Sph/ humiliating dirty talk

[whenagain]

So I started a thread over in the bdsm cafe and it was suggested I take it over here.

I’m coming to terms with a variety of fetishes and the one that seems to get the most eyebrow raises/and or eye rolls is small penis humiliation. I don’t have a medical condition by any stretch, but in the past women have made me feel small and I’ve eroticized that experience.

Does any one else have a thing for this?

 

[stiv837]

I love being humiliated about my small penis . Both of my wives and several girlfriends have laughed at it over the years. Also a couple of my male friends who have seen it.

 

[slutindianwife]

Ummmmm

 

[whenagain]

I love being humiliated about my small penis . Both of my wives and several girlfriends have laughed at it over the years. Also a couple of my male friends who have seen it.

Have you always loved it or is it something that came to you over time?

 

[stiv837]

Have you always loved it or is it something that came to you over time?

When i was younger i hated it . Over time i got used to it especially from my first wife who would tell her friends how small i am and they would discuss it in front of me. Now that i am much older i find the humiliation turns me on , my current wife telling me about how much bigger and better her other lovers are than me will make me cum instantly.

 

[IceyBlue]

Interesting, I've never even thought about this from the male perspective. Any time I've seen or thought of it it was always from the female's perspective, you know, the usual, "you're going to make me the happiest girl in the world with THAT??!!" kind of stuff.

Lately now though we have a live-in girlfriend and at first I thought her comments about size were just the usual complimentary remarks to make every feel good about our sex. My first realization was a couple months back when the weather turned warm and we were having some playtime outside by the hot-tub I was taking her standing doggy style (which she just LOVES) while she was straddling my wife's face and she was totally shocked (and at first considerably embarrassed) when she squirted having an enormous orgasm, and not just a little bit either, a gusher!!

We reassured her that it's not only normal, but actually a good thing and encouraged.

A short time afterwards her (soon to be) EX called and as per usual they got into an argument, I was more than a little shocked when she said something like "Because his cock is about 3 times the size of yours and he makes me fucking SQUIRT I cum so hard you dumb shit!!!"

I was shocked. While I know I'm certainly not hung like a gerbil, nobody called me "Meat" in school gym class either.

I must say though, it certainly did turn me on.

Afterwards the 3 of us were talking about it and I was surprised when both my wife and our girlfriend agreed that I was certainly set up to please a woman, but not wound them. LOL

 

[whenagain]

When i was younger i hated it . Over time i got used to it especially from my first wife who would tell her friends how small i am and they would discuss it in front of me. Now that i am much older i find the humiliation turns me on , my current wife telling me about how much bigger and better her other lovers are than me will make me cum instantly.

Man your first wife sounds meeeeeaaaaan.

 

[stiv837]

Man your first wife sounds meeeeeaaaaan.

She was a very nice person , except to me . After three months of marraige she told me she made a mistake marrying me and didn't love me. We managed to make it last for five years.

 

[whenagain]

Interesting, I've never even thought about this from the male perspective. Any time I've seen or thought of it it was always from the female's perspective, you know, the usual, "you're going to make me the happiest girl in the world with THAT??!!" kind of stuff.

Lately now though we have a live-in girlfriend and at first I thought her comments about size were just the usual complimentary remarks to make every feel good about our sex. My first realization was a couple months back when the weather turned warm and we were having some playtime outside by the hot-tub I was taking her standing doggy style (which she just LOVES) while she was straddling my wife's face and she was totally shocked (and at first considerably embarrassed) when she squirted having an enormous orgasm, and not just a little bit either, a gusher!!

We reassured her that it's not only normal, but actually a good thing and encouraged.

A short time afterwards her (soon to be) EX called and as per usual they got into an argument, I was more than a little shocked when she said something like "Because his cock is about 3 times the size of yours and he makes me fucking SQUIRT I cum so hard you dumb shit!!!"

I was shocked. While I know I'm certainly not hung like a gerbil, nobody called me "Meat" in school gym class either.

I must say though, it certainly did turn me on.

Afterwards the 3 of us were talking about it and I was surprised when both my wife and our girlfriend agreed that I was certainly set up to please a woman, but not wound them. LOL

That sounds ideal.

 

[Ramone45]

How about "Small-er" Penis Humiliation? My wife is a size queen. She likes men with bigger cocks, preferably un cut. She lets me watch her with her big boys and I get to see her really get off. She's VERY happy. So, as I'm watching her enjoy herself, she'll look at me at he height of her pleasure with a big smile on her face and a laugh and say "Awww, sorry honey." (usually just before she cums). In the after glow, she'll actually be very attentive to me, which adds to the humiliation. "Sorry baby, but he was so good. Are you OK? I got a little carried away there. I still love you baby." (usually with that laugh). She knows it's humiliating to me because I know I can't satisfy her like her lover can. She also knows that it's part of my kink, so she plays it up. Win-Win.

 

[whenagain]

How about "Small-er" Penis Humiliation? My wife is a size queen. She likes men with bigger cocks, preferably un cut. She lets me watch her with her big boys and I get to see her really get off. She's VERY happy. So, as I'm watching her enjoy herself, she'll look at me at he height of her pleasure with a big smile on her face and a laugh and say "Awww, sorry honey." (usually just before she cums). In the after glow, she'll actually be very attentive to me, which adds to the humiliation. "Sorry baby, but he was so good. Are you OK? I got a little carried away there. I still love you baby." (usually with that laugh). She knows it's humiliating to me because I know I can't satisfy her like her lover can. She also knows that it's part of my kink, so she plays it up. Win-Win.

I think small-er might be more accurate; a lot of the turn on is about the comparison.

 

[Ramone45]

I think small-er might be more accurate; a lot of the turn on is about the comparison.

Exactly. She says things, in a teasing way about "Shit, I didn't think it would fit." "He REALLY hit that spot!" "Damn, I'm gonna walk funny for a couple of days." And then she'll laugh at me.

 

[whenagain]

Exactly. She says things, in a teasing way about "Shit, I didn't think it would fit." "He REALLY hit that spot!" "Damn, I'm gonna walk funny for a couple of days." And then she'll laugh at me.

Wow. That’s hot.

 

[yukonnights]

For what it's worth: I enjoy "humiliation" in general as it works well with D/s play. Small Penis humiliation is just one chord in that song. Since I'm a bit over average, it would be I who is making fun of the smaller one. The reason I like this is because I can understand the erotic charge the "sub" gets from it and that is the main purpose of it. I don't fully understand why various "emasculating acts" turn some guys on, but the fact is they do. However, for me, such play should always be just that...play...make-believe...not intended to bring harm or carried into 'real-life', etc.

 

[Jada59]

I'm a woman and I actually find it sad that women would do such a thing to begin with. My ex used to complain that his penis was too small. So much so that for a while it got to be annoying. To me, he looked about average size. And at that point in time I had no complaints about the sex. But it was kind of a turn off that he kept whining about his small size. So one night I whipped out a tape measure and offered to measure him. He freaked! But he never brought it up again.

Now I might be the Queen of snark and I may unwittingly hurt someone with a comment from time to time in an attempt at humor. But humiliation just is not my thing. I like making people feel good!

 

[whenagain]

I'm a woman and I actually find it sad that women would do such a thing to begin with. My ex used to complain that his penis was too small. So much so that for a while it got to be annoying. To me, he looked about average size. And at that point in time I had no complaints about the sex. But it was kind of a turn off that he kept whining about his small size. So one night I whipped out a tape measure and offered to measure him. He freaked! But he never brought it up again.

Now I might be the Queen of snark and I may unwittingly hurt someone with a comment from time to time in an attempt at humor. But humiliation just is not my thing. I like making people feel good!

As well you should.
It’s a really specialized fetish and many don’t care for it.

 

[Ramone45]

As well you should.
It’s a really specialized fetish and many don’t care for it.

That's very nice. But, it is a special kink that is admittedly hard to understand.

 

[willingtobeused]

How about "Small-er" Penis Humiliation? My wife is a size queen. She likes men with bigger cocks, preferably un cut. She lets me watch her with her big boys and I get to see her really get off. She's VERY happy. So, as I'm watching her enjoy herself, she'll look at me at he height of her pleasure with a big smile on her face and a laugh and say "Awww, sorry honey." (usually just before she cums). In the after glow, she'll actually be very attentive to me, which adds to the humiliation. "Sorry baby, but he was so good. Are you OK? I got a little carried away there. I still love you baby." (usually with that laugh). She knows it's humiliating to me because I know I can't satisfy her like her lover can. She also knows that it's part of my kink, so she plays it up. Win-Win.

You are a lucky man

 

[liqueur]

I might be the Queen of snark and I may unwittingly hurt someone with a comment from time to time in an attempt at humor. But humiliation just is not my thing. I like making people feel good!

Not your thing, of course, and no need that it should be. But in your attempt to understand people who do like this, what you might not be catching onto is that for some of us, humiliation does feel good.

 

[liqueur]

@ the OP:

I have an average cock. By some estimates, even, a little on the large size. People's ideas about cock size are so varied, and so subjective, that I don't give it much thought. Bottom line is, I have no insecurities about my cock size.

Now, woman who will humiliate a man (who likes humiliation) because he has a small cock is right on target. She knows where he lives, and how to get to him. All well and good. But a woman who can take a man who is average or even a big large, and make him feel like he has a small cock— make him even, in the heat of the moment, believe it— now that is a woman I can adore.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I have lived with that a very long time. When I was young I was made the designated fag because of small short little thing then when married I was made the cock sucker and creampie cleaner at our swinger parties. The wives would not let my thing touch them but I could clean them. I did not mind as I have always loved pleasing others and love cum.

 

[bimori]

As well you should.
It’s a really specialized fetish and many don’t care for it.

I did a thread on here about men with small cocks a few months ago.

 

[liqueur]

I have lived with that a very long time. When I was young I was made the designated fag because of small short little thing then when married I was made the cock sucker and creampie cleaner at our swinger parties. The wives would not let my thing touch them but I could clean them. I did not mind as I have always loved pleasing others and love cum.

I would have been happy to be in your shoes at these parties

 

[betabrad]

I have a smaller than avg sized penis. I do have fantasies about being teased about my small penis - being made to wear panties, being made to suck cock for a woman and being made to lick her cum filled pussy after she's been fucked by a big cock.

But even in my fantasies, I don't think the teasing is mean or cruel - like being called "worthless" or a "p.o.s" or slapped … etc... It seems to me that in a lot of stories here on Literotica, the sph is really taken to an extreme; not just playful teasing ( which I like) , but really mean and cruel.

 

[liqueur]

. . . It seems to me that in a lot of stories here on Literotica, the sph is really taken to an extreme; not just playful teasing ( which I like) , but really mean and cruel.

Yes, I agree. I'm pretty sure the guys who write those stories would not like that level of cruelty in RL. A lot of males, whatever the kink may be, seem to like the stories about that kink to be exaggerated to biblical proportions (or comic book proportions) in order to enjoy it. Not me, I like my erotica to be believable and what seems to be real. One of the reasons I prefer women writers. Just my own experience, but it seems to me that women are more apt to write believable erotica.