I have been going out with my girl for almost two and a half years. Over this time we have become really comfortable with each other and our sex lives. My girl is not very adventurous when it comes to sex, so does anyone have any tips that could possibly get things going again, but not too wild cuz she won't go for it. I used to be able to make her cum like 3 or 4 times (1 in foreplay and the others during sex), but I am down to 1 (foreplay) with the occasional 2 (during sex), and I just want to return to the way it was so she can be pleased as much as possible.
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Belilica
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what marksgirl said!
you could also try reading erotica topgether, or try talking to her, not necessarily dirty, but sensually, during sex. try talking to her frineds to see if she has talked to them about what gets her hot. Try a massage with edible oil, or self heating oil...
Bel
you could also try reading erotica topgether, or try talking to her, not necessarily dirty, but sensually, during sex. try talking to her frineds to see if she has talked to them about what gets her hot. Try a massage with edible oil, or self heating oil...
Bel
marksgirl
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Like Belilica said talk to her during sex, I love that it makes me so hot to know how I'm making him feel, it gets me OFF! My hubby can make me cum ? many times before we have intercourse by just sucking and fingering and rubbing me everywhere, and all the while telling me how hot I'm making him, it works both ways because it makes me HOT! Here lately I've been wanting to try new stuff with my guy and I just talk to him about it and let him know that I really want to do it if he is up for it and let me tell ya he's been up to some good stuff lately!
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Talking during sex
I'm trying to get my wife in to this.... Talking during sex that is. She says things like "yes, yes," and "oh god yes" But could I ACTUALY say to improve the situation without sounding dirty?? I intend to bring her up to the dirty talking but want to start off slow and build her up to it. I say things like "Oh god you feel so good" and she sqeezes my cock with her pussy, then I say "oh god yes thats it squeez it baby"..... but thats about it..... need some exact ideas of what exactly to say?
I'm trying to get my wife in to this.... Talking during sex that is. She says things like "yes, yes," and "oh god yes" But could I ACTUALY say to improve the situation without sounding dirty?? I intend to bring her up to the dirty talking but want to start off slow and build her up to it. I say things like "Oh god you feel so good" and she sqeezes my cock with her pussy, then I say "oh god yes thats it squeez it baby"..... but thats about it..... need some exact ideas of what exactly to say?
