djrip
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So my wife and I can get to be a little platonic sometimes. For months on end, at times. Or just weeks when things are better.
But recently she got a laser hair removal device. She wanted to take care of her pubic area. I expressed interest in doing the same with mine. The thing requires a fairly frequent schedule of treatments. Got to use it every two or three days, for months. We do it to each other. And you shave before you use it. It's been really great, actually, having a reason to pull and stretch the skin of her vulva, separate her labia and run my fingers over her skin as I carefully look for any hairs, vibrate her down there a bit with the electric manscaper (mine) that I use on her, and then go very thoroughly over every centimeter of the area with the laser device...
It's been exhilarating and thrilling, just that part. Just a great excuse to closely look and touch and feel, with no rush--got to do a thorough job after all.
And of course when she does me I try to relax, not have any expectations, but I can't help it. By the time she's done handling me, moving things around to get to all the areas, and applying the warm tingly zaps to each spot, well she ends up with quite a handful to deal with.
And sometimes that's all it is, just some mutual fondling and arousal in the course of taking care of business, and that's absolutely great having a reason to do that regularly, compared to weeks and months of nothing of the sort. But maybe half the time, the whole process is enough to get her interested in more. I've gone from once every couple of months, to maybe once or twice a week.
I highly recommend spa night partnerships to any couple, but especially any couple where perhaps a bit of regularly scheduled not-necessarily-sexual genital touching could be just the ticket to a renewed sense of intimacy and closeness.
But recently she got a laser hair removal device. She wanted to take care of her pubic area. I expressed interest in doing the same with mine. The thing requires a fairly frequent schedule of treatments. Got to use it every two or three days, for months. We do it to each other. And you shave before you use it. It's been really great, actually, having a reason to pull and stretch the skin of her vulva, separate her labia and run my fingers over her skin as I carefully look for any hairs, vibrate her down there a bit with the electric manscaper (mine) that I use on her, and then go very thoroughly over every centimeter of the area with the laser device...
It's been exhilarating and thrilling, just that part. Just a great excuse to closely look and touch and feel, with no rush--got to do a thorough job after all.
And of course when she does me I try to relax, not have any expectations, but I can't help it. By the time she's done handling me, moving things around to get to all the areas, and applying the warm tingly zaps to each spot, well she ends up with quite a handful to deal with.
And sometimes that's all it is, just some mutual fondling and arousal in the course of taking care of business, and that's absolutely great having a reason to do that regularly, compared to weeks and months of nothing of the sort. But maybe half the time, the whole process is enough to get her interested in more. I've gone from once every couple of months, to maybe once or twice a week.
I highly recommend spa night partnerships to any couple, but especially any couple where perhaps a bit of regularly scheduled not-necessarily-sexual genital touching could be just the ticket to a renewed sense of intimacy and closeness.
