Soulmates

[Moonlove1990]

Do you believe in soulmates? Someone you can connect with on every level and be completely content with?

 

[Killswitch1]

Words. They're just words.

The soul mate stuff lasts for that six month period when you're thinkin the sex is great, you have the googly eyes and he or she liked something you said.

Then it boils down to "we get along pretty good"

Enjoy it. While it lasts, but I've had "soul mates" turn into raging blue balling psychotic, cunts.

So. Keep that in mind.

 

[Bert Notorius]

Do you believe in soulmates? Someone you can connect with on every level and be completely content with?

it's a total crap shoot
what works is
hard work
everyday

 

[Hard_Rom]

Rumour has it they are called a wife or husband. No experience with marriage myself except someone else's wife.

 

[girlsmiley]

Do you believe in soulmates? Someone you can connect with on every level and be completely content with?

I don't know if I believe in the concept of soulmates, but I'm seeing someone I connect with on a level that I have never experienced before.

 

[Mrtenant]

Ehhh no!

 

[GimpyIntellect]

I don't know if I believe in the concept of soulmates, but I'm seeing someone I connect with on a level that I have never experienced before.

Your shrink?

 

[hashtag45]

Is this like a time machine?
The last time I heard this question, I was in high school.

 

[Bert Notorius]

Is this like a time machine?
The last time I heard this question, I was in high school.

you heard it

last week?

 

[silver gurl]

Your shrink?

Ok I laughed.

 

[pink]

In the past I would have to say, yes. Now that I am older, I would have to say no.

I think there are many people you are compatible with. Now finding them is the hard part.

 

[girlsmiley]

Ok I laughed.

You would you psycho bitch. What happened to the "be nice to everyone" bullshit you tried to pull with me? Fuck off.

 

[girlsmiley]

Your shrink?

No.

In the past I would have to say, yes. Now that I am older, I would have to say no.

I think there are many people you are compatible with. Now finding them is the hard part.

I think I may have found mine.

 

[Debbie]

Do I believe in soul mates? I am pondering this as I type. To be honest I guess it depends what each individuals perception of what a soul mate is or means.


soulmate
ˈsəʊlmeɪt/
noun
noun: soul-mate
a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner.

Urban Dictionary: soulmate
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=soulmate
Top Definition. soulmate. A person with whom you have an immediate connection the moment you meet -- a connection so strong that you are drawn to them


Our eyes met across my doorstep as I opened the door to this stranger that I was going to take a chance with and go on a blind date. I was nervous and telling myself this was stupid. I'm extremely shy and almost never do anything out of my comfort zone. (Unless it's for my children and then I'm a fierce bitch lol)

Sooooooooooo back to the story. I opened the door with shaky hand, knocking knees all dressed up and ready to go. He was nearly 6 ft, red hair, freckles wearing a cheeky grin, a glint in his eye, well dressed in jeans, boots and an open necked white shirt with flowers in hand and a bottle of wine. I smiled more broadly as I admired his fantastic red hair and wicked grin and he looked back at me and stepped back. As if in horror. An automatic recoil, a step back and retreat move.

Turns out he had it in his mind that I was a blonde with long straight hair and my long naturally curly hair threw him for a loop or lol so he tells his side of the story.

Anyhooo I liked the look of him. I felt drawn to him but was so nervous and acted like a 14 year old watching the cute boy at school and getting tongue tied, clammy hands and the inability to put two words together when he asks if you've got the maths assignment sheet 'cos he has lost his.

We went on our date. Hit it off and he asked me to marry him after 6 months of dating. He got very sick and I nearly lost him. I knew I loved him but when he was having open heart surgery I realized if I lost him it would be like losing the last piece of a puzzle I had been doing for years and would never be complete again.


We got married after 3 years and ended up blending our two families as one.



We don't finish each others sentences. We don't connect with each other on every level and for the most part I am very content with him.

So in summation the term soul mate is something I think everybody interprets it differently.

 

[Tigersman]

I discovered my soulmate quite by accident. We dated for about a year. It was during this time she told me she had broken up with two previous boyfriends because they weren't going where she was. I lost my job through no fault of my own and was having trouble finding another in my field. I felt she was going to dump me so I made a preemptive strike by breaking up with her. I lied to her about the reasons for the breakup. I ended up going into a deep depression, could not eat or sleep but did try to commit suicide. It was six years before I let another woman close.

 

[LadyVer]

Do you believe in soulmates? Someone you can connect with on every level and be completely content with?

No, and no, although it would be nice.

 

[1HF]

I don't necessarily believe in one soulmate, but I do believe that there is a rare special someone out there. Sure, there are lots of people you could be compatible with, but finding something more can happen and should be cherished.

I wouldn't want to settle for "we get along pretty good".

 

[Noor]

Do you believe in soulmates? Someone you can connect with on every level and be completely content with?

Yes, I think so.

In the past I would have to say, yes. Now that I am older, I would have to say no.

I think there are many people you are compatible with. Now finding them is the hard part.

I am the opposite, for much of my life I believed there were many people I would be compatible with but soul mates didn't exist.
I still believe there are many people I would be compatible with but also that some people are can be soul mates.
I agree that sex can sway a person, so it helps if you take somehow take sex out of the equation to see if you still feel that way.

 

[Noor]

Words. They're just words.

The soul mate stuff lasts for that six month period when you're thinkin the sex is great, you have the googly eyes and he or she liked something you said.

Then it boils down to "we get along pretty good"

Enjoy it. While it lasts, but I've had "soul mates" turn into raging blue balling psychotic, cunts.

So. Keep that in mind.

I think being in lust and infatuation is what you are describing above. It doesn't last because reality sets in, but I think it's different than soul mates. People who love you unconditionally and whom you love unconditionally in return, warts and all might, be a better description of soul mate.

 

[Aglaopheme]

Absolutely in both ways stated in the definition that Debbie posted, both as friends and lovers, or in my case lover.

 

[cookiecat]

<snip> I realized if I lost him it would be like losing the last piece of a puzzle I had been doing for years and would never be complete again.
<snip>

Pretty much this.

 

[Noor]

Pretty much this.

I know this feeling too well, unfortunately.

 

[Aglaopheme]

I totally skimmed over that part of Debbie's post. I call my fella puzzle piece.

 

[Noor]

I called mine my silverlining among other things

 

[cookiecat]

I know this feeling too well, unfortunately.

I'm in the process of losing my puzzle piece.

I totally skimmed over that part of Debbie's post. I call my fella puzzle piece.