spanking

[Guest]

I'd really like my boyfriend to spank me as a part of foreplay, but am having a hard time asking him to do this to me. I get really turned on just thinking about him doing this to me. Any ideas? Also, do you men get turned on by spanking your women?
Thanks

 

[Hecate]

Here is a lot of people enjoying spankings around, ...

... so I trust you will get a few answers.

Here now my 2 cents...

best way to get what you want is ask for it - so maybe just asking would be an option ... maybe when you are cuddled up in bed with your lover tell him you had "this dream the other night and felt really turned on by it "?
Maybe you get a pleasant surprise by finding he would like to comply to your wishes willingly.

If you aren't good with words you might try to "invite" him by wiggling your bare butt invitingly, maybe just "smack" yourself playfully ... and just watch how he reacts...

Maybe you get a few pics from the internet and just show him .. sneak them in between other erotic pictures you know he will like?From his raction you maybe can see what his attitude is towards spankings - you might slide in a remark or two that you think it erotic... you catch my drift?

Maybe even print him a story from the internet (since you happen to be on an excellent erotic stories page there shouldn't be a problem finding something inspirational) to read when cuddled up together ?

Now, as for the "enjoying" .. I am not a guy but trust me - giving a spanking to an appreciative "victim" is a big turn on! Of course there are many men who are highly reluctant to involve any form of physical "violence". They are afraid to be "branded" as brutes and abusers and it is a subject to carefully approach , specially if there has been violence in earlier experiences of your lover.

Once you have settled into an acceptaple place of mind though it is a thrilling experience. The reddening of a butt - the power it gives you to feel the trust that your partner is accepting this "hands on" sensations from your hand ... delicious! Followed by some love making after the atmosphere is quite charged up!

Mhh - ok ... I better leave it at that and hope you get your lover interested! Enjoy - BOTH of you!

Ohh and one last remark - be ready to return the favour .. you never know

 

[SpiritRaven]

Personally, I don't get turned on by spanking women. However, you might wanna try taking his hand in your and spanking yourself with his hand, then let him know in your own way that it turns you on.

 

[Skitten]

My hubby had the same fear about spanking, until he and I tried it and how excited I became, but I was always afraid to ask. But talk to him an discuss your feeling. I know that when I get spanked and the tingle it sends up my hole body ohhh how I love it. Now to try spanking with a flogger or something else only tried with a b are hand.

 

[Guest]

Hey Everyone, thanks for the respones. I think I will have a talk with him.

Thanks again

 

[slavewriter69]

(MISTRESS HECATE SAYS).
Maybe you get a few pics from the internet and just show him .. sneak them in between other erotic pictures you know he will like?From his raction you maybe can see what his attitude is towards spankings - you might slide in a remark or two that you think it erotic... you catch my drift?

Maybe even print him a story from the internet (since you happen to be on an excellent erotic stories page there shouldn't be a problem finding something inspirational) to read when cuddled up together ?)

pics from the net is a great idea i agree with YOU.
in fact that's how my first MASTER started out.
i am no longer with HIM, but my new MASTER is the same way,
HE loves to spank me and make me HIS puppyslave.
as for the stories idea; i've been working on a spanking story, it's about a MISTRESS and HER femslave

slavewriter69

 

[slavewriter69]

MISTRESS HECATE'S website

on the spanking subject:
MISTRESS HECATE has some stories on spankingon HER site.
btw i loved the story about the stray dog in the bar

slavewriter69

 

[WillowWhip]

Ask him to pat your ass, tell him how wonderful it feels and just keep asking for more. As he does it ask for it to be harder. Let him see your enjoyment and if that doesn't work pout!! LOL