angle. It's a great way to do some mental/emotional play, depending on what you're both into. You can tell her what you're looking at, describe it for her, tell her what you think of when you inspect her. It's fun to find her buttons, what words and thoughts trigger her instinctual responses, and then tell her you see her body reacting. That's a game that's not everyone's cup of tea, but for those who enjoy it we love it. There are so many great mindfucks to be had no one could ever list them all.

And then no matter what else goes along with it, you have the actual physical fucking. She's right where you want her and her holes are there for the taking. That speaks to something primal in me, and I would wager to a lot of people. She gets exactly what you give her exactly how you want to give it to her. That's just hot.

Those are just my initial thoughts off the cuff. A bit scattered, sorry, but I think that sums up a lot of what I find appealing about it all. But it will be very different. I'm sure everyone else will have wide ranging answers because people just interpret these things differently. But for me it always comes back to finding ways to explore power over someone.

Now someone might say yes but why tie her up when you can order her to stay perfectly still no matter what you do. And I agree with those people, that is also an extremely hot situation, but it's a slightly different mindset. Both scenes are worth doing, in my opinion.
 
Restrained

Miles Long said:
The fetish of restraining a woman in the position I want her?

For me it's about power and control, which are two of my main kinks. There are lots of ways to explore those concepts, but let's take the picture in question for now:

https://67.media.tumblr.com/2380ce2968925ebd8dc1a535abd427b7/tumblr_mlzdbdNUa81qm6pfzo1_540.jpg

I like that she is exposed, open to my eyes and my touch. She can turn her head but she'd have a hard time seeing what I'm doing behind her. The immobility and the difficulty seeing will give her a sense of vulnerability and helplessness that is the flip side of my power and control. I like seeing that realization seep into her consciousness.

With the restraints in place keeping her in what looks to be a pretty comfortable position, I know that I can do what I want for a while and she's left with no option but to take it. This appeals to the physical sadist in me. I see her ass and thighs in perfect spanking mode and my mind starts cycling through my list of hitty things I could use to devastating effect. Her immobility presents a question I like to ponder. Normally when someone can move you will see them react to a physical hit. They might hop around, try to get out of the way, do some physical activity that will absorb and process the pain. But when they can't move, now I find myself wondering where that pain will go. Will she shout it out? Will she channel it into arousal? If you haven't seen a bound pain-slut start by screaming in pain at first impact and then morph into aroused moans once the hits get going, well it's a sight to behold. It's also great for teasing. You can get out a vibrator (hitachi wands are GREAT for this) or just use your fingers. But the restraints are perfect for a tease. Have you ever had that itch on your skin somewhere that you juuuuuuuuust couldn't scratch? Well imagine having an extremely aroused pussy and no matter how much you try to squirm, no matter how much you want it, the finger on your clit just never quite gives you enough friction or pressure. For some, that is divine torture. Conversely, you can put that vibrator in a microphone stand and push it up against her so no matter what happens she can't get away from it. Turn that bad boy on and watch her get washed away in the waves. Results vary from woman to woman, of course, but those are both pretty popular options.

Personally I also get a huge kick out of the mental aspect of it. She knows I'm watching her, inspecting her, looking at her from any angle. It's a great way to do some mental/emotional play, depending on what you're both into. You can tell her what you're looking at, describe it for her, tell her what you think of when you inspect her. It's fun to find her buttons, what words and thoughts trigger her instinctual responses, and then tell her you see her body reacting. That's a game that's not everyone's cup of tea, but for those who enjoy it we love it. There are so many great mindfucks to be had no one could ever list them all.

And then no matter what else goes along with it, you have the actual physical fucking. She's right where you want her and her holes are there for the taking. That speaks to something primal in me, and I would wager to a lot of people. She gets exactly what you give her exactly how you want to give it to her. That's just hot.

Those are just my initial thoughts off the cuff. A bit scattered, sorry, but I think that sums up a lot of what I find appealing about it all. But it will be very different. I'm sure everyone else will have wide ranging answers because people just interpret these things differently. But for me it always comes back to finding ways to explore power over someone.

Now someone might say yes but why tie her up when you can order her to stay perfectly still no matter what you do. And I agree with those people, that is also an extremely hot situation, but it's a slightly different mindset. Both scenes are worth doing, in my opinion.
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Hello, sorry I think there was some confusion about my last comment but reading this post is worth the confusion. Very well explained, I totally get the feeling you must sense from dominating a female and having her exposed in this position. For myself it is the feeling of trust in a partner that is the most satisfying. I know that being so completely exposed is an enormous turn on for my man and so it becomes the same for me. There is a trust that although there may be some physical discomfort from whatever treatment I am receiving there will not be any actual permanent harm. There is a definite line between being dominated and being abused. What I was actually referring to was being electrically shocked on my bare pussy.....just don't get that one. Thank you for taking the time though to thoughtfully explain your position. ☯
 
DonnaEcup said:
Hello, sorry I think there was some confusion about my last comment but reading this post is worth the confusion. Very well explained, I totally get the feeling you must sense from dominating a female and having her exposed in this position. For myself it is the feeling of trust in a partner that is the most satisfying. I know that being so completely exposed is an enormous turn on for my man and so it becomes the same for me. There is a trust that although there may be some physical discomfort from whatever treatment I am receiving there will not be any actual permanent harm. There is a definite line between being dominated and being abused. What I was actually referring to was being electrically shocked on my bare pussy.....just don't get that one. Thank you for taking the time though to thoughtfully explain your position. ☯
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Ha! I love answering questions that were never asked. :D

As to your current (get it?!) question, I've never shocked a woman's bare pussy before. But it does sound intriguing, for all those power/trust/intimacy shenanigans mentioned above. I've never done any electro play but I've seen some TENS units in action that looked pretty cool. I would imagine a bare pussy is a really sensitive area to get zapped, so I look forward to hearing comments from people who have played like that!
 
Miles Long said:
Ha! I love answering questions that were never asked. :D

As to your current (get it?!) question, I've never shocked a woman's bare pussy before. But it does sound intriguing, for all those power/trust/intimacy shenanigans mentioned above. I've never done any electro play but I've seen some TENS units in action that looked pretty cool. I would imagine a bare pussy is a really sensitive area to get zapped, so I look forward to hearing comments from people who have played like that!
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I don't have any experience (neither giving nor receiving) with electricity, although it is on my bucket list! From what others have described, the feel of electric current can range from warm and tingly, to painfully jarring. And there are probably several levels in between these extremes, depending on voltage, duration, and which part of the body is affected. I think I'd envision starting with something relatively mild, like a violet wand (although it can burn if left too long on the same area of skin).

I'd like to experience some mild to moderate current flowing through the length of my erect cock. Not sure if I'm brave enough (or crazy enough!) to have an electric catheter tube inserted, though it's apparently used medically to stimulate penile response.

And I agree it would be informative to have a few experienced female masochists describe their experiences with electricity on/within a pussy. Anyone like to relate? ;) :devil:
 
ouchfeelsgood said:
And I agree it would be informative to have a few experienced female masochists describe their experiences with electricity on/within a pussy. Anyone like to relate? ;) :devil:
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Mrs MF has tried electro stimulation with a probe inside her pussy. I'll see if I can persuade her to write a few words about her experience. All that I could tell as I tweaked the controls was that she seemed to enjoy it. :)

Important: Electro stimulation is NOT the same as a violet wand! E-stim is low voltage (like a TENS machine) whereas a violet wand is a very high voltage with a very tiny transfer of charge (i.e. small amounts of power, but prickly, like a zap of static electricity).
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Mindfondler said:
Important: Electro stimulation is NOT the same as a violet wand! E-stim is low voltage (like a TENS machine) whereas a violet wand is a very high voltage with a very tiny transfer of charge (i.e. small amounts of power, but prickly, like a zap of static electricity).
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Thanks for educating me! This is definitely an area of play where knowledge and caution is paramount.
 
thefishfryer said:
https://67.media.tumblr.com/c27ade082b330aadc71a44fcfaaf7d36/tumblr_ocfa83wwV41usbtkko1_500.jpg

https://66.media.tumblr.com/c22296e11c110a6b04ba01b210e4c3b6/tumblr_oap8qhOoeK1u2y9pvo1_540.jpg

https://67.media.tumblr.com/0238c3d626fd154cd83842155a0013fa/tumblr_mg06izRp7v1rs1holo1_540.jpg

https://65.media.tumblr.com/aa54612d6d5bb5ed5c2c7e4115038081/tumblr_ocj123LbcD1sz0n1jo1_540.jpg

https://65.media.tumblr.com/0bac0a2b3c7713224039951d6713f7b0/tumblr_ocj2ymwrAN1tehipto1_540.jpg

https://66.media.tumblr.com/34a4e3b98037ef3f2f53debcbaa600e1/tumblr_oci38sqi1w1s4jw4io1_540.jpg

and finally, not exactly a spreadeagle, but I'm not expecting any complaints

https://67.media.tumblr.com/2380ce2968925ebd8dc1a535abd427b7/tumblr_mlzdbdNUa81qm6pfzo1_540.jpg
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Very impressive, thanks!
 
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