Spanking anyone?

[Amfig]

Re: A question though ...

How can the spankER read if the spankEE wants more? Or harder? In every fun thing I've tried there has to be a way to request MORE or LESS for things to go well.

So long as the spanking has not advanced to the point of bruises and welts, the spankee wants more.

 

[cymbidia]

Re: A question though ...

How can the spankER read if the spankEE wants more? Or harder? In every fun thing I've tried there has to be a way to request MORE or LESS for things to go well.

In the BDSM world - and even among just plain kinky folks - often specific words called "safe words" are used to indicate
"more! give me more!"
or
"slow down and give me some time to breathe, time to process this, so i don't freak out"
or
"stop right now motherfucker - STOP!"

Safe words. The standards are
GREEN for "give me more"
YELLOW for "slow it down, bucko" and
RED for stop this instant.

If you a SEARCH for "safe words" in the BDSM forum, you'll find out everthing you want to know about them - and if you don't, ask us, please. We all learn when new questions/suggestions/theories/concerns/etc are put to us.

 

[lovetoread]

Spanking is good.

 

[LusciousRedLips]

Re: WHACK

A good OTK and every 10 swats or so give her two to five rapid G-Gasms and then 10 swats. Alternate that back and forth. Keep it rapid and frenzied, pull her hair, lock only one leg down so she can kick the other around, keep one arm firmly over the small of her back so she feels (and IS ) trapped and can't get away. MAKE her submit just a little longer than she wants to. She'll be screaming and begging you to stop. Don't. Part of the thrill for her is NOT knowing if you'll just keep going until she goes completely nutz or passes out from the intensity. I don't think most women can continue this for more than two or three minutes once they start having G-Gasms. It is just too intense. The spanking combines the kinkiness and submission AND the GSpot orgasms can be administered almost like spanks..."WHAT did you call me? OK - That's TEN more!!" It is awesome.

Afterwards reward her with a COLD cold cream bum rub. Aloe Vera based body lotions are great. Put it in the fridge for a while first. When you start spreading the COLD cream over her red cheeks she'll melt. Keep her in that position and spread her thighs apart. Suck her clit (try not to drown) to a nice soft orgasm while she's still face down and your hands are still rubbing the cold cream across her steaming cheeks. She'll more than melt. She'll buy you a car. About a week after you do that for the first time take her out to dinner. Just as the main course is arriving remind her of the Spankings - G-Gasms night and tell her she's gonna get it even "worse" as soon as you get her ass home. By the time you are ready to leave she'll probably be too wet to get up. You'll have to fake a clutzy move and spill a glass of water in her lap so people won't see she was soaked BEFORE you spilled the glass of water.

Are all the men in Canada this good? I think I'm living on the wrong side of the border.

 

[alphacat]

cymbidia

cymbidia - that was wonderful
You should come over some time and try that out

 

[cymbidia]

Re: cymbidia

Oh i'd love to alphacat!

Well, except that you're on the other side of the country and it'd probably piss my dom off.

 

[Gil_T2]

Can't beat the traffic lights 4 safety words

When I was researching BDSM so I got it right and saw a piece on safety words in a site I knew it was something that was needed as stop or no have no meaning.I saw a movie with spankling in it and the lady was saying no,no please stop and the guy did and she said "why the fuck did you stop"

The RED,YELLOW (amber),GREEN has never failed with all the subs I've been lucky enough to have had and anyone interested in BDSM should for everyones safety use them and make sure you remind your sub of these before starting.

 

[SailorC272002]

I find erotic spanking very interesting, I will have to try it sometime.

 

[Powerone]

Spanking

If the females out there like their ass spanked, think about your lover spanking your pussy. Now that will drive you up the wall.

 

[SXCRgirl]

I find erotic spanking very interesting, I will have to try it sometime.

You do that Sailor and let us know what you think. I would offer to be your test subject but...

I don't want to get TOO excited at this time of night... *blush*

 

[SXCRgirl]

Re: Spanking

If the females out there like their ass spanked, think about your lover spanking your pussy. Now that will drive you up the wall.

Hmmmmmm, I don't know. Pussy spanking sounds painful to me.

 

[Guest]

Is that so bad?

I just posted a story on Literotica called "Subway ride". It shoulod be posted in the next few days. Read it, you might like it.

Powerone